Siphumelela ngempumelelo izinga lokuzithemba kwethu

Yintoni ukuzithemba kwakho, kubalulekile-ukuba umgangatho wobomi bethu? Ukuzithemba kuyimilinganiselo yethu yobungakanani bomntu wethu, zombini ngokubanzi kunye neempawu zethu zangaphandle nangaphakathi, kwaye, njengommiselo, kuxhomekeke kwisimo sengqondo esinalo. Ngoko, ukuzithemba kwegazi kunye ne-phlegmatic ngokuqinisekileyo, abantu be-choleric badla utshintsho, kunye neengcibiliki, njengommiselo, bangaphantsi kwexabiso labo kuluntu emehlweni abo. Ngoncedo lokuzithemba, sichaza indawo yethu kuluntu. Eli xabiso alisoloko lihlala, lihluka ngoxhomekeke kwizizathu zangaphandle kunye neenkqubo ezivela ekujuleni kolwazi lwethu.
Ukuba izinga lakho lokuzithemba liphantsi, iingxaki zokunxibelelana, ekwakhiweni komsebenzi zingenakupheka, kuyacetyiswa ukuba uphumelele ngokufanelekileyo ukuzithemba kwakho. Uvavanyo olulula: Hlaziya indlela osabela ngayo ekunconyeni, okanye udumise umsebenzi owenzela unembeza. Wena, unamahloni kwaye udibanisa, ungenakungqungquthela: akukho nto indidumisayo, andizange ndenze into ekhethekileyo - kukho inqanaba elingaphantsi, kufuneka ukhulise ukuzithemba.
Masiqale ngomsebenzi olula kumbonakalo wakho: yiya kwi-salon ye-beauty, utshintshe iinwele, wenze i-manicure, zinike iseshoni yokusila. Kucetyiswa ukuba ubuyekeze iigrashe, ukhetha imibala ekhanyayo kwiingubo. Yenza ucoceko jikelele kwindawo yokuhlala, ulahle izinto ezingadingekile. Isiphumo asiyi kudala ukuza - umfanekiso wakho ohlaziyiweyo uya kunceda ukuphakamisa ngokuphumelelayo ukulinganiswa kwakho emehlweni akho! Hlanganisa oku kulandelayo: fakelwa kwindawo evelele (isibuko, umnyango wekhabhinethi), okanye kwizinto eziqhelekileyo ezisetyenzisiweyo (isikhwama, ikhadi lomsebenzi), iqabunga elinobhaliso. Kwimiyalezo, ifom efanelekileyo kufuneka isetyenziswe: Ndiyimpumelelo, ihlakaniphile, inenhlanhla.
Kholelwa kuwe. Ukuzibhalela ngokwakho iifomu-magama kwakhona kwakhona kwaye ngokukhawuleza uya kuqiniseka: kusebenza!
Siphumelela ngempumelelo izinga lokuzithemba kwethu ngokufunda ngokuchanekileyo kwamkela ukuncoma. Ngaba udunyiswe? Ngaba uyayixabisa utshintsho kwimbonakalo yakho? Sumkrazula kwaye uthe ngokunyanisekileyo "mbulela"! Unokuzicwangcisa ngaphambili phambi kwesibuko, kuya kubonisa umntu ophumelelayo owazi ukubaluleka kweetalente zakhe. Usuke wakwazi ukuphakamisa ukuzithemba, uhamba ngendlela elungileyo, kodwa kusasa kakhulu ukugubha ukunqoba, siqhubeka nomendo wokuziphucula. Inkqubo yokwandisa ukuzithemba kufuneka ihambe kakuhle, ngaphandle kobudlova. Khumbula! Ukuba uhlala ucinga ukuba zonke izenzo zakho zenzelwe ukwandisa ukuzithemba, unokuza kwimeko echaseneyo. Ungesabi ukuthatha ibhizinisi elitsha.
Ukuba ukwesaba kusekho, hlalutya izizathu zalo, mhlawumbi uya kuza kwisigqibo sokuba uya kuphumelela ngokufanelekileyo ngolu msebenzi, kwaye ukwesaba kukuphela kokungakhuselekanga. Xa kwenzeka ukungaphumeleli, iimbono zibukeka zibuhlungu kwaye zikhohlakele, ziya kuba zichanekile ngakumbi ukucacisa izizathu zayo zizolile kwaye zikhuthaze. Ukuba ngomsebenzi omtsha awuqondi into ethile, unganqikazi ukucela uncedo. Ikhono lokunciphisa intloni kuya kunceda ekuphuculeni ngempumelelo ukuzithemba kwakho.
Thatha umgaqo ukuba ungazithelekise nabanye abantu. Uhlukile kwaye uphila ubomi bakho, yenza izigqibo ngokwakho. Ungazigxeli ngokusilela, khumbula ukuba sonke sinelungelo lokwenza impazamo, kuphela umntu ohlala ngezandla zakhe. Yenza uluhlu lwempumelelo yakho (kungekhona ihlabathi jikelele). Ngaba ufunde ukuqhuba? Mkhulu! Ngaba ufunde umzekelo omtsha we-crochet? Yimangalisa! Yongeza imihla ngemihla kwimpumelelo yakho.
Zenzele uluhlu lweempawu zakho ezilungileyo: Ndimnene, unobulungisa, unyanisekileyo, unomqondo wemathematika, njl njl. Zama ukuya kwiklabhu yezemidlalo, okanye ubuncinane wenze i-gymnastics yemihla ngemihla, uze uyibulale iintaka ezimbini ngelitye elinye: phucula umzobo ngesithuba, kwaye ungabhala ukunqoba olutsha kuluhlu lwempumelelo. Ngeendlela ezilula, sakwazi ukuphucula ngempumelelo ukuzithemba kwethu. Musa ukuma kwinqanaba elifikelelekileyo, uzuze phambili, unqwenela ulwazi olutsha kunye nezakhono!