Ugqoke. Enyanisweni, le nto iyinkuthazo eyinhloko, isishukumisela ukuba siye kwiofisi yokubhalisa. Kodwa kufuneka kukhethwe! Kwaye zininzi zazo kwaye zonke zihle kakhulu. Kwaye zonke zibiza kakhulu. Yintoni endiyenzayo? Okokuqala, kufuneka uhlalise kwaye ... uphume. Kwaye cinga: Uhlobo luni lomtshato owufunayo? Khawucinge nje ngeyona nkcukacha encinci. Isinyathelo esilandelayo kukukhumbula ubunzima bakho boqobo kunye nobukhulu. Eyona yinyani, ingabhengezwa. Ngendlela, kuzintshisekelo zakho. Emva koko, kufuneka ucacise ngokucacileyo ilingile yakho yemali, kunye nayo yonke into engadluliyo ... Oo, yintoni into endiyolisayo ... Kodwa savuma ukuba singaboni! Kwaye ngoku uqala ukukhangela. Ugcina ixesha elide kwaye, ngokubaluleke ngakumbi, amandla angokomoya.
Imfihlelo yomtshato omhle nephumelelayo ifihliwe kwimibutho yombhiyozo. Ngoku into engayinikelwayo kunye namanani eemoto (Masha + Vanya), kunye namavidiyo, kunye nemisebenzi yomlilo, kunye namajuba amhlophe emafini. Iindleko zomtshato zihlala zingapheliyo. Kodwa ukuba ngokukhawuleza (kakuhle, ngokukhawuleza?) Imibuzo yezemali ngawe ingabalulekanga, ngoko iindleko zengqondo kunye nezomzimba ziphelile kakhulu kangangokuthi ingcamango yodwa ekulindelekeni komtshato kukuba: "Nkosi, masikuphelise ngokukhawuleza!" Ukukhusela oku kubalulekile ukuba ukhetho: ungenayo amajuba (emva koko, oku kukugonyamelo kweentaka); ukulahla yonke imibuzo yentlangano kumanqanaba omntu onesibindi (masithi umyeni ozayo uza kubonisa ukuba ufanelekile).
Izivakashi. Emtshatweni, ngesizathu esithile, abamemezeli abo ufuna. Kwaye abo bacaphukile, ukuba bengabamenywanga. Olu hlobo lokugqibela lubanjwe ngabantu abangamakhulu amabini. Awuzikhumbuli nakubuso bakho, kodwa umama wakho uthi: "Ewe, akunakwenzeka, akunakukhathazeka." Kubalulekile ukubonisa ukunyaniseka.
Le yeholide yakho. Yaye ukuba ubani ufuna ukudibana emtshatweni - ngoko makamke aze atshate. Ngeli thuba, kukho imfihlelo emininzi yomtshato omhle kunye nempumelelo, umzekelo, ezikhethiweyo ezikhethiweyo: ukuhlala kuphela nabazali kwiiyure ezimbalwa, uze ubalekele kude kwiqela elingenakutyala kunye nabahlobo abakhulu; ukuba imali ivumela, ke mayeke bonke. UThixo abe nabo. Kwizihlwele kunye no-uncle, enye indlela okanye enye, ilahleka, kwaye uya kujonga emehlweni akhoyo okhethiweyo, kwaye uya kujonga kwiyakho. Baye bavumela ukuba bahambe. Umama, kwakhona, mnandi. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akunakwenzeka ukubona yonke into emtshatweni. Ngokuqinisekileyo into eyokwenzeka - i-limousine iya kuphuka, kwaye uya kufutshane ukuba ubaleke, umgcini we-stockings uza kuqwengula, ubungqina buya kutsala iwayini elibomvu kwiingubo ezimhlophe, isithende siza kuphuka, kunye nomkhwezala kunye nomkhwezala baya kuba ngabaxhasi beenkampu zezopolitiko ezahlukeneyo. Emva koko umtshato wakho uyakusindisa into eyodwa kuphela - into yokuba uyathandana. Oku, ngokwenene, yimpumelelo enkulu yomtshato wakho kunye nobomi bakho. Ewe, inyaniso yokuba umphathi wesigxina ephoswe okanye umntu akathandanga into ethile - ngoko ke eli lizwi elifanelekileyo, ezinjalo.
Isimo sengqondo somntu kumtshato. Amadoda ayengaqhatanga ukutshata ekubaleni. Njengomthetho, oku kungumtshato wothando okanye ukunyanzeliswa. Kwaye kwenzeka ukuba amadoda atshate mhlawumbi kakhulu (ngaphambi kweminyaka engama-22), okanye ekuhambeni kwexesha (emva kwe-30). Kwaye ekubeni isibonelelo sokutshata sisoloko senziwa ngabantu, kuba oko kuthetha okokuqala kukuvakalisa uxanduva lweentsapho. Amadoda angena kwimitshato engabonakaliyo (engachukumanga) imitshato engaphantsi kancinci kunabesifazane. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngokukodwa xa beselula, badibanisa uthando nothando.