Enyanisweni, uncedo lwabafundi beengqondo apha kule meko aluyimfuneko kuthi, kaninzi thina siyazi indlela yokujamelana nokungaqiniseki ebomini bomntu kunye nokudandatheka, sinobuqili ukwenza into, ukulungelelanisa ukubandezeleka kwethu kukuba, sithini wenza - konke okufanayo siya kuhlala sisese kwaye singadingekile. Kodwa oku, ngokufanelekileyo, isikhundla sabasetyhini ababuthathaka, abaxhomekeke ekudakaleni nasekudakaleni ebomini-kwaye oku kuyindawo engafanelekanga. Kuye kwaziwa ixesha elide ukuba sithatha iziganeko ezithile kwiimvakalelo zethu. Ngoko ke, ukuba unesifo sokudandatheka, ngoko ubomi buya kuba buhlungu buhlungu, wena yonke indawo uyabona into engekho kwaye ucinga ukuba awukwazi ukuphuma kule ngqungquthela, ukuba awusoze wakwazi ukujamelana nale meko yemicimbi. Kodwa siya kuzama ukukunika iindlela ezininzi ezinokukunceda ukuba uphumule kwaye uphumule - kwaye konke ukungaxhatshazi ubomi, ngakumbi ebomini bakho bomi, buya kuhlahlela "u-", uya kuphinda uphuhlise, njengokuba uMeyi avuke phantsi kwelanga, kwaye kuya kuvela kuwe umntu onokukukhusela kwaye akayi kukhwankqisa ukunyamekela amava akho.
Indlela eyodwa: Ukuthenga
Ewe, oku kuluhlobo olunjalo kunye noluntu oludlulileyo olusinceda thina, bafazi, sinokujamelana nokudakumba okukhulu okusinceda sizive ngamandla ethu, sibe nokholo kuthi kunye nobuhle bethu.
Ukuze i-shopping ithele umnwabo ophezulu, eqinisweni, ufuna imali eninzi-ngakumbi ukuba uya kubeka izinto ngokufanelekileyo kwi-wardrobe yakho okanye utshintshe indlu, njengoko utshintshe i-wardrobe kunye nokulungiswa yimiba ekhohlakeleyo yohlahlo lwabiwo-mali. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha kunokwenzeka, kwaye kuyimfuneko! Yaye ukuba imali iminyene kakhulu - unokuya kuthengwa ngeentlinkethi kunye neempahla ezingabizi, intanda kwintliziyo yakho. Umzekelo, ukuba unqwenela ukuxhobisa ubomi basekhaya kunye nokuchitha imali kwizinto ezincinci zangaphakathi - zibalekele kwindawo ekhuselekileyo kwaye uchithe ixesha elininzi ngangokunokwenzeka, ucinge oko kukunika umvo wokubhenela. Mhlawumbi unobuthakathaka kakhulu kwizesekeli kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zee-trinkets? Ukutyelela i-salons, awukwazi ukuthenga-nje ukujonga kunye nexabiso lentengo, ukwahlula isicwangciso sexesha elizayo ukuze uphumelele inhlalakahle enjalo, eyakukunika ithuba lokungazithengi nakwiiziko lonke zokuthenga! Kwaye konke oko mhlawumbi kuphupha - kodwa kufuneka uphuphe ebomini bethu. Ingakumbi iingcamango zizinto eziphathekayo - ungayikhohlwa ngale nyaniso elula.
Kodwa ngokuthenga i-Babskiy kuphela - ndithetha iingubo kunye nezihlangu - ngoko, ukuba kukho ithuba, zama ukwenza isidenge kuzuko! Thatha nawe amabhinqa amantombazana awuthandayo, abacebisi, ulinganise nangona yonke i-boutiques yomzi! Zama ngemifanekiso - mhlawumbi ngoku uya kukwazi ukuqonda ukuba wawungekho ngokwakho, ukuba oko wayekugqobile akuzange kuvumelane nehlabathi lakho langaphakathi. Kodwa le disharmony yenye yezona ndawo ziphawulekayo zokungaphumeleli ebomini bomntu, kuba abantu babheka umfanekiso opheleleyo, kwaye ukuba akubizwanga okanye akunjalo-ke ke abanomdla kumfazi onjalo.
Ukuba ngaphambi kokuba ukhethe isitayela sezemidlalo kunye nengubo yakho yokugqoka yayiyindawo kuphela yezinto ezifanelekileyo zemidlalo, i-T-shirts, iipopu, iifutshane kunye ne-sneakers - ibe enye! Shintsha isitayela ukuya ngqo. Thenga izikebhe ezintle kunye neengubo zokuhlwa zangokuhlwa, iibhola kunye neengubo-kwaye uza kubona ukuba ubomi bakho buya kutshintsha njani kule nguqulelo!
Indlela ezimbini: umfanekiso omtsha
Oku akusebenzi nje kuphela kwiingubo esasithethe ngazo. Emva koko, izigulane - oku kungomnye wemivimbo yokudala umfanekiso omtsha. Ubumba ubunzulu, utshintshe iinwele zakho: umbala weenwele, ukunqumla izinwele. Yitshintshe, ngoko wamangaliswa: ndandenza njani inkalipho yokwenza oku kum? Into ephambili kukuba isitayela sakho esitsha seenwele siya kuwe kuninzi endala. Yaye oku kuya kufuna umcwangcisi omhle.
Ukuba ufuna ukuba yi-Amazon elishisayo - uye kwi-solarium, ubhalise kwi-massage course, tyelela inkosi ye-manicurist kunye ne-pedicure master-ezi nkqubo zilula ziza kukunceda ukuphelisa ukungabikho kombono kunye neengcamango ezibuhlungu, kuba ixesha ochithayo kwiimpukane alingaqapheli kwaye lizalisa ngeemvakalelo ezintle. Emva koko, sibona iziphumo zale mi sebenzi, njengoko zithethayo, zicacile. Kwaye kuhle kakhulu ukuzibona kwisibuko, esaziwayo kwaye uyazi, kodwa usatshintshile kwaye utshintshile. Ukuqonda kumfazi omhle ojonge kuwe ukusuka ekujuleni kwezibuko, izinto zakhe eziqhelekileyo.
Indlela yesithathu: Ezemidlalo
Ngamnye wethu uyazi ukuba ukudlala kwezemidlalo kukho konke ukukhwaza iingcinga kunye nezimbi ezivela entloko. Ngenxa yokuba ngexesha lokuzivocavoca umzimba, asinaso ixesha lokucinga ngobomi bethu, malunga nokuba sinento into engayifumaniyo kwaye ayisebenzi. Ukudandatheka kuye kwehla kude nathi ngaphezu kweebhola zerabha ekuqeqesheni. Ekugqibeleni, sifudumala kwaye sididiswa ngcamango yokuba ngomsebenzi ngamnye olandelayo siphuculayo, ngokufanelekileyo, ngokufanelekileyo. Yaye yintoni na umntu engathandi amantombazana amancinci?
Oko kukuthi, ngokuya kwiiklasi, ngoko, sinyuse amathuba ethu okuhlangana nomntu ofanelekileyo endleleni yakhe. Kwaye nangona sonke siphika kwaye sithi asifuni umntu ojonga ngaphandle ngaphandle kuphela, kodwa masingabi nobuqili: ukuba umntu ufuna ukuvavanya ihlabathi lethu elingaphakathi, sifuna kuqala ukumbamba kwaye simdla. Emva kwakho konke, ngamnye umfazi kufuneka abe neentambo, ezihluke kuye kwamanye amantombazana amahle.
Indlela yesine: Ndingumdlali wezemfundo!
Ukuhamba phambili kwi-career yakho, ukuze ufikelele ekusebenzeni kwakho, ukufikelela kwisigaba esiphezulu sezinga lomsebenzi - enye indlela eqinisekileyo yokubalekela kwinyani, ukulibala ingxaki ebusweni bakho kwaye uphilise ngendlela entsha. Nangona kunjalo, le ngumbindi kumacala amabini. Ukuba kuthe kwithengi, ukutshintsha umfanekiso kunye nemidlalo ekhutheleyo ukufumana kunye nokuphucula, ngaphandle kokubingelela nto nantoni na, ngoko ukuba xa usebenza uya kubeka ingozi yokulahlekelwa yintlalo yolonwabo. Oku kungenjalo ukuba ungena kwi-roleist ye-careerist ngokunyaniseka, fumana kuyo uvuyo kunye nesimo esisodwa sokuphila. Ngoko kufuneka ukwazi umlinganiselo, usebenze ngomsebenzi, kunye nosapho ukuba umfazi abe ngowokuqala. Ngako oko, xa uziva unesibindi kunye nomfazi wesimanje ozinzile kwimpilo yakhe yemali, yima kwaye ukhangele ngeenxa zonke: ingaba kukho umntu ophezulu ekugqibeleni? Mhlawumbi umntu uye wazama ukugqithisa inqwelombazana yakho yesinyithi, kodwa awuboni? Musa ukunyuka kakhulu, hlala uhlale ngumfazi, ingabi yintonga yesinyithi.
Indlela yesihlanu: yinto yentliziyo
Emva koko ndiyithetha intlonipho. Yintoni ihobby? Le nto ungayilondoloza ixesha lakho lokukhulula. Andiwuthathi umsebenzi ngokuzilibazisa, kuba umsebenzi owenza imali, kwaye kaninzi - akukho nwabisa. Ukuzonwabisa kuyinto enye into enikela umphefumlo wakho uxolo kunye nokuqiniswa. Ndikholelwe, ukudandatheka kukuphunyuka kubasetyhini abanomdla, njengoko kungafumani ukuba bafanele ukutshatyalaliswa kwamandla.
Ngoko, yintoni umdlalo onokukukhohlisa? Yintoni endikunika yona namhlanje? Ewe, umzekelo, ubugcisa obungunaphakade bokubamba. Ngaba ucinga ukuba iphelelwe yisikhathi? Akunjalo! Jonga ngeenxa zonke: izinto ezixutywe ngoku ziyakwazi, njengangaphambili! Khawucinge, unokuzixhuma wena oko ufuna. Ukuhamba kweemfono kunye neendleko ezincinci, kupholile!
Ukuhlaziya i-wardrobe ngoncedo lweemigodi kunye neengcingo, ungaqalisa ukuhlaziya ikhekhe kunye nezixhobo. Imisongo iya kukunceda. Okokuqala, le nto yokuzonwabisa iyathinteka kakhulu kwinkqubo ye-nervous, kwaye, okwesibini, ngoncedo lwayo unokuzihobisa ngendlela entsha, ngokuba amabhande, amacici, i-bracelets kunye neentsimbi zeglasi zihamba ngendlela enhle kwaye ziyi-stylish!
Ukuba ufuna, ungathabatha isakhelo, inaliti kunye nemibala enemibala - kwaye emva kwexesha uhlobisa ikhaya lakho kunye nepeyinti ezidwebileyo. Ingaphakathi iya kuguqulwa, indlu iya kuba yinyameko kunokuba ikhona, kwaye uya kufudumala ngcamango yokuba konke oku okwenzileyo ngezandla zakho.
Kwaye ufuna ukwenza into engavumelekanga - nceda ucelwa ukuba wenze i-scrapbooking kunye nokwenza ikhadi kwikonzo lakho! Yintoni na? Kulula kakhulu. I-scrapbooking yokuqala - uyilo lwezinto zonke ze-albhamu ngezandla zabo ngokuncedisa izesebe ezizodwa ezingathengwa kwivenkile ekhethekileyo. Unokwenza i-albhamu okanye i-albhamu ngokuphathelele ubomi bakho ngokuzifakela kuwo onke amancinci amancinci owakhumbulayo. Indawo yefantasy ayifanelekanga! Ngokumalunga nenkampani yokwenza ikhadi, oku kubhalwe ngesandla kweposididi.
Wena, ngokuqhelekileyo, unokukwenza nantoni na oyifunayo - kungekuphela ukuba uchithe ubusuku ekhaya phambi kweTV.
Indlela yesithandathu: Ubomi obusebenzayo
Ewe, ungafihliwe kwi-moss kunye nesikhunta ekhaya, ulinde isikhulu kwihashe elimhlophe-emva koko, uza kukufumana njani, uya kuhlangana nani, ukuba awuyi kuphuma?
Ngokuqhelekileyo iya kwiindawo zoluntu, zikhokelela ngobomi obuninzi kakhulu. Apha unenzuzo ephindwe kabini: kwaye ukuxinezeleka kuza kuhamba, kwaye amathuba amaninzi wokuseka yonke into ebomini bakho.
Njengoko uyakubona, kunokwenzeka kwaye kuyimfuneko ukuba ujamelane nokudandatheka kunye nokusilela ebomini bakho, kuba ukudabuka kukungavinjelwa ukutshatyalaliswa kwethu okuqhelekileyo!