Iingcamango zabazali malunga nezipho ezibizayo kunye neetayili ziyahlukana. Ngaloo nto bacinga ngokufanayo - ukuba abantwana abancinci bexabiso lezono nabangakwaziyo ukunyamekela izinto, akufanele banike izipho ezibiza. Abanye abazali bathi kukho nayiphi na into efunekayo nephakamileyo ebiza kakhulu. Umntwana oqala ukuqonda, ulahlekelwa ngumdla kwiimidlalo ezibuhlungu ukuhla okanye ukukhahlela. Ewe, nabazali abanenkxalabo bajonga indlela umntwana edlala ngayo ngesipho esibi.
Awudingi ukuchitha imali enkulu kumathoyizi ngenxa yesizathu esilula ukuba umntwana uya kucinga ukuba abazali bafumana imali kwaye bayeke ukuxabisa umsebenzi wakho onzima. Ngokutsho kweengcali zengqondo, abantwana abayiqondi ukubaluleka kwezinto. Akuyimfuneko ukuthenga abantwana abancinci izipho ezixabisekileyo, abazi ukuba bayayixabisa njani.
Izipho ezincinci kubantwana
Kodwa xa umntwana eqonda intengo yesipho, ngokukhawuleza uyaphupha umdlalo, inzala iyanyamalala kwaye iqokelela ngaphantsi kwebhokisi kunye nezinye izinto. Abazali bayathukuthela kwaye abayiqondi ukuba umdla womntwana ongeyonto ayixhomekeke kwixabiso. Abantwana abadala baya kunika izipho ezibiza. Kodwa akusekho ukuzonwabisa, kodwa isipho sokuzisa inzuzo ethile. Ngokomzekelo, ungagcini imali kwikhamera esemgangathweni yekhwalithi, ukuba umntwana uthanda ukuthwebula iifoto okanye ukufumana izixhobo ezifanelekileyo zekampu, ibhayisiki elihle. Izinto ezincinci zinokuba ngumntwana onokuzonwabisa kunye nokusetyenziswa rhoqo. Ukuba umntwana wakho ungumdlali, musa ukugcina imali kwimifuno yezemidlalo. Ixabiso eliphezulu kakhulu i-ATV yabantwana. Imizekelo inokubaninzi, kuba umntwana ngamnye unomdla oza kufuna ukutyalomali okwaneleyo. Kwaye abazali bafanele bavavanye bona ngaba ezi zifunekayo.
Abafundi besikolo abasemaphandleni akufanele benze izipho ezibizayo, naziphi na ixesha likhawulelwe nayiphi na into yokudlala. Kwaye kwangoko wathola ithoyizi ebiza, umntwana uya kuqhubeka ecela izipho ezibizayo. Musa ukulibala, kungakhathaliseki ukuba sisiphi isipho esibi, kufuneka sisetyenziswe ngokufanelekileyo. Ukuba uNyaka omtsha ufika, kwaye umntwana uncinci, ngoko uya kuvuyisiswa ngesipho esiluhlaza kunye nesibhakabhaka esicacileyo. Oku kuninzi kuya kuba mnandi kubantwana xa izipho zonyaka omtsha zingaboniswa ngabazali, kunye no-Grandfather the Frost. Umntwana osemtsha kufuneka enze isipho ngendlela yokothuswa kangangokuthi engamazi kude kube ngumzuzu wokugqibela omele ulindele. Yaye emva kokubuya esikolweni, uya kuvuya ukufumana kwideski yakhe isipho. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntwana angayithandi kuphela ukufumana izipho, kodwa uya kuthanda ukuzinikela.
Fundisa abantwana ukususela ebuntwaneni, ukuba into ephambili ayiyona isipho esibi, kodwa ukubonakaliswa kwentlonipho kunye nokuqwalaselwa. Kwaye njengokuba ngoku kube yinto ekhethileyo ukuthetha, isipho esihle kakhulu isipho senziwe ngesandla (esenziwe ngezandla).