Ngaba kunzima ukuba yintombi yabazali abadumileyo?
Elizweni lethu, le nto inqanda kakhulu. Ngaphandle kwamanye amazwe abenza izikhundla bahlonishwa kakhulu. Ukuba intombazana idutshulwa kwi-movie kunye nootata odumileyo, bathetha oku kuphela ngokuqinisekileyo. E-Rashiya, khawuleza ubone kule ndawo. Ndiyamangaliswa ukuva oku: kumsebenzi wokubambisa, inqabileyo ingenzeka, kodwa umbukeli akakwazi ukukubukela ibhayisikobho eneentsimbi ezingenalwazi. Kwaye abayi kuhamba kwindawo yokudlala. Ngaba ukhumbula ubaba owamkela uAlexander Abdulov ngoku?
Ndiyifumene imibuzo eninzi kuye njengendoda. Hayi, andinakukwazi ukulivakalisa ngoku ... Kodwa ndiyathetha naye ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunokuba ebomini bakhe. Ndiyazi ukuba uhlala kufuphi, ndithetha naye kwaye ndiyazi ukuba ngoku ndifumana ukhuseleko olongezelelweyo ezulwini.
Xenia, uyayibona njani ubaba wakho ophilayo-uBulgaria?
Andiyithandi ukuthetha ngale ndaba. Kungekudala izikrini ziza kukhutshwa ifilimu endiyibethayo ngobawo - uAlexander Abdulov, kwaye kule mfanekiso ndiza kuxela kancane ngobazali bam. Ndiba noyise omnye - uAlexander Abdulov, kwaye oko kwanele kum. Akuyiyo ibhizinisi labantwana ukuxolela okanye ukuxolela abazali: baya kuzikhethela phakathi kwabo.
Xenia , awukho nje umdlali weqonga, kodwa kunye nomfazi otshatileyo, umama oselula. Uvakalelwa njani kule mi sebenzi ye-Ksenia Alferova edumileyo neyintle?
Mhlawumbi, umfazi omdala, andizivumi, kwaye mhlawumbi akunakuze. Ugogo "ngumntu omdala" kwaye unentliziyo encinci kwiminyaka eyi-80. Ngoko ke, le ntokazi - ngokuqinisekileyo akuyena mna! Kwakusoloko ijoliswe kwintsapho: iphupha indlu enkulu, uthando lobomi kunye nomyeni oyedwa. Ukusebenza kwam kubalulekile, kodwa yindlela nje yokuzibonakalisa, kuba amandla kunye neengcamango ezahlukeneyo ndibetha ngentloko. Ndandiqinisekile: utshintsho olukhulu kumfazi xa luba ngumama, kwaye kungekhona xa indoda kunye nomfazi beqala ubomi obufanayo. Akunandaba: le mibini ibhaliswe ngokusemthethweni okanye ayikho. Ngokomzekelo, u-Egor kunye nam, emva komtshato, ngoNovemba 2001, bathetha ukutshata. Le nto yayiyinyathelo lethu.
Kwabaninzi, umcimbi womtshato ungumvuzo kwizinto zanamhlanje.
Andiyi kwamkela igama elithi "imfashini" . U-Egor kwaye ndandifaka nje ukuba imfuneko yesigramente yomtshato. Kodwa utata akazange avume ukuba ndize nditshatile, ngokubhekiselele kwingxaki yesenzo. Emva koko, inqubo ye-debunking ayikho, kwaye umkhosi uyenzeka ezulwini. Ukuba ibhinqa liza kuba nelinye indoda-liya kuba sisono. Kuba emva komtshato, umyeni munye - kokubili emhlabeni nasezulwini. Ndicebisa wonke umntu ukuba acinge ngenyameko ngaphambi kokuba athathe isinyathelo esinjalo. Ziziphi iinguqu emva komtshato - andinako ukwenza. Mhlawumbi, kukho umgaqo onoxanduva ngakumbi. Kuhle kakhulu, kumdala kwaye akuyindinzima kum. Oku kusondele kakhulu kweso sibini. Kwaye nangemva kokuzalwa kwentombi kaDunya, ndaqala ukuzithanda kakhulu. Ndandiqonda ukuba kukukhuliswa nokukhuliswa komntwana, intsapho yindoda yam ebhinqa. Futhi sebenze-kuba kuninzi. Xa umntwana ezalwa, kwakukho ukuvisisana, kwaye ndaqonda ukuba ndibe ngumfazi opheleleyo. Ngokukhawuleza ndaqala ukulungelelanisa yonke into kum: anditsho ukuba umongo wempumlo okanye ubude bemilenze, kodwa ukuvakalelwa ngokubanzi.
Xenia, ngubani onyamekela intombi kaDunya xa usendleleni?
Kuze kube ngumnyaka nesiqingatha ndahlala kunye nosana, ndanyamezela kwaye ndingazange ndisebenze nonke. Le nyanga, i-Duna iya kuba yiminyaka emithathu ubudala, kwaye ngoku iyakwenza inzala. Kodwa ndizama ukunikela ixesha lam elikhululekile kwintombi yam. Xa umntwana ebonakala kwintsapho, abanye abantu banomona wokuba abantwana bathabatha ingqalelo kwintetho yowesifazane kunye nothando kubo.
I-Egor iyakhula ngokukhawuleza. Kuze kube unyaka wanyamekela umntwana kunam kwaye ngokuvuya kakhulu: watshintsha idiapers, yahlamba. Andiyazi apho afunde khona oku! Kuhleka xa abantu bekhwele abantwana babo. Ngokuphambene noko, banyanzelekile ukukhusela umfazi onomntwana kuzo zonke iingxaki zangaphandle. Ukongezelela, unyaka kamva, xa umntwana sele esele eqala ukuhamba, ibhalansi elahlekileyo yobudlelwane "owesifazane-wesifazane" uyagqitywa, kwaye loo ndoda ayifuni iyancitshiswa. Kodwa kuxhomekeka kumfazi ngokwakhe. Nguwuphi na obabini ozama ukulinganisa ibhalansi yakho?
Ngokwemvelo, ndim . Ngokuqala nje, ayikwazi ukuhluka, kuba umama ozayo kumntwana wakhe unamahora angama-24 ngosuku.
Emva koko kufuneka abuye abe ngumfazi kunye nomfazi, ayeke ukuba ngumama kuphela. Le yinkqubo eyinkimbinkimbi yokuhlengahlengiswa kwakhona: ukuphinda ibuye ngokwesondo kwaye ikhangele, ukulahla ukuxinwa okugqithiseleyo kumntwana. Amanye amantombazana ayesaba ukuba akhulelwe, ukuze angabonakali. Ngaba ungenako ukwesaba ukuthetha ngokubambisana? Zibuphi uhlobo lobuqhetseba ezi nkxalabo! Ndakhawuleza ndaqala ukuma. Wayehamba kakhulu. Ungadli isonka ngobuninzi, kwaye ubeke endaweni yezityalo, iziqhamo kunye nezityalo - into enceda umntwana. Inyaniso yokuba abafazi bayinkathazo ngenxa yobunzima, basolisa abantu abavakalisayo. Indoda eqhelekileyo ingayithandi ingqungquthela emva kokuzalwa kwesisu okanye ishintsho sayo? Ndiyabuza ukuba unjani umntwana? Iingxaki. Mna kunye nomama sasingabangani; akazange andinyanzele ngombono wakhe. Andiyithandi inkqubo yemfundo. Emva koko, abantwana bayilungeleleneyo, kunye nomoya wabo. Kwaye umsebenzi wam njengomama awuyi kuphazamisa izakhono zakhe zendalo kwaye unikeze wonke amathuba okuphuhliswa ngokupheleleyo. Ngoko ndakhuliswe ngumama. Wathi: "Wonke umntu makenze iimpazamo ukuze aqonde ubomi." Enyanisweni, umama wangisindisa kwiintsilelo zehlabathi. Udla kaninzi kangakanani uvakalelo kwiintlungu zentsapho?
Xenia, ngubani owokuqala ukuya kwintlanzi?
Kuphi na ukuphikisana esikuthethayo, kodwa musa ukuchithachitha emagumbini. Musa ukwesaba ukuxabana: banceda ukuqonda imvelaphi yongquzulwano. Ngaphandle koko, yonke into iya kugqitywa ngokuqhawula umtshato, kwaye abafazi baza kutshabalalisa iintshaba. Into eyona nto ayikuthi ivule umnyango, kodwa hlala phantsi kwaye uthethe ngamabango athile. Abazali babona njani uYegor Beroev, xa wamzisa ekhaya lakho njengomyeni?
Nangona awakuthandanga ngokucacileyo, akukho mntu unganditshilo oku kwamehlo am. Oku kukhetha kwam kwaye ndihlala naye, kungekhona umama! Uyayiqonda yonke into, kwaye nangona engathandanga uYegor, unina wayigcina uluvo lwakhe. Ngako oko, andisazi ukuba uYeor uyamthanda umama okanye akayi ... Ngomnye wodliwano ndlebe uthe awuzange umele umdlali wendima kwindoda yakho. Umama wayemanyene nawe?
Sadibana no-Egor kwinkomfa yenkampani yeNkcazo Yokuqala. Wayengumdlali omncinci waseMoscow Art Theatre. Ndiqinisekile ukuba umama wayefuna mna njengendoda yakhe njengobhankini oqinileyo okanye umxhasi ozinzile, kungekho ngaphantsi! Ngenxa yokuba umdlali ongeyingozi. Ukongezelela, kukho amadoda ambalwa kakhulu phakathi kwabalingisi (anditsho ukuba ulwabelana ngesondo): lo msebenzi wecala lowesifazane - ukuba ubonakale, uthanda njalo. Ubawo, uAlexander Abdulov, ngumzekelo omangalisayo womntu owakwazi ukuhlala kulo msebenzi njengomntu emnzini wamathambo akhe. Mhlawumbi,
I-Egor yinto ehlukile kulo mbandela .
Xenia, wena kwi nkomfa yeenkomfa yazama ukutsala umdla wakhe?
Hayi, wandinqoba. Yayingcamango yakhe. Ndandithatha udibaniso kwaye ndasabela kuYogor kude neyokuqala. Wayemhle kum, kodwa akakho. Ukuxhamla kwethu kwenzeka kwenzeka. Uvalo lwavuka ngokukhawuleza, kodwa ixesha elide andinakuziqulunzela ngokwayo into eyenzekayo kum. Kwaye ndaqonda ukuba andinalo uluntu lwase-Egor, endikhululekile kakhulu. Kwaye ndagqiba isigqibo - luthando ...
Xenia, kwintoni okufumanisa kunzima ukufumana umgangatho onjalo nomyeni wakho?
Ufike ixesha elide kunye namaqabunga amandulo kuzo zonke iintlanganiso, kwaye ndihlala ndiphuzile kwaye ndingenakuhamba ekhaya ngexesha. Ngoko ke, sinemoto emibini, kwaye ayikho enye-yayiyisisombululo kwingxaki yethu. Omnye umyeni uthandekile ukucinga malunga nanyathelo lonke, kodwa ndenza konke ngokukhawuleza kwaye andithandi ukwakha izicwangciso ezide. U-Egor ngumntu ongathandabuzekiyo, ongathembekiyo, kwaye ndithembele kwaye ndihlala ndiyathemba isizathu esona sihle. Yaye unjani umntu ongeyityelele ingqalelo yakho? Ngaphandle kwento yokuhleka, ukuzithemba kunye nengqiqo. Andikwazi ukudibana naloo mntu. Xa abantu bezithatha ngokungathí sina, kuyingozi! Ndiyathanda ukudlala inkohliso kumntu, kodwa kungabi kubi. Ngeendlela ezininzi, ulonwabo lwentsapho luxhomekeke kulwalamano nobawo emthethweni.
U- Ksenia Alferova owaziwayo kunye nomhle wayakha njani ukuqonda nabazali bomyeni wakhe?
Ndingumntu ongenalo mbambano kwaye ndinokufumana ngokukhawuleza ulwimi oluqhelekileyo. I-Yegor nayo inomfanekiso olula. Asihlali nabazali bethu - kwaye kunjalo. Abantwana kunye nomama womtshato womtshato bafaneleke, kodwa ukuba bonke bahlala phantsi kophahla olufanayo - akuyi kuba noxolo kwintsapho. Sinobomi bethu, banabo. Siya kutyelelana kunye nokuthetha kakuhle. Intsapho nganye iyimilambo eyahlukileyo, kunye nendlela yayo yobomi namandla.
Kukholelwa ukuba zonke iintombi zifana nomama: Xenia, uthandani nonina?
Ngeendlela ezininzi, kwimihlaba yangaphandle. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo ndiyazibamba kwinto endiyenzayo okanye ndithetha ngendlela kamama. Mhlawumbi, oku akunakukuphepha. Wandihambisa kumzekelo wakhe. Ngomntwana wam, ndithetha ngendlela efanayo njengoko umama wayesebenzisa kum. Yaye ungubani kunye nonyoko kunye neempophoma ezipheleleyo? Umama uyangenisa, kwaye ndiyasebenza kakhulu. Uthanda ukuthandana, kodwa ndiyathanda amaqela amakhulu anomsindo. Ukuba unenkathazo, ubelana nani ngamava akho: kunye nonyoko okanye ngabahlobo bakho? Ebudaleni bam, abasayi kukhalaza kumama, kodwa banxibelelana nabahlobo. Ndibahlobo abahle. Akuzange kubhekane nokungcatshwa nokuziqhenya kwabahlobo. Ndicinga, kwaye akudingeki. Bathi upende kakuhle ...
I-Ksenia Alferova edumileyo neyintle inezinto ezininzi zokuzilibazisa: Ndiyakwenza i-stucco, idibene, ndidwebe. Oku kwenzeka ngokukhawuleza. Andiqhelekanga ukupenda, phantsi kokuphefumlelwa kwaye okokuko ndiyibona. Ndaqala ukufunda isiTaliyane, kuba ndihlala kuhlala eItali kunye no-Egor noDunya. Ndafunda isiNgesi, isiFrentshi kunye nesiJamani. Unayo indlu eSicily. Kutheni na? Umzantsi we-Italia unemimoya emangalisayo, imihlaba enhle, abantu banomdla kakhulu, amadoda anomdla. I-Italy yindlu yam yesibili, ndikhululekile apho.
Xenia, yiziphi izithethe ezafudukela kwintsapho yakho kubazali bakho?
Unyaka wonke intsapho , kunye nabahlobo, sibhala ngoFebruwari 6 - umhla wokuzalwa kuka-ugogo uKsenia, onomhlobo wam omkhulu. Ngomhla woNyaka omtsha, kunzima ukuhlanganisana, kwaye ngaloo mini, phantse wonke umntu unako. Ungummeli oqinisekisiweyo kwaye ulindeleke kakhulu kule ndawo. Emva koko batshintshela kwi-cinema nakwimidlalo yaseshashalazini. Musa ukuzisola?
Inyaniso kukuba ngelinye icala lam umama ngamagqwetha, kwaye ugogo ugqithise isihloko esithi "Igosa elimnandi likaNovosibirsk". Ngoko ke, ndagqiba isigqibo sokuya esikolweni somthetho kwiYunivesithi yaseMoscow State. Uqeqeshiwe e-UK, kwi-firm firm law firm, wasebenza ixesha elithile kwi-firm law yaseBrithani eMoscow. Ndizame kummandla wezomthetho, kodwa ndaqonda ukuba oku akusiyo ukubizwa kwam. Kwaye ndagqiba ekubeni ndiyenze kuphela into endiyithandayo. Lo ngumgaqo wam wobomi. Kwimaphephandaba kwakukho iindumiso malunga no-Yagor Beroev "inkonzo yenkonzo" kunye no-Ekaterina Gordeeva, iqhawe le-Olimpiki kwi-skating skating, ebenye naye kwi "Ice Age". Kwakhona bathi ngenxa yoko awuzange uthande ukuthatha inxaxheba ekuqhubekeni komboniso. Ngaba kukho inyaniso kuyo yonke le nto?
U-Egor kwaye ndamangaliswa ukufunda ngale ndaba evela kumaphephandaba. Okungonwabiyo, kodwa andiyi kuchazela yonke into kuwo wonke umntu. Inkcazo yephuzi yintlekele kwiintsapho zethu kunye nabantu abasondeleyo. Emva kwamanqaku anjalo kuyimfuneko ukuzolalisa. Iprojekthi ethi "Ice Age" ngumsebenzi omkhulu. Sineqeqesho oluninzi, kunye nomntu wonke - iintsapho kunye nomsebenzi. Akuyena wonke umntu onokumelana nemithwalo enjalo. Ngoko ke, ngokwenyama kwakungenamandla okanye ixesha lokuphelisa iireveli kwiqhwa. Sabuya ekhaya, kwaye sangoko silala, siwa ekukhathala. Ekuqaleni kwakuhlekisa kuthi, kodwa ngoku eli bali lide kakhulu ... Umama wakho uthathe njani inhlebo malunga no-Egor? Umama ukhangele emehlweni am, kwaye ngokukhawuleza uyayiqonda into eyinyani, kwaye yintoni inkolelo. Ngokombono wam, andiyikuvelisa umfazi ongonwabileyo, okhohlisiwe ... U-Egor kunye ndifumana into yokulahlekelwa - omnye nomnye.