Nangona kunjalo, ukuqina emzimbeni, nokufudumala kusasa kubalulekile. Ukuzivocavoca kwasekuseni akusivumeli ukuba sivuswe nje ngokukhawuleza, kukuvumela ukuba uphumele umzimba wonke kwaye uhlawule ngamandla usuku lonke. Ukusetyenziswa kwemini kusiza umzimba ukuba "ufumane", kuba umzimba womntu yinkqubo enzima kakhulu efuna isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kukulungele ukuqeqesha ukuqeqeshwa kwentsasa ukususela ebuntwaneni, kuba umntwana, ukusetyenziswa kwentsasa kungeyona indlela yokuvuka, njengendlela yokufunda into entsha, kuquka nawe.
Ukuba ucinga ngalo, ukufudumala komntwana kusasa kunomlinganiselo owongezelelweyo kunye nomsebenzi wokufundisa ofundisa umntwana kunye nomzimba wakhe kwi-regime ethile. Kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba izifundo zokusa ngomntwana azikho iimpahla, kufuneka ziphindwe rhoqo imihla. Kule meko umntwana uya kufunda ukuvuka ngexesha elithile, ngoko, ngokulandelanayo, kwaye alele ngexesha. Ukunyanzela umntwana kwimithetho ethile yeminyaka yokuqala, abazali abachaphazeli nje ukukhula kwakhe ngokomzimba, kodwa nokujonga kwakhe imithetho ethile, ekuhambeni kwexesha kuya kuba ngaphezulu. Ukongeza kuzo zonke ezi ngasentla, ukufudumala kusasa kunye nomama, ubawo okanye bobabini, banceda ukuzisa izinto ezintsha ngexesha lokulala phakathi kwabazali nomntwana.
Ukusetyenziswa kwansasa kwansuku zonke, kuya kuthintela iimboniselo ezingaphezulu zentsana. Ukususela ebuntwaneni ufunda ukunyamekela impilo yakhe, ufunda ukuqonda iimfuno zomzimba wakhe, kwixesha elizayo loo mveliso inokuthi ithathe indawo yempembelelo enokuthi ingabikho phantsi kwefuthe lezigwenxa kunye nabanye, kwaye mhlawumbi umntwana uya kulwa nemikhwa eyahlukeneyo efana nokutshaya, utswala kunye neziyobisi .
Ukusetyenziswa kwemini kungekuphela kokukhokelela umzimba womntwana kwindawo yesibini, kodwa uya kuhlawulwa kwakhona ngokuqinisekileyo ukususela ekuqaleni komhla. Akunandaba nokuba ngaba ezi zinto ziyafana njani. Ingaba oku kuluhlobo oluthile lokuzivocavoca olususwe kwimidlalo okanye nokuba luya kuba ngumgangatho wesiseko weemithambeka, ukuxuma kunye nezikwere ezenziwe ngumama okanye ubaba kumculo ozithandayo akubalulekanga. Into ephambili kukuba umntwana akhange atye ukusetyenziswa, ukuze afune ukwenza oko kanye, mhlawumbi uya kuphazamiseka yinto enomdla kuye okwangoku kwaye akayi kubeka ingqalelo kwizinto ezinikwe kuye.
Ukongeza kuzo zonke iinkcukacha ezingentla kunye nezenzo zokusasa nomntwana, ndingathanda ukuphawula ukuba imisebenzi enjalo, ekubeni ngumkhwa, iya kuba nefuthe kumntu wendoda encinci. Baya kumvumela ukuba aqhubekeke, kuya kuba ngumzekelo oya kubonisa ukuba kulungile ukwenza imizamo ethile yokufezekisa iinjongo ezithile. Umntwana uya kukhula kunye nombono wokuthi kukho izinto omele uyenze, umzekelo, ukuxubha amazinyo, ubukele ucoceko lwakho, jonga kwaye wenze ukuzivocavoca ukuze ube namandla kwaye uphilile.
Ukuzivocavoca iimvavanyo zentsasa zezingane
Ngezantsi ndingathanda ukuphakamisa inguqu ekhoyo malunga nokufudumala kwelanga, okubangela ukuba nomdla kumntwana.
Ukuhla ukufudumala kusasa, ungamema umntwana ukuba enze ukunyakaza okukopisha naziphi na izilwanyana, abalinganiswa bebhali, abaculi abanothando. Oku kuya kunceda ukutsala ingqalelo yomntwana kunye nomdla kuye. Umzekelo:
Masibonise "ilanga"
Le ndlela ingasetyenziselwa ukubetha umsebenzi onjalo, njengokuphakanyiswa kwezandla. Ukubeka izibambo kumacala kunye nokuzikhetha, siya kuba mncinci, kwaye sizithathe, sifike ilanga okanye siqhube amafu etafula.
Bonisa "bunny"
Iindlela ezinjalo ziya kukuvumela ukuba udibanise kwaye udlale ukuxuma okuqhelekileyo.
Sihamba "endleleni"
Ukusebenzisa i-ribbon, ibrawu okanye i-hank yemicu eqaqambileyo njenge "indlela", unokwenza iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuhamba: phambili, ngasemva, ecaleni, iinqununu, njl. Okanye vele nento enje.
Siza kubonisa i- "heron"
Ukubonisa i-heron, unokwenza usebenze ngendlela yezinyathelo ngokuphakama okukhulu kwamadolo, okanye ukufudumala, ukuma ngokukodwa kokuqala emlenzeni omnye, ngoko ke kwenye.