Uminyaka wamashumi amabini weminyaka yobomi obatshatileyo bomtshato ubizwa ngokuba ngumtshato wegolide. Le ndlela endala yobomi, ngenxa yokuba bathandana abantu bahamba nosizi, uvuyo, ukudideka, kodwa bakwazi ukugcina iimvakalelo zabo. Uthando olunyanisekileyo luyakwazi ukunyamezela yonke ubunzima, ubunzima kunye novavanyo. Kwaye yonke le minyaka, iintliziyo ezimbini zothando, ukubamba izandla ngokuqinileyo, ukuya kulo suku olukhunjulwayo, okwenzeka kanye ngexesha lokuphila. Yingakho ngalo mhla kanye umbuzo wokunyamekela umtshato wegolide ugxininiswa phambi kwabatshatileyo, kuba oku bubungqina bokuba kukho uthando.
Uqeqesho jikelele
Ukubhiyozela iindleko zomtshato zegolide ngokulungelelanisa le mini.
Kubalulekile ukuqikelela kwangaphambili indawo apho kuza kugubha khona ukubhiyozelwa. Kuhle ukubhiyozela lo mkhosi, umzekelo, kwindawo yokutyela. Olu khetho luya kunceda ukuphepha iingxaki ezininzi.
Zonke iinkxalabo malunga neholide zifanelekile ukwabelana phakathi koonyana kunye nabazukulwana beentlokoma.
Emva koko kuyimfuneko yokwenza uluhlu lweendwendwe ezimenywe kwaye uthumele izimemo. Oku kufuneka kwenziwe ezimbini ukuya kwiiveki ezintathu phambi kokubhiyozela. Ngaphambi kokuba ulungele ukugqiba isidlo, ungalibali ukuchaza inani elichanekileyo labantu abamenyweyo, kuba kwenzeka ukuba ngesizathu esithile okanye kwezinye iindwendwe aziyi kuza.
Khumbula ukuba ekulungiseleleni ukubhiyozelwa kubalulekile ukuphawula yonke inkcukacha kunye nenkcukacha. Ngaphambili, vumelana nemenyu kunye nokulandelelana kokutya izitya.
Musa ukulibala ngokuhlobisa: iintyatyambo, iibhaluni, i-tinsel, iipowusta kunye neefoto zabenzi bokubhiyozela. Imibala ephambili ehamba nomtshato wegolide igolide kunye nobomvu. Kwiimpawu ezinjalo kubalulekile ukuma iitrato, i-napkins, amakhethini.
Khetha umcimbi wokubhiyozela umcimbi wokubhiyozela. Le meko kufuneka ibandakanye ukuzizonwabisa ezininzi, zombini ngeentlokoma, kunye neendwendwe, izalamane (imidlalo, ukhuphiswano, amaxabiso kunye nezipho).
Njengomthetho, abantwana banikela iingubo zegolide okanye izinto ezenziwe ngegolide kwi-wedding yegolide, kunokuba babonise uthando lwabo ngabo.
Imiba yokubhiyozela
Ukubhiyozela iminyaka engama-50 yomtshato emtshatweni, unokumema umphathi wesigqeba okanye uphinde wenze imisebenzi yakhe kunye nomntu osondeleyo osapho. Into ephambili eyayivuyobileyo, isisombululo kwaye yayinomdla obalaseleyo. Imincintiswano kufuneka icinge kwangaphambili. Umzekelo, unokubhala imibuzo engalindelekanga kwiincinane zephepha, uze uzifake kwiibhaluni, uzibeke kwaye uzinikele "kubantu abasanda kutshata". Abo, nabo, kufuneka bathabathe ezo bhola baze baphendule le mibuzo. Ngendlela, imibuzo eninzi izakuchaphazela ebusheni babo (umzekelo, isambatho somtshakazi ngomhla wokuqala, apho badibene khona, ngubani kunye nendlela yokwenza isiphakamiso, njl.), Kuya kuba mnandi ngakumbi kwiJubhi ukukhumbula ubutsha bakhe.
Iindwendwe zinokuphathiswa ukulungiselela i-chastooshkas enyantisayo, echaza ibali lobomi beqhawe. Okanye unako ukusasaza kwifom esele ifakwe. Emva koko, ngomzuzwana wegama lokubhenqa ngegama elithi "ngokukrakra", umntu makacule, ekukhetheni, ukucula iingoma ezilungileyo kubo bonke. Kwakhona, unokufumana i-karaoke ngokuphathelele umtshato wegolide. Vumela umbhangqwana kwi-duet bacule iingoma zabo ezizithandayo.
Umtshato wegolide kufuneka udibanise ukuphucula umgangatho, okufuneka unikwe ingqalelo ekhethekileyo. Khetha ukusuka kwiindwendwe okanye izalamane zabantu ababini bezobugcisa kunye nabanomdla (ngokukhethekileyo indoda kunye nomfazi) kwaye uthembele ukuba badlale ubomi obubukho bamaqhawe. Kuya kuba mnandi ukuchaza umhla womtshato. Ndikholelwe, kuya kuba mnandi kakhulu kwaye ndiya kudibanisa "abatshabhile" kwilizwe elimangalisayo lezinkumbulo. Ngendlela, ezinye iindwendwe zokubhiyozela ziyakwazi ukuvavanya izikhumba ezibonwayo, zongezelela ngeempendulo ezibukhali.
Ikhonkco "enkulu" yeholide kufuneka ukuba imele ikheke lomtshato, apho kuyimfuneko ukubeka isibalo samashumi amahlanu kumbala wegolide. Iziganeko kufuneka zikhuphe iibhotile zeeholide kwikhekhe kwaye zinqumle isiqwenga sokuqala sekhekhe kunye kwaye zinike abantwana. Unokongeza umnqweno nge-salute yokugcoba, ukuvuyisana ukusuka entliziyweni yentliziyo kunye nezwi elikhulu "Inzondo"!