I-Lullabies iintsana ezisandul 'ukuzalwa zihlukile, umzekelo, i-lullaby ye-umka, nje i-lullaby, ilala yinkwenkwana yam kunye nabanye. Ndingathanda ukuphawula ukuba kukho abazali abaqulunqa iillabies kubantwana babo, iibhalo zabo ezizodwa zigqithiselwa ukususela kwisizukulwana kwisizukulwana. Kwaye nabazali abaninzi ngokubanzi abanalo ixesha elaneleyo, okanye akukho mnqweno, ukuba banakekele ngakumbi abantwana babo, baphuze ngaphambi kokulala ngendlala. Abazali abanjalo, ngandlela-thile baqikelele, bathenge iiCD, ii-videotapes nge-lullabies, kwaye ngaphambi kokulala umntwana ubandakanya nabo. Oku kuziphatha kunye nesimo sengqondo kumntwana kulungile, kuba umntwana omncinci ufuna kuphela ukunakekelwa kwabazali kunye nothando kunoma yimuphi umboniso.
Abantwana abasebancineni abazange bafumane ingqwalaselo ebalulekileyo, ukunakekelwa kunye nothando, njengomthetho, baya kuba nobudlova kunye neemeko ezingenakulinganiswa, okubangele ukuhlambalaza kunye nomsindo ongaqondakaliyo. Iingoma zeLullaby zintsana ziyakhunjulwa kwaye ziculwa zisuka ebuntwaneni babo, kwaye ukuba awufuni okanye azifuni, ingcaciso ingakhotholwa kwiminye imithombo, umzekelo, kwiincwadi zezingane nakwiindawo ze-Intanethi. Ngethuba lethu, iillabies azibetheli kuphela ngoomama kunye nogogo, kodwa nangabantwana abathi, ekukhoneni kwe-lullaby, abaphantsi kobulili besini. Ngokuqhelekileyo abapapa bayalilibala izibhalo ze-lullabies baze baqale ukuphucula, kwaye kubonakala ngathi bubukeka buhle kakhulu. Ukuqwalaselwa komntu kumntwana kubaluleke kakhulu njengokuba umfazi (ingqalelo). I-lullaby enhle neyandileyo ibangela ubuthongo kubazali kunye nabantu abadala abadala balala ngokwaneleyo ngexesha.
Ukuze kusetyenziswe iwashi efanelekileyo ye-biological yomntwana, oko kukuthi, ukugqiba xa umntwana elala, umzali kufuneka acule i-lullaby nsuku zonke, ngaphambi kokulala, kwaye xa kuyimfuneko, kungekho kanye.
Ukuba awuzange uhlabele i-lullaby kumntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa kwaye akaqinisekanga ukuba uya kuthanda, ngoko kwimeko enjalo ungayi kucula iiveki ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokuba ulale ulala nje, uya kubona umntwana ulungelelanisa ngokukhawuleza ngokutsha. Unina noomama abaninzi banenkxalabo yokuba abanalo indlebe yomculo kunye nelizwi elihle, kodwa bayaqonda ukuba akukho kumgangatho wentsebenzo esiyithethayo, kodwa phambi kwayo. Ingoma yaseLillaby iqokelela umntwana kwaye "umenzi" unjengomama okanye umongikazi. Umntwana ngexesha elinjalo uqala ukuthembela kumntu omdala kwaye akesabi ukuvala amehlo akhe aze agule ebuthongweni.
Ubuthongo obuhle bubaluleke kakhulu ekuphuhlisweni ngokupheleleyo kwengane. Njengomthetho, ubuthongo obuhle kunye noxolo buxhomekeka kakhulu kwiimeko ezaphambi kwakhe, ngoko ungawuvuli umculo ngaphambi kokulala okanye "ubenze udibe" kunye nosana. Ungakulibali ukuba ukusebenza kweengoma ze-lullaby zezingane ezisandul 'ukuzalwa kufuneka zenzeke ngokuthula, kwizwi elizolileyo nelithulile. Musa ukumgxeka umntwana ukuba akazange alale emva kwelalaby, kuba ugonyamelo lwakho luya kuphazamisa umvakalelo wengane nayo yonke imiphumo emihle eyaphunyezwe kwangaphambili iya kuchitheka. Ukuba umntwana akasalali, kwaye isitokisi se-lullabies siphelile, ungatshela ibhungu ibali elincamisayo malunga nendlela abantwana abakhula ngayo xa belele.