Ukutolika: kutheni iphupha lokuhlukana nomntu okanye umtshato kunye nomlingane
Nangona kukho intlekele ekhoyo ephupheni, abaninzi abaguquleli batyhila umfanekiso ofanayo njengophawu olungileyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, amantombazana aphupha ukuhlukana, cinga ukuba oku kuza kwenzeka kungekudala ubomi boqobo. Kodwa ungakhathazeki, kuba ukutolika kuthetha okuchaseneyo. Ngokukhawuleza, kuya kubakho ukuthembela kunye nokuvumelana phakathi kobudlelwane bakho. Kungenzeka ukuba iimvakalelo zakho ziya kutshintshwa kwinqanaba elitsha.
Uqhawulo lomtshato ovela kumyeni wamanje uthi ulungiswe kule ndoda. Kwakhona, mhlawumbi, awuxeleli umyeni wakho oko kungaba sisizathu sokungabaza wena kunye neemvakalelo zakho. Iingubo zeetoli ziyichaza eli phupha njengento echazayo ezayo malunga nolwalamano okanye uhlazo lomlingane.
Ukuba umphuphi wacinga lo mfanekiso kunye nokwahlukana phakathi kobudlelwane okanye umtshato okwenziwe ebomini bakhe bokwenene, oko kuthetha kuphela into enye: ibhinqa lijongene nalo mcimbi kakhulu, kwaye iimvakalelo ziqala ukucetywa kwindlela ecacileyo.
Ukuba ndiphupha ukuba loo mntu wayefuna ukuhamba
Iphupha apho umqalisi wephulo ebudlelwaneni phakathi kwakho nentombazana, ngenye indlela, isilumkiso sokuthi ukukhohlisa okanye iimvakalelo zakhe sele zipholile. Kungenzeka ukuba iphupha elinjalo lingaba yinto yokunyamekela okwenene. Zama ukuthetha nomfana wakho ngeemvakalelo zakhe ngawe.
Xa ephusheni umthandayo ufuna ukuhlukana nawe ngenxa yokungcatsha okanye ukukhohlisa, ngoko kulungele ukuhlaziya iimvakalelo zakho. Mhlawumbi kungekudala emva koko, lo mphupha ulindele ukuba wazi kakuhle nomntu oza kuba ngumdlali ophumelelayo kunokuba umfana wakhe wamanje.
Umbala wombala wephupha
Ukuqhubela phambili, ukucela ukuba uqhubeke nolwalamano lwangaphambili - uphathwa njengengqiqo kunye nokunyaniseka komnye nomnye. Kwakhona kubonisa ukuba uvakalelwa ngokwenene nemvakalelo efudumeleyo kukhethiweyo wakho.
Bhala ephupheni. Ngokuqhelekileyo, nayiphi na iinyembezi, kungakhathaliseki ukuba nemihlali okanye intlungu, ichazwa njengolonwabo oluphuphayo okanye iindaba ezilungileyo. Kukho nawuphi na, ngokukhawuleza nawuphi na umcimbi uya kukuvuyisa.
Isithuba esamkelekileyo ngokungathandabuzeki sinokutolika njengendawo yokuhlala ubomi obungenanto. Awunakulindela nayiphi na inguqu ebonakalayo engcono.
Ukuqhubela phambili ngasentla, ngoko, nawaphi amaphupha okuhlukana nomfana, uninzi oluchaseneyo ngokupheleleyo. Ingcaciso yokugqibela iya kuxhomekeka kwindlela esi siganeko esenzeke ngayo ngcamango yakho, kwaye yiyiphi imvakalelo oye wayibona xa uyenza.