Uyithanda njani umfana? Iimpendulo zinikezwa ngamadoda aneminyaka engama-20 ukuya ku-55

Khawucinge ukuba intombazana uKatyya yabonakala into ekhangayo - indoda. Badibana kwi-intanethi, kunye neempumlo umhla wokuqala wokulindela. Yintoni uKaterina ayenokuyenza ukuze amkholise umntu? Iqela lonke lase-Allwomen lathintana nabantu abangaphezu kwe-100 bobugcisa obuhlukeneyo obuphakathi kweminyaka engama-20 no-55 kwaye bafumanisa indlela yokubamba umdla kunye nokukhupha umdla wokwenene kwimimiselo yokuqala yendibano. Yintoni ibaluleke kakhulu kwiintlobo zamabhinqa kwindawo yokuqala? Sibelana ngokuvuma ngokucacileyo kwamadoda!

Ndingathanda njani umntu oneminyaka engama-20-25 ubudala

U-Ivan, oneminyaka engama-20, umfundi ukhangisa intombazana ehlazo, ethobekileyo. Ndicebisa ukuba ube nguwe, ungadlala omnye umntu. Ubuncinane bokuzenzela: kuphela ukugxininisa amehlo, khanyisa emlonyeni. Izikhonkwane eziphezulu kunye neenkibi ezicotyiweyo, ezithathwa ipencil - aba bantu abayiqondi. Akufanele kuxhomekeke kwi-100% yabazali. Yiba nezinto ezithandekayo, kwaye ungafaki ukuyeka kwaye ungaphinda ubeke izivakalisi ezicacileyo eludongeni. Ngaphandle kobuqhetseba nobutshaba. Ngaphandle kwesifo se "princess". UChwever. UVasily, oneminyaka engama-22 ubudala, usomashishini omncinci ndiyayixabisa amantombazana anenqwenela ngombono wabo. Ngokwenene ndinomdla kwiqela elinye. Yintombazana enefilosofi yangaphakathi, iyakwazi ukukhuthaza nokuxhasa indoda. Umonde, ufundiswe, ubuchule. Usoloko ekhula njengomntu kwaye uxakeke kwishishini lakhe. UCyril, oneminyaka engama-22 ubudala, igqwetha ngalinye Intombazana ilungile ngendlela yakhe, kodwa kum ingqondo, ukukwazi ukugcina ingxoxo, ukuhleka kwezinto ezihlekisayo-ngaphambili. Emva koko ndiyayiqwalasela isitayela, ukuvisisana kunye nobume bomfanekiso. Ndikhetha ubuhle bemvelo kunye nokwenyuswa okuncinci - yenza i-eyelashes, sebenzisa i-balm engenambala emlonyeni. Ukongezelela, ibhinqa kufuneka liqonde ubuthakathaka bakhe kunye namandla, bonise okokugqibela. Ubomi bentsapho, unokukwazi ukugqithisa izimo eziphikisanayo, ube yingcali yeengqondo kunye nenkxaso yomntu. Ungaxhomeki ngokupheleleyo kwiimali zamadoda, zenzele zona. UAnton, oneminyaka engama-22 ubudala, IT andithandi abantu abaqhelekileyo. Okokuqala, ndiyayixabisa ukukwazi ukuxhasa ingxoxo engeyona nto. Awuyikuphendula kuphela imibuzo, kodwa ukubonisa intetho ekunxibelelaneni. Ndiyathanda izibane eziphambi kwam amehlo kunye nekratshi. Ukutsala umdla obomnandi, ongaqhelekanga.

U-Andrew, oneminyaka engama-23, umqeqeshi wokuzilolonga Umnene, ukunyaniseka - izinto eziphambili. Amagnet ukhange amantombazana afundiswe kakuhle. Kumele ube neembono zehlabathi ezicacileyo kunye nemigaqo yobomi. Ukuphefumlela indoda, kwaye ngexesha elifanayo liba linye icala. Ndiyathandwa yintokazi kunye nezenzo zakhe zokuzilibazisa kunye nempumelelo. Ukubonakala - andicacile, kodwa ndiyamthanda ubuhle obuhle obuhle. Ukwahlula ngokukodwa kumbala we-Amazon kunye neetoni ze-tonalki ebusweni ngemihla ngemihla. I-Preppy, yemvelo, inomdla obunomdla - ewe, intombazana enjalo inamathela kuye! UAlexandro, 24, usomashishini Ukhawuleza amantombazana enendima yomxube oncokolayo kunye neembono ezibonakalayo ebomini. Okubaluleke ngokukhethekileyo kwinqununu yam kukuba akayi kufakela kwifowuni ngomhla wokuqala. Kwaye i-"Instagram" tape yayinemifanekiso embalwa "indlela endichitha ngayo imini emangalisayo". Ukubukeka kakuhle kunye nokuvumba kubalulekile. UmRoma, oneminyaka engama-24 ubudala, i-barber Ngokukhawuleza kwintlanganiso yokuqala ndibeka ingqalelo kwizinwele ezintle ezilungele kakuhle, ukwenziwa komntu wemvelo, ukwenza i-classical make. Ndiyindoda yobumnandi bemvelo. Ukutsala amantombazana avulekile, kodwa nge puzzle. Uyakwazi ukuhleka kunye naye ubenomusa. Andiyithandi amapopi adlalayo esidlangalaleni. Uthanda iincwadi eziqhelekileyo kunye neendawo zokuzonwabisa. Phuhliswa ngokomoya. UVladimir, oneminyaka engama-25 ubudala, umkhumbi wamanqamka Ukukhwela amantombazana, amancinci, amancinci amantombazana enomtsalane ongaphakathi. Abasempilweni, abanomdla kunye nabanini bemimoya yokulwa.

Ziziphi iimantombazana ezinjengamadoda avela kwiminyaka eyi-26 ukuya kwe-35 ubudala

UVlad, oneminyaka engama-26 ubudala, i-shoemaker Abahlali basenqweno eyahlukileyo, ukusuka ekuphumuleni ukuya kwintlango. Ngokomntu, ndingomntu wezinto ezinokukhetha "igolide" kuthetha. "Umfazi oqwengqileyo" uya kum, ongeyintloni yoluntu. Ukuziphatha kunye nobudlelwane abukhangeleli abantu abajikeleze, bakhokelwa yihlabathi "kuphela mna kunye naye." Lo ngumntu onobubele, oqondayo kunye nentlalontle. Iibhotela kunye neengqungquthela azithandeki kum. UDmitry, iminyaka engama-26, i-IT Ndicinga ukuba akukho ndlela yendalo okanye imilingo yokukhawulela umntu-wonke umntu :) Ndingumsekeli wenyaniso yokuba yonke into isekelwe kwimvakalelo kunye neemfuno. Ngengqiqo, ngokwemvelo, kungakhathaliseki iimpawu ezintle okanye ezimbi, ukubonakala okanye iimpawu zomntu ngamnye. Ngoko ke, imfihlelo kukuba "uqobo", ukuba uvule kwaye uthembeke. Kwaye ke, intombazana e-erudite. UDenis, 28, owokuqala umgangatho, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukubonakala. Intombazana ehlambulukileyo kuyo nayiphi na indoda ibangela uvelwano. Ukusuka kwiminithi yokuqala yokunxibelelana iyacaca - nokuba unemiba yokuqhagamshelana okanye ingxoxo ayiyi kubamba kunye. Ndiba novelwano kakhulu kubafazi abanomdla ongaqhelekanga: bathanda ibhola, bayaqonda imoto. Kuyamangalisa, kunomnqweno wokufunda umntu osondeleyo. Ukuba nobudlelwane obuthe xaxa, ndiza kuqala kwiimbono eziqhelekileyo ngobuhlobo, ngesondo, kwishishini. Imilinganiselo yoBomi kufuneka ifane neyam. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, musa ukuxelisa umfana! Ungenzi mntu ohlukile kwiintlanganiso zakho zokuqala. Emva koko, kubonakala lula, kwaye umnqweno wokubiza intombazana ngomhla wesibini uyalala.

U-Ivan, iminyaka engama-30, umfoto wezithombe ndiya kuthetha ngokufutshane: ibhinqa kufuneka lifune abantwana, kodwa lingenzi umtshato ubaluleke kakhulu. Yiba ngqiqo, unyanisekile, ukuze kungathinteki kwabanye, kwindawo yokuqala, ngabahlobo. Enhle ngaphandle kokwenza i-makeup, encinane kunamadoda iminyaka eyi-6-10. Thetha kwimeko, musa ukuthelekisa umfana kunye nabahlobo kunye nabo. Ukuze ukwazi ukuxolela iimpazamo zekhethiweyo-ngaphakathi kwemida efanelekileyo. USergei, oneminyaka engama-32, umntu oshishino-mthengisi andiyi kuba nomdla kwintombazana ekhusela ngamandla kwindawo yakhe kwimpikiswano nam. Umfazi ozimeleyo kunye ozimeleyo akayi kubangela nayiphi na imvakalelo. Le ndlela ilandelwa ngokucacileyo kwizinto ezincinci: isihlalo ngokwawo siya etafileni, xa umntu omileyo emela eceleni kwayo, okanye owokuqala ungena kwigumbi. Ubeka ingubo yakhe. Kulahlekile xa umntu emnika isandla ukunyuka okanye ukuwela i-puddle / curb. Ngexesha le ngxoxo, ugxininisa ukuzimela kwakhe. Iimpawu ze-Sneak "umntu namhlanje, kodwa kusasa akusiyo, ngoko ufuna into yonke." UDenis, 35, umnini-shishini omkhulu Makungabi nobuqili - kumntu, okokuqala, idatha yenyama ibalulekile. Ukuba umfazi akakhange atshale, ukhetho lokukhangela kunye nomdla kumntu ongeyena. Emva koko kuza ingqondo ebukhali kunye nokukwazi ukuthetha. Amantombazana onentlonelo ngobuso obuhle afanelekile kuphela ukuzonwabisa kwexesha lokulala - i-alas. Ndiyincoma ukuba abafazi bamanje bahlakulele ngokucacileyo.

Ndingathanda umntu oneminyaka engama-55 ubudala

UVladimir, 55, umnini weevenkile. Ukubonakala kakuhle kunye nengqondo esheshayo - yinto exabisekileyo kwabasetyhini banoma yibuphi ubudala. Ikhono lokumelana nencoko, ukuphakamisa isihloko. Kwindoda editywe kuwe, kufuneka ube "kwindawo efanayo." Ngaba uhamba ngosuku lokuqala? Funda iminqweno yakhe kwaye ufunde ubuncinane iimpapasho ezithile ngesihloko. Ukuba kukho ikhefu elimangalisayo, ngokukhawuleza uthi "Ndiyifunde ngolunye usuku ... ucinga ntoni ngala maxesha?" Oku kuya kutshabalalisa umdla kwintombazana. Kwaye ikhono eliphambili lomfazi kukugxininisa umlinganiselo. Gqoka amabhola kunye neengubo zokugqoka. Izambatho ezintle. Kulo mfanekiso wandivuyisa iliso waza wandenza ndajika. Kodwa musa ukudibanisa ne "bl * dskim" - isikhwele apho umbingeleli ebonakala khona, ukuxothwa kwiiinki kuya kubangela umnqweno omnye kuphela - ukuhudula ulala. Kwaye ukukholisa umlimi kwiimeko zakho zokuziphatha kunye nokuziphatha kuya kuba ngumsebenzi ongenakwenzeka. Kwaye akuzange kubekho kwiintlanganiso zokuqala ungayifaki umsebenzi kwindawo yokuqala. Ungazakheli ibhinqa le shishini. Indoda engaboni kakuhle iyakubona njengesini esinobuthathaka. Kuhle ukuba uzimelele kwaye ukhuselekile. Kodwa musa ukwenza inkolo kuyo. Intsapho kunye nekhaya lakho kubaluleke kakhulu.

Ukuqulunqa: indlela yokuthanda umntu okanye umntu

Nangona kukho ububanzi obukhulu beendoda ezidliwano-ndlebe kunye nemisebenzi eyahlukeneyo, ixabiso elincomekileyo ngokwesini: Ngoko, maantombazana, sihlalutya i-pros and cons, sifundisisa umfana kwaye uzalise izikhalazo. Emva koko induna enqwenelayo iya kuba yindoda esondelene kakhulu! :)