Ngoko ukuba awufumananga umyeni wakho kwilizwe lakho, zama inhlanhla yakho ngezinye iintlanga. Ewe, asiyi kukunika isiluleko malunga nendlela yokutshata umntu osisityebi, kodwa sinokukunceda ukuba uchaze iimpawu ezahlukeneyo zohlobo lweentlanga ezahlukeneyo. Emva koko, umntu ngamnye unengcamango yakhe yeyona nto.
Ngoko, siqale ngamaJamani.
Ngokwezibalo, kumazwe aseJamani naseAustria, amaninzi imitshato kunye namaRashiya. EJamani, amadoda anjengawe uyaziyo, akakwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle kwebhola yebhola kunye nobhiya, kodwa azinzakalimazi intsapho yabo. AmaJamani azicwangcise ngokucacileyo ubomi bawo, kwaye zigcina ishedyuli esakhelwe kuyo. Kufuneka uyazi ukuba amaJamani afike ngexesha, oko kuthetha ukuba ukuba unquma ukudibanisa ubomi bakho kunye naye, kufuneka ube yinto efanayo. AmaJamani awayekezeli ukulibala, axabise umyalelo kuyo yonke into. Ukuba unempawu ezifanayo, ukhetho lwakho luchanekile.
Kodwa ungalindelanga ukuba ngokukhawuleza wenza isipho sokutshata naye, amaJamani ayabala abantu. Kwaye ngaphambi kokuba benze ukhetho lwabo, balinganisa ipros and cons. Kodwa ukuba ungazifumana ngokukhawuleza ukutshata, qiniseka ukuba akayi kuguqula indlela yakhe.
Okulandelayo, ngamaTaliyane. Bathi amaTaliyane afana nemvelo kwiRashiya. Bayakwazi ukuthetha amagama amahle, ukunyamekela kakuhle, ukuhlawula kuwe kwiindawo zokudlela ezibizayo, bahlala bephezulu. Kodwa kukho enye yokunciphisa, iphulaphule ngokupheleleyo unina. Kwaye ukuba akathethi, baya kwenza, njengoko efuna oko. Ukuba akuyikwesabisi, kwaye unokufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo nonina, ke ukhethe isiTaliyane.
Ngoku masithethe ngeFrentshi. AmaFrentshi awazi kakuhle ubugcisa, imbali, bathanda ukuthetha ngezopolitiko, kwaye bafuna okufanayo kwi-yabo ekhethiweyo. Kananjalo banokuzithoba ngothando kunye nomnye umfazi phambi kwamehlo akho kwaye musa ukunyamezela umona. Ukuba ugqiba ukutshata nomFrentshi, ngoko kufuneka uthobele, umfazi onobuchule ongenamabango.
Ewe, ukuba unquma ukukhetha umntu wesiNgesi njengomyeni wakho, kufuneka ulandele izithethe zakhe yonke indawo nakuyo yonke into. Abaxineli abafazi abasoloko bethetha ngeengxaki zabo, abazamukelwanga. Kufuneka ube neengqiqo, uyakwazi ukuphulaphula kwaye usoloko uthetha kuphela ngezinto ezilungileyo.
Ngoku uyazi ukuba ungatshata umntu osisityebi kunye nendlela yokukhetha ngokuchanekileyo.