"Kwimeko enye, amadoda namabhinqa bayavuma ngokuqinisekileyo: bobabili abanamathemba abafazi."
G. Mencken.
Ubomi budla ngokuthelekiswa nendlela. Kodwa, hayi, ayifani ncamana neyona ndlela ehamba phambili ehamba phambili. Akunjalo rhoqo njengoko singathanda, silindele impumelelo, uvuyo, inhlanhla, ukuzaliseka kweminqweno yethu yonke.
Kwaye ukujika okulandelayo, kwindlela engummangaliso ngayo, kwaye ayisoloko imnandi. Kwaye kwangoko, kwithuba elithile, ulahlekelwa ngokupheleleyo "ukuqhelaniswa" Nangona ufuna ukubonakala unamandla kwaye ugcine zonke iingxaki kuwe, kunzima kakhulu ukufeza le njongo ngokwenza.
Imvakalelo engebiyo ininzi kakhulu kangangokuthi kuyimfuneko ukuyikhupha ngaphandle. Yabelana, xelela ngezinto zonke. Ukuphulaphula, babemi ngakwicala, bezwelana, baduduza kwaye, ekugqibeleni, banike ubuncinane isiluleko. Esikhathini esidlulileyo kukho ilizwi phakathi kwabantu: "Ndiya kutshabalalisa iingxaki zabanye ngezandla zam." Kwaye kwaqala ukubonakala ngathi iingxaki zethu kunye nesisombululo sabo zibonakala ngakumbi kwihlangothi.
Kwamazwe aseNtshona, iingqondo zeengqondo kunye neengqondo ze-psychotherapists zijongene nokuxazulula imiba enjalo. Kodwa, okokuqala, asikafumani le ntlawulo. "Sineengqondo ezahlukeneyo," sithetha ngokuphendula kwiingcebiso zokubonisana nengcali. Okwesibini, kutheni ukuhlawula isazi sengqondo? Xa intombi iphulaphule ngokunyameko, i-poohs, kwaye ekugqibeleni, iyakuthetha ngala mazwi ancwisayo: "Uyintoni intlungu ngoku ...? Uqhawule umtshato kunye nabo bonke. Awunakufumana into enje! "
Ngaba sele ucinga?? Kakade, ulungile. Emva kwakho konke, ngokweengqondo uSofya Kovalevskaya, kwaye ngobuhle uyaphazamisa uPenelope Cruz. Kwaye ukufumanisa into efanelekileyo ngakumbi ukuba ingqalelo. Omnye unokuxelela nje ukuba ukususela ngoku ukhululekile. Iziphakamiso zezandla kunye neentliziyo zabantu abacebileyo nabanomdla kakhulu behlabathi lonke baya kufefaza kuwe njengokwenyama ye-cornucopia ... Ngamaphupha, sele usuqale ukuqhuba ukukhangela kwabo.
Ndiyaxolisa ukuba ndikubuyisela ezweni lethu elinesono ngokungafanelekanga.
Zibuze omnye umbuzo. Kutheni umhlobo wakho obalaseleyo "phantse ehlakaniphile kwaye enhle njengoko wena", engatshatanga? Nangona sele eselula emva kwayo ... Yaye yonke inzala yakhe yothando isuka emva kweenyanga ezimbalwa.
Ewe, nayiphi na indawo ephakamileyo ibhinqa elithathayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yayingakanani indlu yokungena kwiRublevka ayengayenaye, naye, ngamanye amaxesha ufuna uvelwano nokuqonda. "Owesifazane oqinileyo uyakhala ewindow" - oku malunga nabo bonke abafazi bacula uAlla Pugacheva. Umfazi uhlala ephupha. Kwaye, ngokwenene, enye.
Kodwa ngexesha lethu ukhetha ukungabonakali ubuthathaka bakhe. Akafuni isihawu nesiva. Abafazi "abaqinileyo" baye bafumana ezininzi ngaphambi kokuba bafumane le meko. Kwaye ekusebenzeni sasiqiniseke ukuba uvelwano luyi-90% engabonakaliyo. Ngamanye amaxesha kubonakala kufana nokugcoba.
Kakade, njengokuba kunjalo, kukho ukungafani. Lawa a mabhinqa ahlala ngokuvuyisa emva koko. Ungabonakali. Abaqinisekisi abanye kulo, kodwa ngokwenene bayavuya. Ngenxa yokuba bahlala ngokuvisisana nabo kunye nehlabathi. Akukho zininzi zazo, kodwa zikhona. Umntu onoyolo uyahlala enomusa kwaye ephendula. Kwaye ukuba umhlobo wakho uvela kulolu hlobo, ngoko unethamsanqa.
Kodwa yintoni omele uyenze ngokuvavanywa okwenzekayo kukuphosa ngokungafanelekanga? Musa ukugqoka onke amava kuwe? Akukho mcimbi! Ngoko unokuwela ngokulula kwixinzelelo kwaye ubone ihlabathi kumanqaku amnyama nangamnyama.
Ibhinqa kwiimeko ezinjalo zikuncedwa ngokuthenga, okubizwa ngokuba yi-shopping. Ukuya kwi-salon enobuhle, ukutshintsha umfanekiso, ngamanye amaxesha kunye nebhayilethi ye-chocolate.
Yiya kwindawo yokuhlambela, ngaphantsi kwesitya kwaye "khala" ingxaki yakho. Ibuhlungu ngamanzi kwaye ihamba ngaphantsi kwebhuloho. Icolekile emva kokuba isitya asinakunyulwa, kodwa samkelwa.
Ukubhalela kwisiqwenga samaphepha owathengileyo, kunye nokulahlekelwa kwakho, malunga nale meko. Kwaye konke oku kusebenza njengesifundo kwixesha elizayo.
Andinakuthetha ngeendlela ezinamandla, ezifana notywala, ugwayi, njl njl. Bayilimaza impilo kuphela, bahlehlisa kuphela isigqibo.
Kukho enye indlela. Udla ngoncedo kum ubomi. Okokuqala, ngokuvakalayo nokuqonda nokuqonda ukuthetha amagama adumile kaScarlett O'Hara: "Ndiya kucinga ngalo ngomso." Zama ubuncinane uhlale phantsi. Emva koko qaphela. Mamela uze ukhange lonke ulwazi oluza kuwe: iindaba, amabinzana, njl. Ngethuba elifutshane uza kufumana ingqiqo efihlakeleyo okanye inkcazo ecacileyo ukuba "ungonakalisa" njani imeko. Ingaba yinqaku kwiphephandaba, ukusasazwa kumabonwakude, okanye nakwezinye iingoma ezivakalayo ecaleni kwayo.
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