Imikhosi yomtshato - yintoni na?
Ukuhamba ngohambo lokutshatyalaliswa kwenyango, abantu abasandul 'ukutshatyalaliswa bamele baphile ndawonye kunye nokubhiyozela okukhulu, ukuthandana nokuthandana.
I-honeymoon ithatyathwa yimihla yesiqhelo njengolunye, ulonwabo olungakhathaliyo ngesisombululo semisebenzi emincinci yemihla ngemihla, i-romanticism - ngokuzama ukudibanisa kunye nokugqithisa ngokugqithiseleyo kumfanekiso owodwa umbono womntu womtshato ohlala kunye kunye nokwenza ibhizinisi.
Kwaye ngoku ulungelelaniso lwezindlu lusondela kwisigaba sokugqibela, umzuzu we-so-called "lapping" uye wanyulwa ngempumelelo, imisebenzi encinci yasemakhaya sele isasazwa phakathi kwabatshatileyo kwaye ibulawa ngokuzenzekelayo. Kubonakala ngathi ngoku lixesha lokuphila ngokufanelekileyo, kwaye ngoko ke uxolo lwentsapho noluxolweni. Kulo nqanaba lolwalamano, njengomthetho, umoya onobundlobongela otshintsho-ukuzalwa komntwana oza kuphuma endlwini. Ubusuku obuthongo, i-diapers, inqwaba yeetayipi ezihlakazekile kunye neentonga ezingapheliyo.
Umoya wenkxalabo ephazamisayo, ukunyaniseka kunye nokuxhalaba kukuba yikhumbuzo lexesha elidlulileyo, kubangela iimvakalelo ezingenangqondo malunga nomhla xa abafazi bafaka umtshato wabo womtshato ngeminwe yomnye ngomsebenzi wokuthuthumela. Ngaba akunakwenzeka ngokwenene ukuva le miva?
Wonke umntu uyazi impendulo kulo mbuzo. Imitshato "yegolide" kunye ne "golide" ikhona ukuze abantu asebekhulile baphinde babe ngumtshakazi nomyeni, banako ukubuyela kwimihla yobomi babo kwaye baphinde bazibonele. Kuye kwenzeka ukuba ungazivakalelwa njengomtshato osandul 'ukutshata kungekhona nje iminyaka engama-25 nangama-50 emva komtshato, kukho yonke into efana neminyaka!
Umtshato weCalico
Isikhumbuzo sokuqala somtshato. Iphawulwe emva konyaka omnye ukususela kumhla womtshato. Unyaka wokuhlala kunye, njengomthetho, udibaniswe nolwazi lomtshato omnye nomnye kumacandelo ahlukeneyo, ubunzima ekudibaniselweni kwemfuno kunye nokuzama ukufumana ukunyaniseka. Xa unqobile le nyathelo elilukhuni, ulwalamano lufumana uzinzo oluzinzileyo, oluzinzileyo - luzisa "u-calico lula" nokuqonda.
Ukubhiyozela umtshato wekotoni kungokwesiko ukunika amanqaku anziwe ngeflokisi okanye i-calico.
Wedding Paper
Ubhiyozelwa iminyaka emibini emva komtshato. Ulwahlulo lwentsapho kunye nolwasemakhaya ludlulile "luhleli", ubudlelwane buye balahlekelwa okokuqala kwaye bufumene ukuhamba kwempilo, ngaphandle kokunyuka kweemvakalelo kunye neempembelelo zothando. Umtshato kusekhona njengepa iphepha elingenamandla, kodwa sele sele lijongene novavanyo lokuqala olunzulu - ukungalindelekanga kunye nokwehla ekunyamekelaneni. Kuhlala kuhlolwe ukuba umtshato uya kumelela ubunzima obuye bavela okanye baya kuqothuka njengeqhekeza iphepha?
Ngomhla wokubakho komtshato wephepha kukuqhelekileyo ukuzisa iimveliso zamaphepha: iipostcards, iincwadi, iincwadi kunye namathikithi ukuya kwi-cinema okanye kwimidlalo yaseshashalazini.
Umtshato wesiko
Ndihleli ndawonye iminyaka emithathu. Uninzi lweentsapho sele zinezingane. Ubudlelwane buqinile kwaye buzinzile. Nangona kunjalo, baqhubeka beguquka, beguqula, batshintshe uhlobo lwabo kwaye bavumelanisa nokutshintshwa kwendalo emibini yabatshatileyo. Ubomi bentsapho bunokuchazwa njengento eqinile, kodwa iguquguquke. Isikhumba ngumzekelo omhle wokudibanisa oku.
Ukubhiyozela, ngokuqhelekileyo bazisa izipho ezivela ekhumbeni lenene.
Lomtshato
Iminyaka emihlanu ukususela kumhla womtshato. Ngeli xesha, indoda nomfazi sele beza kufutshane ukuqonda ngokubanzi, ukudibanisa nokudala into efanayo. Isibini esitshatileyo sinokuthelekiswa nendlu yokhuni, sele isomelele ngokwaneleyo, ifudumele kwaye ipholile. Nangona kunjalo, ukutshabalalisa ngengozi umlilo unokuyonakalisa lula.
Umtshato womthi, njengomthetho, unikezwa ngeendidi ezahlukeneyo zeempahla okanye ifenitshala. Kukho isithethe sokutshala umthi ngalolu suku, ngoko kuya kukhula, kuvelise kwaye kuya kuhlala kukukhunjulwa kwothando kwiminyaka emininzi ezayo.
Lomtshato lomnyama
Iminyaka elishumi yokuhlala kunye! Umhla wokuqala wokujikeleza, odla ngokubhiyozelwa ngezinga elikhulu, kumema zonke izihlobo nabahlobo. Imibhiyozo enkulu yokubanjelwa iqhutywe kunye nomqondiso obalulekileyo onyanzelekileyo wewayini elibomvu. Indoda kunye neendwendwe zihambisa umtshakazi ngezimbali ze roses, ezidumisa umtshato wazo "zinamandla kangangokuthi akukho nto i-spikes ayamesaba ngayo."
Umtshato weCriststal
Ubhiyozelwa iminyaka elishumi elinesihlanu emva komtshato. Ubudlelwane buzuza ubuhle bokwenene, ubunyulu nokucocwa. I-Crystal, njengesimboli sokunqoba kunye nokuchuma, ifuna umtshakazi nomyeni ukuba balungiselele umthendeleko wangomhla ngalo mthendeleko omde. Ngokwesiko, usuku lomtshato we-crystal kufuneka luphule izitya.
Ukunika iimveliso ze-crystal ezamkelekileyo: izitya, izitya okanye imihlobiso. Kwitheyibhile mayibe neekristal, iiglasi kunye neesaladi.
Umtshato wasePoland
Kwagubha emva kweminyaka engamashumi amabini yomtshato. Indoda nomfazi sele besetyenziselwa omnye nomnye kunokwenzeka. Kodwa, naphezu kwayo yonke into, ubudlelwane babo buhlala bunobuthakathaka, baluxabisekileyo kwaye budinga ukuphatha ngokucophelela, njengemveliso ye porcelain.
Kukholelwa ukuba kwitafile kuyimfuneko ukubeka i-china yare yamanzi, ekubeni ukususela kwangelo xesha akukho nto ingahlala.
Umtshato wesiliva
Eyokuqala kwimibhiyozo eyaziwayo kwaye eyaziwayo yomtshato. Kwaphawulwa ikota yeshumi leminyaka, behlala emanyano ovuyayo! Ukongezelela ekuthelekiseni nesitye esinqabileyo esibonisa ubuncwane bothando oluye lwachuma kwintsapho kangangeminyaka emininzi, isilivere nayo iphinda icacise ngokucacileyo ukuba "inwele" yeso sibini.
Ngomhla womtshato wesiliva, kuba ngumkhuba ukutshintshela amasongo aphethwe eduze kwamathanga omtshato phakathi komnwe ophakathi. Itheyibhile inikwe kwakhona nge-silverware.
Umtshato wePearl
Iminyaka engamashumi amathathu ehlala kunye! Iiparele zibonakalisa ukuchuma, ubuhle kunye nokuzala. Kuyo yonke iminyaka ihlala, loo mbhangqwana wakwazi ukuzinza ngokusondeleyo kwiseli yentsapho kwaye ikhule ngokukhulu. Kwakungabantwana kuphela, kodwa sele bebazukulu. Umyeni nomfazi bakwazi ukugcina ubuhle beemvakalelo zabo baze bawadlulise kunye nekhenkethi kwizizukulwana ezizayo. Ngokwesiko, umtshato weperile, iqabane lilinikeza isiqingatha sesibini somsila weparele, inani leeparele elinganayo nenani leminyaka lihlala kunye.
Umtshato kaRuby
Wayegubha iminyaka engama-40 yomtshato. Isibini esitshatileyo siye sabhekana nezilingo ezininzi, ubunzima kunye neengxaki. Ubudlelwane bufumene umbala oxabisekileyo, njengomruby emva kokupenda nokusika. Umbala obomvu welitye ufuzisela igazi elilodwa elidalwa yeso sibini kunye nesimo sesizukulwana esitsha.
Yamkelekile ukunikela ngamacenge e-ruby.
Umtshato wegolide
Ndihleli ndawonye iminyaka engamashumi amahlanu! Isiqingatha sekhulu leminyaka, sidlula ngesandla, indoda nomfazi bakwazi ukukhulisa abantwana, abazukulu, mhlawumbi nabazukulu. Ukuba neendawo ezixabisekileyo zegolide - uphawu oluthile "olungenakulinganiswa", olukwazi ukusebenzisana nomoya wokuvisisana nabanye abantu, kunokwenzeka.
Ijubha, njengomthetho, ibhiyozelwa kwisangqa esincinci sezihlobo eziseduze. Waphinde waziva nje ngokuba umtshakazi nomyeni wesibini sele beyatshintshana namacenge omtshato.
Umtshato weDaymond
Iminyaka eyi-60 yomtshato. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo, ixesha elidlulileyo, livela kwixesha la mandulo lithathwa njengomnikazi weepropati zemithi kunye ne-amulet enhle kakhulu inceda kumzuzu onzima. Ngoko abatshatileyo, baqokelele amava obomi bokubaluleka, banako ukunika iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo kunye nokunceda ukuphuma kuloo ntlekele.
Ngomnyaka weshumi elinesithandathu wokunika iimveliso ezihlotswe ngeadayimani.
Wedding Crown
Iminyaka engamashumi asixhenxe anesihlanu ukususela kumhla womtshato! Inqabile kakhulu, kwaye ngoko ke iholide e-grandiose, yalungiselela amaqhawe abantwana babo nabazukulu. Esi sibini sihlangane nxamnye nobunzima, akukho nto inokuphulaphula kunye nokutshabalalisa umanyano wabo. IJubhi iyisithsaba somtshato kunye nesithsaba sithsaba intloko.
Uluhlu lwemicimbi yomtshato ekupheleni kwalo. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, abasanda kutshata abatshatanga nje, ndifuna ukunqwenela ukunyamezela, ukuzilumkela nokuzimisela ukuzisa ulonwabo kumntu osondeleyo nomthandayo - isigxina sakho sesibini yonke imihla - ukugubha ngokukhuselekileyo "iKrown Wedding".
Ngoku uyazi ukubiza yonke imikhosi yomtshato. Sinqwenela ukuba uphile kunye nesiqingatha sakho sesibini ngaphambi kwedayimane!