USigmund Freud wathi zonke izinto ezifumeneyo kwihlabathi zenziwa egameni lesini. Inkolelo, yebo, iyinto engqubuzanayo, kodwa nantsi into engaqhelekanga: umntu wokuqala owenza uthando esibhakabhakeni nguLawrence Sperry, umqambi we-autopilot. Uzuko lomqhubi wezesondo uSperry wanqoba ngoNovemba 1916, xa i-airplane apho yena nomfundi wakhe beyiyo, yaphazamiseka. Ngethamsanqa, bobabini babesaphila, kodwa abahlanguli bafika baza bafumana behamba ngokuze.
Ngoku, xa zonke iinqwelo-moya zijongene ngokuthotyelwa kwemimiselo yokhuseleko, isondo kwi-moya lifikeleleke kwizinto ezihamba phambili: ukufezekisa injongo ofuna ukuyibeka abagibeli nabaphambene.
Abantu abanesibindi baya kufumana inkcazelo ebalulekileyo yeengxaki ezinkulu kunye neengcebiso zokubanceda bahambe.
Isithintelo: abagibeli
Ezi zijonge zijonge kwaye zihlala zindlu yangasese. Ngokubalulekileyo, ukuba ukhangelelene, indlu yangasese kwiiplanti ihlala ixakekile, kuba wonke umntu emoyeni uyaxhalabisa kwaye asela kakhulu.
Kodwa ukuba ukhetha uhambo olufanelekileyo (umzekelo, ngaphesheya kwe-Atlantic) kwaye unomonde okwaneleyo, kungekudala okanye emva koko abagibeli abasebenza kakhulu baya kulala, kwaye uya kunandipha ubulili obukhulu, izintelezi kunye nobungozi kunye nomlingane. Ngendlela, kucetyiswa ukuba ulungiselele "usebenze okhethekileyo" kwisikhululo-moya: xa ubhalisa, cela iindawo ezikufutshane kweso sikhephe, ngoko awuyi kuphazamisa abamelwane abalele.
Ukuba ngokukhawuleza umntu othile kwi-cabin akapheleli, zama ukutshintshisa i-malaise encinane uze ubuze iqabane ukuba likuyise kwindlu yangasese. Into ephambili, ekuhambeni kwendlela, ungakulibali ukuthatha ukubukeka kokungakhathazeki kwakhona, okanye ubuncinane ungayi kuphazamiseka.
Unako ukuzama kwaye, ngaphandle kokushiya izihlalo zakho, kodwa kwimeko apho uhlala kwimigca yangemuva, ubaleke ebusuku, kwaye i-cabin igcwaliswe, kuphela kwisithathu. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuba akukho bantwana kwi-cabin! Ukuba umntu omdala, xa igumbi lihlala khona, uyakwazi ukunyamezela, ubuncinane ngaphandle kwentlonipho, umntwana uya kuqubuka aze avulele umnyango kuye.
Abaphathi abenzi! Kodwa ukuba ngenxa yecandelo elizikhukhumeleyo elithi "iwaka elineshumi" wena kunye nomthandane wakho ulungele ukunikela isidlo sakusihlwa, ngoko ngokukhawuleza ukuba kukho abaphathi abahamba ngeloyilo ekuqaleni kwendima, qhubela phambili! Kuwe phantse ithuba elilodwa kuphela elikhuselekileyo, kuba kwisiqingatha esilandelayo i-crew iya kuba matasa kunye nenkonzo, kunye nabagibeli-ngokuxutywa kokutya, kwaye akukho mntu uya kukunyamekela.
Kodwa mhlawumbi ukuba "ukulala ngesidlo sasemini" akuzange kusebenze, ungakhathazeki, phambi kootitshala onokuhlala udlala ukusebenza okufanayo kunye nabagibeli - uziva kakubi, kwaye isithandwa sakho sinceda. Kuyafana novavanyo olufanayo ukuba uchaze ukuba usabanjwe kwidokodo yodwa. Kuphela nakweyiphi na imeko, yenza ngokukhawuleza, kungekho ngaphezu kwemizuzu engama-15; ngaphandle koko iingcango ezivaliweyo zingabangela ukukrokra okukhulu kunye nokwesaba.
Iingxowa kwiibhanoyi zincinci, ngoko ukukhethwa kwezikhundla kuncinci kwaye kuxhomekeke ngqo kukukhula kwakho nokukhula komlingane. Ukuba ubunzima bukuvumela ukuba uqonde, zama ukuma phambi kwendawo yokuhlambela, uze uvumele iqabane lihambe emva (mhlawumbi le yinto ekhethekileyo kakhulu). Ngenye indlela, sincoma: hlala ubhekane no-MCH yakho, uze ufake inyawo enye kwisitya yangasese. Musa ukulibala ukujonga ukuba i-lid isavaliwe!
Ukuba umile awufanelanga (okanye ngokukhawuleza idiza iya kungena kwindawo yokuqhuma), wabeka iqabane lakho kwisibhambathiso sendlu yangasese kwaye uqondise inkqubo ukusuka kwindawo "uphezulu". Khangela ukuba ubunzima bakho buya kumelana nesitya sokuhlamba okanye itafile eguqukayo, akufanelekanga: sele sele bahlolisise-abakwazi ukuma!
Ngendlela, kwakhona kwakhona malunga nokulungiselela: ungakulibali ukugqoka ingubo! Ngeentambo kwiimeko zendawo enqinciweyo, awukwazi ukukwenza ngokukhawuleza.