Ngokukhawuleza siza kuchazwa, intetho iza kuhamba ngeemeko ezingenakufanelana nawe. Ukudlala-ngothando "u-no", eyenzelwe ukutshutshisa intlungu okanye ukunyusa, kuyisifundo sentetho eyahlukileyo.
Ngoko, imithetho emihlanu iqinile "HAYI".
1. Hlela kwangaphambili oko ufuna.
Ngaphambi kokuba uqale into enokuyenza, cinga ngezinto ozifunayo. Ngaba umqhubi onkqonkqoko wanyamalala yonke indawo? Ukunyamezela i-Vasya evela kwisebe elingummelwane wayeka ukugubha etafileni yakho, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo laqhubeka linceda ekuphunyezweni kweeprojekthi zakho? Ummelwane onomdla wayeka ukubeka umbhoxo phambi kweentyatyambo zakho zentyatyambo, kuba ukhubeka ngabo ekuseni?
Ngokuxhomekeka kwisiphumo esifunekayo, tsholela ukuhluleka kwakho ngokufanelekileyo. Gcinani engqondweni ukuba amadoda aqonda iingcamango ezinengqiqo ezingcono kuneemvakalelo, ngoko uzama ukuzilungiselela kwangaphambili.
2. Bhengeza!
Emva kokuba uqinile ngokusemthethweni kwisigqibo sakho-yizise kule ndawo. Ngomlomo, ngokubhaliweyo, ngendlela yerhwebo lobugcisa okanye ngolwimi lwezandla. Into ephambili ukuba intsingiselo yomyalezo wakho yayicacile!
U-Olya, 35, umcebisi: "Ngokukhawuleza ndingazama ukumxelela ukuba andithandi! Akukho mpawu! Akabonakali ukuba uyayiqonda! "Uyabubula buhlungu. "Ngaba umxelele ngoku ngelizwi?" Ndiyabuza. "N-e-em," u-Olya udonsa, "kodwa ufuna ntoni?"
Ewe, bafazi abathandekayo, maxa wambi kufuneka! Ngokucacileyo, ngokukodwa, isiRashiya (ngaphandle kokuba, ngokuqinisekileyo, akayena wesinye isizwe) ukuvakalisa isigqibo sakho kwaye ucacise imeko. "Vasya, ndiyaxolisa, kodwa ulwalamano lwethu lufanele luhlale lunobungane!", "UPyotr Semyonovich, andicinga ukuba uqale usebenze uthando!"
3. Gcina kwisigqibo sakho.
Ukuba ubuxelele izolo ukuba awufuni ukuqhubeka nobudlelwane obufanayo, kwaye ngoku, njengesiqhelo, wabuyela kummelwane waseCole ngekhofi kunye ne-candy, akunakwenzeka ukuba uyayinqabela ngokufanelekileyo. Gcina oku engqondweni kwaye utshintshe indlela oziphatha kuyo ngendlela efanelekileyo. Yeka ukuthatha izipho ukuba wenze oko ngaphambili. Musa ukudlala ngothando, kwaye musa ukudlala iimvakalelo zomntu. Thatha onke amanyathelo afanelekileyo ukuze uphumelele.
4. Lungiselela iziphumo ezikhoyo.
Wanikela uVasya ukuba ahlale engumhlobo wakhe, ebala ngokuncediswa ngakumbi kwinqanaba lakhe, kwaye wayithatha, kwaye wasasazeka kwi-Allochka enkcenkcesha evela kwisebe le-accounting? Kwaye umphathi weSebe, uPyotr Semyonovich, akazange aqale ukuphakamisa umvuzo wakho? Ewe, kwaye oku kwenzeka. Xa ufinyelela umnqophiso oyifunayo, maxa wambi kufuneka uhlawulele into ethile. Zama ukuvavanya imiphumo ebalulekileyo kwangaphambili ukwenzela ukuba bangabi lusizi kuwe. Ukuba ucinga ukuba eli xabiso liyamkeleka, bhetele. Ukuba akunjalo - thabatha konke okufanayo. Ubomi obunjalo!
5. Mhlawumbi yonke into efanayo ...
Ngaphambi kokugqibela ukutshisa amabhuloho, ukunika "ukusukela esangweni" kunye nezinto ezinjalo, cinga-ngaba konke kubi? Ewe, uPetya unobuso obubuhlungu, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo uyamemeza ngokumangalisayo kwaye uyakwazi ukunyamekela. Umntakwabo wamnika iisokisi kwintambo eluphuzi, kwaye akazange afune ukumcaphukisa. Yaye unokuzikhethela izibophelelo ... Ngaba iimpazamo ekukhanyeni kwezibonelelo ezikhoyo zibaluleke kangaka? Okanye mhlawumbi kuyakuphela?
ULily, oneminyaka engama-32 ubudala, umguquleli: "Andizange ndiwathabathe u-Ilya njengomfana. Wahamba kunye nathi ukuya kwi-cinema, wathatha inkampani yethu yenkwenkwezi ehlathini e-indlebe waza wayigxotha kwaye wayibekezelela ingxoxo malunga ne-pantyhose, iingubo zangaphantsi, iintsuku ezibalulekileyo kunye neentombi. U-Ilyushka-intombi, ndambiza kwada kwafika mhla wafika kum ngeentyatyambo. Ngentloni, ndagqithisa into yokuba "ndihlala ngabahlobo" kwaye "andiyicwangcise ulwalamano olunjalo" xa ndakuqonda ngokukhawuleza ukuba uya kuhamba, kwaye ndandingakulungeli ukulahlekelwa yinto ... Kwaye esikhundleni segama elithi "Hayi" ndathi " Masizame »»
U-Ilya noLily bahlala ndawonye iminyaka eyisibhozo, banomntwana omhle, kwaye bajonge omnye nomnye amehlo.
Ngoko ke, xa usenza isigqibo, silinganisa zonke iingxaki kunye neengxaki, uze wenze kuphela! Inhlanhla kuwe!