Kutheni ephupha, unina ufe njani?
Ukubona kwiphupha umama ofileyo ohlala ephilileyo kwaye enempilo, kuthetha ukuba ibhinqa liza kuhlala ixesha elide kwaye xa isifo esibi esiya kuyenza siyibuyise. Kodwa le ngcaciso ichazwe ngokubanzi. Ngoko, umzekelo, kubafazi abaye babona le phupha, umama uyisimboli sothando, ukunakekelwa nokukhuselwa. Mhlawumbi ebomini bakho akukho zihlandlo ezilula, iimbopheleleko ezininzi, kubandakanywa namadoda, ngoku ulala ngamagxa akho athathaka. Kwezinye iincwadi zokuphupha, unokufumana ukutolika ngokubhekiselele kuyo, ngokukhawuleza uza kutsala umntu obuthathaka ebomini bakho okanye ukhetho lwakho lwangoku luya kuba njalo.
Ukongezelela, ukuba umama ephupheni uswelekile, ke oku kuwuphawu oluqinisekileyo lokuba abathandekayo bakho badinga ukunakekelwa nenkxaso. Kwintombazana encinci, ukuba intliziyo ibanjwe uthando, iphupha elinjengalo lingabonakalisa ukubonakala ebomini bomntu oza kubangela iimvakalelo zakhe zomama. Kubazali bomntwana omncinci, lo mfanekiso usebenza njengomqondiso womntwana wakho ofuna ukunakwa kunye nomdla. Ukungahoyi lo mqondiso kunokubangela ukuba umntwana aqhagamshelane nenkampani embi kwixesha elizayo.
Ukuba ubhekisela kwincwadi yephupha likaMiller, ngoko ukufa komama wakho kuyisixwayiso malunga nosongelo lobomi bokwenene. Ukubona kwiphupha lomntu ofileyo wabemi - ulindele iimvavanyo ezinzulu, mamela indlebe yesihlobo esifileyo - kwiindaba ezimbi. Ukuba umntu ebomini ngokwenene sele sele efile, kwaye ephupheni ubona lo mntu evuya kwaye enemihlali, ngoko mhlawumbi kunokwenzeka ukuba wenze iphutha eliya kuthi lichaphazele kakubi i-destiny yakho.
Kutheni ubona iphupha apho umama ofileyo ephilileyo?
Iphupha elinjalo alinakuvela ngaphandle kwesizathu. Kungenzeka ukuba umntu wakho ozalwayo uzama ukunxibelelana nawe, ukukhupha okanye ukunika iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokusebenza kule nto okanye kuloo meko. Ngoko ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhumbuza oko wakuva kumlomo kamama wakho. Ngokuqhelekileyo, iphupha elinjalo luphawu oluhle kumntu ophuphayo, ekubeni emva kokubona, ebomini kukho izihlandlo ezivuyisayo kunye nenhlanhla.
Kubantu, iphupha elinjalo lithetha ukuba yimpumelelo emsebenzini wakhe. Zonke iiprojekthi eziqalile ziya kuzisa iingeniso ezilungileyo. Kodwa ezinye iincwadi zephupha zilumkisa ukuba emva kwexesha emva kokulala, awukwazi ukuboleka imali - ucela ubuhlwempu.
Ngokusekelwe kwezi zinguqulelo, unako ukuzola: iphupha ngokuphathelele umama ofileyo alibanga ingozi kuye okanye kubomi bakho. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akuyiyo into emnandi xa umcangcobo uphonsa amabali anjalo, kodwa ngumfanekiso nje kwaye akukho nto eyoyikisayo. Wonke amaphupha amahle kwaye amnandi kuwe!