Umtshato wesiliva ubhiyozelwa emva kweminyaka engamashumi amabini anesihlanu ebomini, ecaleni. Lo mtshato uyisimboli yemvakalelo yesigxina indlela yegolide. Umxholo oyintloko womtshato uyisiliva. Ukulondoloza uthando kwimizuzu yeshumi leminyaka ngumsebenzi wobuqhawe. Isikhumbuzo esinjalo sinye kuphela kwixesha lobomi, ngoko umbuzo wokubhiyozela umtshato wesilivere kufuneka ube nempendulo yangaphambili. Indawo efanelekileyo yokubamba le mbhiyozo yiyo yindawo apho iminyaka engamashumi amabini anesihlanu edlule umtshato ngokwawo uyenzeka.
Imiba yokupheka
- Ukumakisha umtshato wesilivere kuyimfuneko, ukumenywa kuwo kungaphantsi kwemashumi amabini anesihlanu, njengoko isithethe esidala sithetha. Ukumenywa kungekhona nje kuphela izalamane, kodwa nabo bantu babeseneminyaka engamashumi amabini anesihlanu edlulileyo bahamba ngomtshato weentlokoma.
- Thumela iimemo kumtshato wesilivere ziintsuku ezingamashumi amabini anesihlanu ngaphambi kokuba umcimbi uqobo.
- Ukuhlobisa igumbi lokuba yi-identity, kuyimfuneko ngoncedo lwamatepsi, iibhaluni, iigrafle kunye ne-tinsel. Nantsi kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba le miyezo ifanele ibe nombala wokugcina.
- Itafile iphinda isetyenziswe nge-silverware, indwangu yetafile kunye nee-napkins. Amacala okubhiyozela kufuneka asebenzise i-silverware.
- Unokwenza i-albhamu ekhethekileyo kwiindwendwe, apho zingayishiya iinqwenela zabo kwintlokontsi yomtshato wesiliva.
- Imenyu kufuneka ivumelane kwangaphambili. Xa ukhetha isiselo kuyanconywa ukuba uqwalasele zonke iinketho zeendwendwe ezimenywe. Kungcono ukuba iintlobo ezininzi zokusela zikhoyo kwitafile.
- Ukunyamekela ukuhambelana komculo kunye nomxholo jikelele wokubhiyozela.
Amasiko okubhiyozela
- Ukugubha ngokugqibeleleyo esi sikhumbuzo, ungakhumbula iziko kunye nemikhuba yokubhiyozela umtshato wesiliva. Ngentsasa yolu suku ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka uqalise ngokubanga kwaye kungekudala kuya kuba, uvuyo ubomi bobaqabane buya kuhlala. Lo mqondiso ubizwa ngokuba "ukuqala kokubanga".
- Enye imikhosi yasendulo ithi ekuqaleni kwentsasa, umfazi kufuneka ahambe emlambo aze aqoke amanzi kwi-jug yesilivere, ahlambe. Ubomi bwanamhlanje buvumela le shishini ukuba lithathe amanzi kumpompo. Umfazi umele ahlambe umyeni wakhe kathathu kwaye asule ngetinen yelinen. Kuyafana okufanayo kunye nomyeni. Ndiyabulela kule mihla yokuhlamba, ukuhlaziywa kwenzeka kwaye zonke iintlungu zeentsapho kunye nobunzima zihlanjululwe, kwaye abafazi badibana nobomi obutsha. Emva kwesi siko, i-pitcher ifakwa kwi-balcony, de ibe amanzi aseleyo aphuphuma.
- Isimemo sokuqala kwimibhiyozo kufuneka ithunyelwe kubazali.
- Ngaloo mini, isiqabane kufuneka sitshintshe izindandatho zesilivere. Lo mbhiyozo ungabanjwa ekhaya okanye kwindawo yokutyela. Ngendlela, amangqina apha kufuneka abekhona, njengoko kufuneka kwakhona aqinisekise uthando phakathi kwabatshatileyo.
- Ukulandela iindlela ezikhoyo, iindandatho zesilivere zinokugqitywa ngegolide.
- Ngexesha lokubhiyozela, kulungile ukuchitha ixesha elininzi lokukhumbula iminyaka yobomi obatshatileyo abaye bahlala ndawonye. Kuya kuthinteka kwaye kuyamnandi.
- Kulungile kakhulu ukuyihombisa le mbhiyozo ngenani elikhulu lamhlophe. Ezi ntyatyambo zizalisekisa ngokupheleleyo umtshato wesilivere.
- Kwimibhiyozo yesilivere kufuneka kube nesonka okanye ikhekhe. Abafazi bakhe bafanele baqoke kunye ukuze iindwendwe ezikhoyo zifumane isiqhelo sabo somthetho kwaye zibelane ngeeholide.
- Ngomtshato wesilivere, unokumema umphathi wesigqeba, oya kukunceda uhlaziye ngokuhlwa kwaye ujonge iindwendwe zakho.
- Umntu ngamnye kumenywa kufuneka avule ngokuqhayisa abatshatileyo ngokubhala iimfuno zabo ekhadini.
- Ukhuphiswano olungileyo luba ngumdlalo kwiskripthi: "Ngaba nazi kakuhle kakuhle". Ukuze ufezekise, udinga indoda kunye nomfazi ohlukeneyo ukulungiselela uchungechunge lwemibuzo malunga nobomi bentsapho. Bamele, bengayazi ukuba ngubani na ophetheyo, bhala iimpendulo ephepheni, emva koko ezi mpendulo mazifaniswe. Lo mdlalo uza kukhanyisa ngokugqibeleleyo isigwebo sesilivere kunye nokuncedisa ukunyamezela kuphela abenzi bobubi bembhiyozo, kodwa nazo zonke izihlobo kunye neendwendwe.