Siza kuxubusha kwangaphambili ukuba ukuvisisana kolunye uhlobo "akafuni, kodwa andiyidingi", oku akunjalo. Siza kuqwalasela ukuvisisana kwabantu abathandanayo, abanomdla kunye.
Ngoko, makhe sijonge ukuba senzeni ukwenzela ukuphumelelana nomntu.
Uthando.
Okokuqala, ngokuqinisekileyo uthando luthandana, ngaphandle kwalo, njani ungeke udale ubudlelwane obuhle kakhulu. Indlela yokuthanda ngayo asiyi kuqwalasela, ngenxa yempendulo, lo mbuzo uluntu lubetha iminyaka emininzi kwaye kude kubekho iziphumo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo umdla.
Kwakhona, ngokuvisisana nomntu, ukufana kweembono kubalulekile, kufuneka ube neminqweno efanayo, into onokuyenza kunye. Ukuba akunjalo, zama ukumdlala ngento enomdla kuwe. Okanye ungaba nomdla kwizinto ezithandekayo kuye. Kule nkalo, le nkalo ilandelayo indawo yendawo.
Isithuba somntu.
Ukuba khona kwendawo yendawo, into ebalulekileyo, kufuneka icatshungulwe xa uya kufumana umdla oqhelekileyo kunye nomntu. Emva kwakho konke, awukwazi ukuyenza yonke into kunye kunye, ngoko ke uya kutshatyalaliswa kungekudala. Ngoko ke, ukukhangela iimfuno ezifanayo kufuneka kwenziwe ngokukhawuleza. Ukuzama ukungagxininisi kakhulu indawo yomntu, kholwa kwam, kungekudala kamva umntu uya kuziveza, kodwa oku kuthatha ixesha. Kule meko, kuyimfuneko ukuxoxa, ukuze umntu wakho angafune ukukhawulela ngokugqithiseleyo.
Ukuthetha.
Ukufezekisa ukuvisisana ngobudlelwane, kufuneka ube nesabelo esibalulekileyo kuwe. Ukuba awuyithandi into ethile kumntu okanye ngokuphambene nento, uyinto evela kwinto ethile. Mxelele. Ukuba unengxaki emsebenzini, bahlobo, babelane naye. Naye, naye, akafanele aqokelele kuye ngokwakhe iimvakalelo zakhe ezibalulekileyo, iingcamango neemvakalelo.
Ukuphulaphula.
Oku kubangelwa kumhlathi wangaphambili, ukuba uthetha nomnye, kufuneka ukwazi ukuphulaphula. Nangona ngamanye amaxesha isihloko asikufuphi kuwe kwaye siyaqondakala. Zama ukuxhasana kunye nokuphulaphula. Emva koko, into oyithethayo ibaluleke kakhulu kuwe kokubili.
Xolela.
Abantu abafezekanga, kwaye konke oko. Ngoko ngokuvisisana nomntu, kufuneka ukwazi ukuxolela, uyayidinga, kwaye uneempazamo zakho. Emva koko, umntu kufuneka amthande ngokugcwele, kunye neentsilelo zakhe kunye nobuchule bakhe.
Intlonipho.
Kwiimeko ezininzi, isiseko salezo zintwalamano zomtshato (ngaphandle koluthando lwenkcazo) kuhlonelana omnye njengomntu. Kwaye oku akufanele kuxhomekeke kwiimeko zentlalo, isimo semali kunye nezinye iimpawu. Indoda i-academician imele ihloniphe umfazi wayo umfazi, kwaye umfazi weqabane le-shishini kufuneka ahloniphe indoda yakhe, injini elula. Kule meko kukho ukuvumelana phakathi kwabatshatileyo.
Ukuvisisana kwangaphakathi.
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, okokugqibela, kodwa kungengona mncinci. Ukubambisana kwangaphandle (kunye nendoda, kunye nehlabathi, kunye nezihlobo) nabani na, kufuneka ufezekise ngaphakathi, kunye nawe. Emva koko, kuphela umntu ovisisanayo ngaphakathi, angakha ubudlelwane obuhambelana nomntu.
Kuzo zonke ezi ngasentla, unokongeza ukuba udibanise nomntu. Umsebenzi wobabini uyadingeka, umntu akakwazi ukuza ngokuvumelana ngoku. Inokufezekiswa kuphela xa sihamba kunye kule njongo. Ngoko ukusuka kumntu udinga ukubuyela okufanayo njengawe.