Ngamhla, phantse zonke iindaba ezixhamlileyo zisasazwa ngeentlobano zesini ngendlela enye. Abalawuli bezinye iintlanga kunye nabanye abavelisi beefilimu, kunye nokulungelelaniswa kwemisebenzi yesiqhelo, musa ukuba kubalulekile ukukhupha izigcawu zothando. Ngoko ke, bambalwa abantu bayamangaliswa kukuba abantu abatsha baqala ukulala ngesantya. Ngaloo nto, ootitshala bazama ukulwa esikolweni noogqirha, kuba ubulili buhle kwimpilo kuphela xa bahlala kwiminyaka ethile, kwaye kungenjalo akuncedi nonke.
Imiphumo engenzekayo yobomi bokuqala besondo
Ukubonakaliswa kumgangatho wangaphakathi wezitho zobulili ngexesha lomncinci lomlingane kuletha usongelo lokuvuvukala, ukuguguleka komzimba wesibeleko, oza kukhula ube ngumhlaza, kunomngcipheko omkhulu "wokubamba" naluphi na uhlobo lwesifo se-venereal. Into leyo kukuba ukubunjwa kweenkqubo zesini zesondo akusafiki, kwaye i-microflora yangaphakathi ayinayo iipropati ezikhuselekileyo. Ukongeza koku ngasentla, isondo sangaphambili kunokukhokelela ekukhulelweni okungafunekiyo, okuyiyo inokusongela iingxaki ezahlukahlukeneyo, kwaye akukhona ukuba intombazana ikhetha ukuzala okanye iza kukhishwa isisu, iziphumo ezimbi zomzimba wakhe ziza kuba zikhulu kunokuba zithande kangakanani nasiphi na isiphumo sokukhulelwa kwangaphambili.
Kwakhona, ubudlelwane phakathi kwendlela yokuqala intombazana eqala ngayo ubomi bobulili kwaye amathuba okuqala kwezifo zakhe ze-oncological ziye zatshengiswa ngokwesayensi.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, umfazi ukhumbula ulwabelana naye ngokwesondo kuqala nomntu bonke ubomi bakhe. Emva koko, kuxhomekeke kwinqanaba lokuqala lolwalamano lwaso lwesini kunye nolwabelana ngesondo. Yinto enye ukuba ngokokuqala ngqa izinto zenzeke kumntu othandekayo kwisimo sothando kunye neemeko ezintle, xa bobabini bafuna ukwenza konke ngokufanelekileyo nangokuchanekileyo ngaphandle kokukhawuleza nokunyaniseka. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba isondo sokuqala, ingakumbi ngexesha lokusasa, ngumphumo weqela elingacacanga, xa utywala lufuba ingqondo, kwaye into yokugqibela ebini bacinga ngayo ngeengalo zomnye ayiyithuthuzeleli, iyathuthuzela kwaye, ngelanga, ayiyikukhulelwa.
Ewe, ukuba esikhathini esizayo, isipiliyoni sokuqala esingaphumeleli siba ngumphumo wokuphucula, ukuqonda kwakho kunye nezakhono zakho kwi-sex-sector. Kodwa kwenzeka kwakhona ukuba umbono wokuqala ongathandekiyo wowesifazane olandelayo emva kokuphila kwakhe kwangaphambili, unokubangela ukuba aphumelelane nolwalamano kunye namadoda kwaye akaqulunqe ubomi bomntu.
Ngokuqhelekileyo isizathu sokuba abantu abatsha baqale ukuhlala ngokwesondo kwaye banesidenge, okanye nabani na ofuna ukungabi mbi okanye mhlawumbi bawela emva kwe "bahlobo" kunye nabo bajikeleze ixesha elide bazama yonke into bathi ngubani ubuntombi obu-16 asikho isizathu sokuzikhukhumeza.
Kwaye emva kokuphulaphula abahlobo abanobulumko nabaphambili, intombazana eneminyaka eli-15 ifumanisa ukuba ukhulelwe, kwaye ngokwemvelo ilahleka. Ngenxa yokuba Izihlobo ezihlakaniphile zifundisa ukuba zingabancedi, ngokubhekiselele kwimeko engemuva yengqondo yintsholongwane iqala ukudandatheka, nto leyo ayikuvumeli ukuba ufune uncedo kubazali, kwaye oko kunokukhokelela ekubeni ukhuphe isisu okanye ukuzibulala.
Ukuba kunjalo, ukuba intombazana iphendule ibe yomelele kwaye ibe nesibindi, kwaye izimisele ukuzala, akuzona zonke izilwanyana ezincinane ezinokukwazi ukujamelana nemiphumo emibi ngaphandle kwemiphumo njengokukhulelwa kokuqala kunye nokubeletha. Abafazi abangaphantsi kwe-17 bahlala kwiqela elijongene nobungozi oludibanisa abo basongelwa ukukhulelwa kwesisu kunye neentsana ezingaphambi kwexesha kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zentsholongwane.
Ukungaphumelelanga kwexesha lokuqala, njengoko kuthinteka kakubi kunye namadoda amancinci, kunye nezifo ezithathelwana ngesondo kunye nokuvutha kwabo besongelwa yimiphumo engathandeki yengqondo, ezayo kwixesha elizayo.
Olunye ulwazi lweenkcukacha.
Ngenxa yoluphando lwezenzululwazi kunye nophando lwaye lwaziwa ukuba amazwe achaphazelekayo kunye nezinye iingxaki zengqondo ziphantsi:
- Ama-25% - amantombazana asetsheni ahlala ngesondo.
- 7.7% - amantombazana aselula asebuntwaneni abanokuphila ngokwesondo abangahlali.
Kubantu abancinci, le datha iyancipha, kodwa kusekho abantu abesilisa abasetyhini abasemngciphekweni.
Isiphumo esiphezulu sophando lwezenzululwazi yinto yokuba isondo sangaphambili lichaphazela kakubi ingqondo yengqondo yomntwana, kwaye iyakwazi ukukhokelela kwimiphumo emibi, ukuzibulala. Ngoko ke, amava okuqala ngesondo kubantu abaselula kufuneka abe emva kokufika kweminyaka yobudala, kwaye kubantu abatsha emva kweentombazana, ngenxa yeempawu zengqondo yabo yengqondo.