Khumbula, iminyaka embalwa edluleyo, uSedokova watshata umphathi weKiev Dynamo Valentine Belkevich. Yonke into ebhaliweyo yabhala ngomtshato wabo omangalisayo. Ngenxa yothando lomyeni wakhe, umculi washiya iqela elithandwayo "VIA Gra" kwaye wazinikela kwintsapho. Ndazalela intombi yam, ndahlala kunye nomntwana wam, ndadibana nomyeni wam ngokutya okutshisa. Xa amahemuhemu asasaza ukuba intsapho yakhe yayingalunganga, wayeya kugqiba ethi umyeni wakhe akafuni ukuba asebenze, ngenxa yokuba babe neengxaki. Nangona kunjalo, njengoko kuvele namhlanje, isizathu esiyinyani sengoko siyahluke ...
- Akunakho ukwahlukana okulula. Ukuqhawula kwam isahluko kwakunzima kakhulu, - uthi uAnna. - Xa kukho abantwana, oku kunzima kakhulu. Ndicinga ukuba nakuphi na ukwahlukana, abantu ababini bayasoliswa. Omnye akazange ahambe nabo ukuze adibane nabo, omnye umntu waya kwelinye indlela. Ekubeni bam ndihamba ngegama elibi kakhulu - "ugwenxa". Kwaye kwadlula ixesha elide.
Ngexesha elithile ndaqonda ukuba umtshato wam waqhuma njengombhobho wesepha. Mhlawumbi, ndazakhela yona. Yaye ubomi bunzima.
UValentine uhlala kunye nomfazi owayehlala naye phambi kwam, emva kwam naphakathi kwam. Andimangaleli kwaye ndingatsho ngubani ongendawo. Umntu omnye nje ulungile kwindawo enye, okwesibini kwenye. Ubomi bakhe. Ndiyamhlonela ilungelo lakhe. Kwaye mna nentombi yam nam. Kodwa mna kwakungumxholo onzima.
- Uyifumene njani malunga nokuphanga?
- Ndiziva ukuba umyeni wam unomntu. Emva koko waqala ukulala, ngamanye amaxesha akazange ahlale ubusuku ekhaya. Ndapakisha iingxowa zam kwaye ndishiya nentombi yam.
"Ngaba ushiye umyeni wakho?"
Ndingathini na? Ukuba umntu udibana nomfazi kunye nentombi yakhe? Ngaba ngaba mna owashiya okanye ngubani? Ndathi: "Awukwazi ukuhlala ngale ndlela." Uthi: "Emva koko masiqhawule."
"Ngaba umyeni wakho wazama ukugcina intsapho yakhe?"
- Ndazama kwaye ndabuya nentombi yam. Kwaye sazama ukubuyela. Kodwa akukho nto eyenzekayo.
Ndamvumela ukuba ahambe athi: "Kulungile." Umntu akanako ukubamba ukuba omnye ufuna ukuhamba. Ubuwula ukuba ungagcina indoda kunye nabantwana okanye enye into. Uya kushiya kamva okanye kamva. Wabuya inyanga emva kokuqhawula umtshato ... Wacelwa kwakhona ukuba asayine. Ndi ngafuni.
... Kwakunzima kakhulu, kwakunomvakalelo ukuba uthengisiwe, watshintshana. Kodwa andifuni ukuyibuyisela. Ngenxa yokuba ndiziva ndilungile kakhulu ngoku.
Ngoku ndinamava kwaye ndiyazi ukuba awukwazi ukunamathela indebe ephukileyo. Xa uthelela amanzi kuyo, iyaqhubeka. Kwaye xa amanzi aphelayo, isasaza. Unokuzenza ngathi andizange ndiyibone, ayiyazi nto, yinda, vala. Kodwa kukho ukubonakalisa okunengqondo nguSchopenhauer: "Ukuvumelanisa nomntu nokuhlaziya ubuhlobo bakhe obuqhekekileyo kunye naye ubuthathaka apho kufuneka aguquke xa enza into efanayo kwimeko yokuqala eyabangela ukuphuka."
Ndikholelwe, kungcono ukuqala ubomi obutsha, endenzayo.
- Ngaba wena, ukungcatsha nokungcatsha izinto ezahlukeneyo?
"Ndicinga ukuba into efanayo." Ubuqhetseba abukho uxhamla kwiimeko apho ababini bavumelana nalo.
Ngelishwa, ngoku uhlaselo luyinto evamile. Ngamanye amaxesha, nangenxa yamadoda athile, ukungcatshiswa komfazi akukona ukungcatsha. Kufana nobomi obufanayo obufanayo - umfazi kunye nenkosikazi, abaninzi banokubonakala beqhelekileyo, ngelanga.
"Ngaba indoda yakho yayicinga ukuba iyinto evamile?"
"Ndicinga ukuba uhlala nje nje."
- Abanye abasetyhini bavala amehlo abo ...
"Andiyazi nawaphi na amabhinqa abaya kuzincama ngokunyaniseka." Lo buxoki kuwe ngenxa yokugcina intsapho. Ngoko iinyanga ezingama-70% zihlala. Kwaye eMoscow ngokuziphatha kweMoscow - nangaphezulu, kwaye kwiRublevke ke ihlala kwiintsapho ezingama-99 kunye nekhulu lonke: xa umfazi ezenza ngathi akukho nto eyenzekayo. Kodwa oku akusiyo ihlabathi lam. Kwaye ngenye indlela ndaqonda ukuba andiyi kuhlala njengale. Andifuni olu hlobo lobomi. Akukho ngemali, nokuba yimeko yomfazi. Nakho ndikholelwa kwintliziyo elula, yethwele, ukuze ndiqhubeke ndihlala njengalokhu kwaye ndixoxe ngam. Ndiya kufuna unonwabo. Ndatshutshiswa ekuqhawuleni umtshato, umama wayenxamnye naso. Ndaxelelwa ukuba andiyi kuba ncedo kumntu, ndiza kuhlala nomntwana ezandleni zam ... Kodwa ngoku abantu bayenza iziphakamiso kum. Kuba umntu ohloniphekileyo akayi kuba ngumqobo kumntwana. Ukuba umntu unesidalwa sikayise, uya kuqhubeka. Ngaphezu koko, ndinayo intombi engumlingo kwihlabathi. Lo ngummangaliso omncinci.
Ijaji yabuza ... ibhola leDynamo
- Ngaba uyayazi indlela esayelelwa ngayo - eyona nto ibini ye-Ukraine? Ngomntwana omncinci, kucacile ukuba kwakunzima. Kwaye ndaza ndiqhayisa, kodwa kuyacaca ukuba ubusuku abuzange balale, wakhala. Ndiza, iValentine yafika. Safika kwisakhiwo, ijaji yabuza: "Kukho imibuzo emithathu kuwe. Okokuqala: ngubani oza kuhlawulela i-17 hryvnia-i-dollar e-2? Intombi iya kuhlala nobani? "Ndithi:" Ndiye. " UMgwebi: "Ngaba ndinako ibhola yeDynamo kunye ne-autograph yakho?" Konke! Sasibelelwa imizuzu emibini. Andizange ndiyiqonde ukuba le nto ingaba njani. Kwaphi na ithuba lesibini, amazwi ahlakaniphileyo abantu? Luhlobo luni lomtshato onokukwazi ukuba khona? Sekudlulile kwangoko kuye kwaphela, yahlaziywa.
Indlu yasala kumyeni wayo
- Emva kokuqhawula umtshato ndijamelene nobunzima basekhaya. Emtshatweni, sahlala nomyeni wam nentombi kwindlu yakhe.
Ngokomthetho, andinalo ilungelo kuye, ngenxa yokuba wathengwa ngaphambi komtshato. Bonke bandixelele: "Simele silwe naloo ndlu." Kwaye ndacinga ukuba ekubeni wayemfumene ubomi bakhe bonke, makabe naye. Kwaye akazange akhethe ukuba sihlale.
Ndaziphoqa ukuba ndiyilibale yonke into embi. Washiya okuhle kuphela kwimemori yakhe. Kodwa ndiyakhumbula ukuba kwakunzima. Ndaqeshisa indlu, ndahlala emva komtshato ngaphandle kwezindlu. Andizange nditshatile - ndihleli nendodakazi yam, andizange ndifumane isitifiketi esivela emsebenzini. Kodwa bayazi. Kwaye ibhanki iya kudibana nayo, yanginika imboleko enkulu, apho ndathenga khona indlu eKiev. Ndihlala ndihlawula mboleko. Ixesha elide laliphantsi kokwakhiwa. Kwiiveki ezintathu ngaphambi kokufudukela kwindlu entsha, akukho nto yayilungele. Imali yokulungiswa yayingekho enkulu. Abahlobo bam behamba ngeenxa zonke kwindawo yaseKiev, apho kukho i-hypermarket kunye nezinto zokwakha. Ngenxa yoko, ndafumana enye yezindlu ezihle kakhulu. Xa abantu beza, bathi: "Mhlawumbi ufanele yonke imali ephosa". Kwaye ndiyaqhayisa ukuba andinanto, nokuba imoto, kodwa ndagqiba indlu kwiiveki ezintathu.
I-Spaghetti ekuxininiso
- Inkxalabo emva kokuqhawula umtshato, ndaphatha ... i-spaghetti. Ndiza kusihlwa kwaye ndipheka i-spaghetti nge-sauce. Incede. Kodwa ndafumana amanqaku angama-7 eyongezelelweyo. Ngenxa yoko, andiyikucebisa indlela - kunzima ukuphinda ufumane ubunzima bokuqala. Watshintshela kwiincwadi ezizodwa - "Ukuxhatshazwa kwezilonda zengqondo", into enje. Unokuya kumculi wesilisa. Awusakulungele ubuhlobo obutsha, kwaye kufuneka uvuselele amandla akho omzimba. Ngokufanelekileyo: i-masseur yindoda, umgcini wezinwele ngumntu. Awuyintombazana, kodwa indoda eyinyani leyo iya kuthi: "Yeka indlela enhle ngayo!" Kuhle ukutshintsha umbala weenwele zakho! Ndakhawuleza ndidayida. Ungatshintsha i-hairstyle yakho, uye ku-fitness, qala ukusebenza, funda iincwadi ezihlakaniphile, ube yinkwenkwezi!
Xa ibhinqa isebenza, kubonakaliswa kokuzimela kwakhe. Ndiqinisekile ukuba umfazi kufuneka abe neyakhe ishishini. Ngaphandle koko, kukho umtya kumntu wakhe.
I-recipe yam kubafazi emva kokuhlukanisa: indoda entsha, iinwele ezintsha, ubomi obutsha!
Ngamava ndiyazi: akunamsebenzi kumntu oqhawule umtshato ukuzama ukuvusa uvelwano. Zenza izinto ezahlukeneyo ezahlukeneyo. Ungabi ngumntu owaziyo ukuba ubuthathaka. Ndineemeko apho ndiyindoda, kodwa akukho mntu uyakubona. Ngenxa yokuba ndinamandla kwaye andiyi kubonisa ubuthathaka. Amadoda abazingeli. Bazingela amaxhoba. Kwaye bafuna ukwenza. Yaye xa ixhoba sele lifile, abanomdla. Banomdla wokubamba ukuhlala bekulungele. Ngoko ke, kufuneka uvuke, uhlambe, ugqoke. Yaye akazange afikelele!
Into ephambili ayikuphelelwa lithemba. Qala uqale uhlala kuwe. Qalisa ukufunda ukuthatha amanyathelo okuqala. Abantwana nabo abazi indlela yokuhamba kuqala, kwaye ke sonke sihamba kakuhle.
Amadoda acinga ukuba sonke siyafa xa besuka. Siza kukhwela ngamadolo. Ngexesha lokuphuka, umyeni wam wathi kum: "Ngaphandle kwam uya kuba yinto kwaye akukho nto." Kodwa khangela kum, akunjalo! Akukho nto ibuhlungu abantu ngaphezu kokuba kuqinisekiswe ukuba uyaphila ngaphandle kwayo ... Amadoda ayithandi ukuziva enetyala, atshintshe ityala phezu kwalo mfazi. Musa ukuzibamba kwaye uzigwebe!
"Ngaba indoda yakho yazisola ngayo?"
"Ndicinga ukuba nguye kuphela owaziyo." Ndiyazi ukuba mna kunye nentombi yam iya kuba yintombi ebathandekayo ebomini bakhe. Uyamthanda intombi yakhe ngaphezu kwam. Ndicinga ukuba iValentine ayisayi kutshata kwakhona. Yaye akayi kuceba. Igama lakhe kuphela lilingam.
- Ngaba ubonile indoda enaloo razluchnitsey emva kokuqhawula umtshato?
"Andizange ndimbone kwaye ndize ndibe nako." Kutheni? A ndiyena moshachist. Kutheni uzilimaza ngokuzithandela? Kubuhlungu kakhulu. Andizi nokuba ubonakala njani. Andizange ndimbone ebomini bam. Kwanele kum ukuba uyazi ukuba ndibukeka njani. Ndilapha. Akukho mntu, akukho mntu. Kuphela mna kunye nentombi yam.
Andiyena umfazi oqhawule ngoku, kodwa umfazi okhululekileyo! Ndimele ndithi: "andiye" ndiqhawule umtshato, "Ndingumfundi oqinileyo, ndikhululekile!" Ngokukhawuleza uvula ilungelo lokukhetha. Unokuya kwiivenkile, i-cinema, ukuthetha nabani na abantu. Ihlabathi lihlukile. Amaninzi amaninzi. Vumela amadoda ngokwawo ahlangabezane neengxaki zabo.
"Ixesha liphilisa?"
- Ngokuqinisekileyo. Into ephambili akuyi kuhamba nale meko kwaye ungayikhumbuli ukuba yintoni. Musa ukujonga nayiphina impazamo kuwe. Yamkela imeko njengoko kunjalo. Konke kwenzeka, akukho nto ingatshintshwa. Kukho ibinzana eliqaqambileyo: imbali ayibhaliwe kwiphepha elilodwa. Akukho namnye owaziyo ukuba kusasa kangakanani.
- Ingaba umyeni wakho wangaphambili ulawula ukuhlala ungumhlobo?
- Asizange sihlale sihlobo. Kuyinto engaqhelekanga xa abantu bebahlobo kunye neentsapho emva kokuba beva ubunzima obukhulu. Ukuba sathi sahlukana, siqaphela ukuba singcono ngaphandle komnye nomnye, ndicinga ukuba siya kuxolelana kuqala ngenxa yentombi yethu. Kutheni sifanele sixoxe? Into ephambili akuyiyo ukulwa kwaye ingabi kubetha izitya. Mna ndingumntwana wabazali abahlukanisile. Abazali bam bahlukana kakhulu. Andizange ndibe noyise. Ngoko ke, kukho ezininzi iingxaki - ukungakhuseki kunye nezinye izinto. Ndiyaziqhenya ukuba ngoku u-Alina ndenze oko ukuze indoda yangaphambili iyazi: nanoma yimuphi umzuzu, xa ifuna, uyayibona intombi yakhe. Sinesivumelwano sokungabi nxamnye naye, njengoko ndibizayo. Andiqondi abafazi abaqala ukuphatha abantwana - kubi kumntwana wabo.
Ndathi ndatshata ukutshata ndiphosa loo mini
- Ziziphi izigqibo ozenzayo emva komtshato? Ngaba kulungele ukutshata kwakhona?
- Ngexesha elithile ndizange ndifune ukutshata kwakhona. Ndabona ukuba ngumsebenzi onzima ukuba ngumfazi. Kubalulekile ukuba uhlalutye rhoqo kumntu olandelayo. Ngezinye iinkalo yeka ukuba nguwe. Oku kunene kunzima kakhulu umsebenzi. Kodwa ngoku ndiyazi ukuba ndinokhetho lokutshata kwaye ndihlala kulunxweme lolwandle, umzekelo. Kodwa ndifuna ukuqonda kwaye emva koko sele ndatshata nomntu oya kuba ngumna wam ukuba andizange ndizisole. Ngokuqhawula umtshato, ubomi abupheli. Ndikholelwe, ngoku ndibuye ndivuyiswe ngamakhulu amawaka kunoko. Ngenxa yokuba andizange ndiphile ubomi bam. Izolo ndibe nosuku oluphambeneyo: lo mntu wandenzele isipho kwaye ... ngelo xesha ndandishiya. Ngenxa yomsebenzi wam. Akakwazanga ukudibanisa nomsebenzi wam, nangona uthando olukhulu kum ...
- Ngaba ukhethe umsebenzi?
- Andizange ndenze ukhetho. Wazenza ngokwakhe. Ndiyayithanda umsebenzi owenzayo. Andifuni ukuyeka yonke into iphinde ndizisole ngokungazalwanga. Ndifuna ixesha lokukhulula i-albhamu yedwa, ukukhumbuza iprojekthi "Ice Age". Ukukhulula incwadi. Xa ndikhulula i-albhamu, ndiya kuqonda ukuba andizange ngeneze kule ngqesho.
U-Averbukh wayenako ukundinqabela
"Andiyi kutya ukuqala ngaphaya kwaye ndibizele wonke umntu ukuba angesabi." Xa ndaya kunqoba iMoscow ngenjongo yeprojekthi ye-Ice Age, endingayange ndayivunywa nayo, wonke umntu wathi kum: "Kubuqili!" Kuye yonke i-Kiev yayilungelelaniswa: indawo yokuhlala, i-Porsche jeep, isebenza kwisikrini se-TV sase-Ukraine. Kodwa ndaqokelela iipotukhasi ezimbini zezinto - iingubo kunye nezicathulo - kwaye ndaza eMoscow. Kuye - iwaka leedola. Kuya kwanele kwiveki ehotele kuphela. Ufikile ekuphoseni kwi "Ice Age": konke, ndifikile! Ngaphambili izalisekile ukungaqiniseki. Kodwa emva kwemihla emithathu, ngenxa yokuzimisela kwam, u-Ilya Averbukh wamkela umsebenzi. Ndaphakamisa iiyure ezintandathu ngosuku. U-Ilya wakubona oku kwaye wabona ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba ungandise kule projekthi.
Umcimbi kunye neendlu zazisombululwa - "I-Ice Age" yandidla ihostela eMoscow. Ndiya kuqeqesho, ndibahlobo abahle. Kancinci ubomi buhlelwe. Ukuba ukholelwa ukuba yonke into iya kuba yinto emangalisayo, kwaye ungahlali ekhaya kwikhelo, liya kusebenza! Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukujonga emva.
Kulele embhedeni noMalakhov
- Ngoku ndikhulula ividiyo yam kwingoma ethi "Ndiyifumene". Lo ngumyalezo wevidiyo. Ndandifuna indoda eyayifana noBrad Pitt. Ngenxa yokuba kukho icebo elifana nefilimu "Mnu noMnu Smith." Khetha uMalakhov. U-Andrei kwaye ndachitha ixesha elide ndawonye - eKiev sinomboniso weTV. UAndreya ngeveki eza kum ukudubula, sasebenza kunye naye, wadibana waza wazalana naye. Amanye amaphephandaba asinika inqaku. Sinobudlelwane obuhle, nobubele.
Xa sasidinga ukutshiza i-clip yeqhotyoshelweyo, sasinexesha lothando. Sathetha ngothando omnye komnye, kodwa sasingenanga kubanga, akukho nto. Ixesha le-bouquet-candy. Kwaye sasiyiswa ekamelweni le hotele, sibeke ikhamera kwaye sathi: "Yiza, kufuneka kube khona indawo yothando, uthando." Satshintshana kwaye sathi: "Sidinga i-champagne." Sawa ezimbini iziglasi ze-champagne-kwaye yagijima! Yintoni esayenza naye apho! Ungumdlali omhle. Kodwa kubonakala ngathi ukuba sele sele siyilibale ukuba sidlale, sazama kakhulu. Igumbi lavalwa, ubuncinci babantu. Xa sishiya emva kwalesi siganeko, sasixakekile kwixinzelelo. Iimpawu zazingenangqiqo. Savuya, siphefumlelwe kulo msebenzi ... Kuhle ukuba siyeka! (Uhleka.)