Ngaba umehluko kwiminyaka udlala kuyo?

Uthando lwamaxesha onke luthobela, kwaye le ngxelo ayinakuphikiswa. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uthando phakathi koontanga lubukeka luneemvelo, kwaye alubangeli iicensure ezingenangqondo, ngoko ubuhlobo bomntu kunye nomfazi, kunye nobudala obukhulu, buhamba kunye neentlobo zamahlebezi.


Yiyiphi imingcipheko edlalwa njengento enkulu yobudala phakathi kwamaqabane? Inokwenzeka kakhulu, umehluko omkhulu kwiminyaka engama-15, 25, 35, 45 ubudala ubudala, umahluko phakathi kwemihla yokuzalwa yabalingani. Imiqathango emifutshane - 3, 5, 7, 10, -14 iminyaka kufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo yokwahlukana kweminyaka phakathi komntu kunye nomfazi olwalamano, uthando kunye nokudala ubudlelwane beentsapho.
Nangona kunjalo, naziphi na iinkalo apha ziimeko, kwaye umntu akanako ukucinga ngokuba ulwahlulo lwamaxesha omlingane ludlala indima elubudlelwaneni. Apha simele siqwalasele kuphela ikhalenda, kodwa kunye nobudala bezengqondo zala ma qabane.

Ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka ukuba umfana omdala oneminyaka eyi-18 ukuya ku-19 ubudala uya kuvala ibhanti yokukhula kokucinga, iimbono, amava okuphila, i-acumen yezoshishino kunye nokunyamekela umntu omdala omthandayo 35 okanye uneminyaka engama-55 ubudala, ebonakala ekhulile, kodwa ethanda ukuzingca kunye ne-self-centered muzhchinku , ngaphandle kweenjongo zakhe, akafuni ukubona nantoni na ukuva ngaye.

Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka ukuba intombazana encinci, ngokumangalisa yona, isezandleni ze-Lovelace enolwazi, kwaye ngelo xesha ilahlekelwa yintombi yakhe kuphela, kodwa inxalenye yengqondo yakhe, ngaphandle kokuphumla iyazithoba kuye "inkosi" kwaye idansa phambi kwayo kwimilenze yakhe endizayo njengenja .

Ngokuqinisekileyo bonke abantu bahlukile kwaye abafani, ngoko ke akunakwenzeka ukuthetha ngokuthe ngqo ukuba umehluko kwixesha elide liza kudlala indima ebalulekileyo kwiintsebenziswano zalo mbini.

Omnye unokuthetha ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba abantu abaninzi bayaphutha ukuba "amadoda aneminyaka engama-60 ayinalo isondo". Yikholelwa ukuba abanye abantu abadala abadala banako ukulala ngesondo ngokuphindaphindiweyo nangaphezulu kwezinye iigodo.
Ewe, kunye ne-flabb body of the body, kunye nemibimbi eyaziwayo, kwizesondo - kungekhona umqobo. Usebenzisa ukusilela komzimba kunye nomntu ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye nangona okokuqala bembonakaliso encinci, ngoko-ke awuboni. Enyanisweni, umzimba womfazi okanye umntu oneminyaka engama-50 akafani kakhulu nomntwana oneminyaka engama-25, ingakumbi ukuba umntu uzibukele. Kwaye bonke abathandi bekazi bahlala belandela ngoku.

Ngokubhekiselele kwingqondo yezobudlelwane, ukuba indoda ikhulile kunowesifazane, kwaye ikhulile kakhulu, ngoko ikhethekileyo. Ukuba akhulile nje kuphela ngeminyaka, kodwa nangengqondo yomlingane wakhe omncinci, ukuba unomntu oqinileyo, udlala njengendima kayise okanye utitshala ngokumalunga nentanda yakhe.

Ukuba ungumfana osemncinci, omhle kunye nentombazana, kwaye uyindoda endala, kodwa edidekile kwisondo, ngoko ulwalamano oluphakathi kwabo lunokwenzeka, kodwa kuphela luya kunika inzondo yakhe kunye ne-masochism-kunye naye.
Amadoda asebudala anamaxoki. Ziyinto yokuba unokumangaliswa nje. Kwinye yeqabane lakhe watsho nje indlela yokujonga ayifuni umxholo weN, kunye nesihloko esifanayo H ngemizuzwana emihlanu yenza ukuba "i-anus leasing" yokuziphatha ephathekayo kwifowuni. Kwaye, ukuba uyambuza - "Ngaba ukhululekile namhlanje?", Abafazi abahlukeneyo abayi-7 baya kufumana iimpendulo ezi-7 ezahlukeneyo. Ngelishwa, ininzi amadoda ephakamileyo kunabesifazana abanqabile ukuba banenjongo yokunyaniseka kunye neengcamango ezintle.

Kuphela kuphela abo bafazi abasesimweni esinjalo bazi indlela ocinezelekileyo ngayo ngenxa yokuba ungatshatanga kwaye owakhethiweyo akacingeki ukutshata naye. Kwaye uyazixhaphaza ngombuzo - "Ukuba ndizimisele ukutshata nonke? Ngaba ngaba besifazane bathanda nditshata, okanye ndingaba yinkosikazi yonke ebomini bam? "
Neembono ezibuhlungu kwixesha elizayo? Yintoni eya kwenzeka kwiinyanga ezintandathu, unyaka, ezimbini, iminyaka emihlanu ukususela ngoku? Ukuba ngumfazi ongunaphakade? Ngaphandle kwamathuba, ngaphandle kwabantwana, ngaphandle kobomi?
Ukuba ukhangela imeko xa umfazi ekhulile kunomntu, ngoko kwimeko, njengolu hlobo, imiba ekhethekileyo ayivuki. Into ephambili ibhinqa elingazibona kumakhethiweyo wakhe umhlobo omhle, kunye nenkxaso ethembekileyo.

Ingxaki ebalulekileyo ebubudlelwaneni, xa umfazi ekhulile kunomntu, kukuba ukuba sele sele sele edala iminyaka engama-45, 55, eyi-60 ubudala, sele sele sele ekwazi ukuba nomntwana wakhe kunye nokhethiweyo wakhe akayi kukwazi ukufumana ulonwabo lwabazali. Nangona kunjalo, njengoko kubonisa ukusetyenziswa kwezoshishino zanamhlanje, kwaye kungabonakali kuphela ishishini, abantu abaninzi abaselula bahlala beguquka ngokuzithandela ubusuku obulala kunye neengcambu kunye nokukhala kwezingane ezisanda kuzalwa ekudumeni nasekudumeni, kodwa kuphela xa behleli ekhoneni legolide.

Ngako oko, ukuququzelela, siyabona ukuba, ewe, umahluko omkhulu wobudala, njengomthetho, ubangela ukuba ubudlelwane bothando obungalinganiyo okanye umtshato ongalinganiyo, apho elinye iqabane okanye amaqabane omabini ahlupheke kakhulu kwinani lezenhlalakahle, ezengqondo, ezomzimba, izixhobo kunye nezinye izinto ezinobungozi kunye nemingcele. Kukho nawuphi na, uthando ngumdlalo weRussia roulette. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ibhinqa lide kakhulu kunendoda yakhe, okanye indoda indala kakhulu kunokhethiweyo wayo, ingozi yokwenza loo mbhozo ebulalayo ixazulula zonke iingxaki eziye zavela kulo, ngokuphindaphinda kabili ngumthetho wendalo, kwaye asikwazi ukuphikisana naye. Nangona ekhona kukho ngaphandle kwemigaqo.