Ngubani olalele kwindebe yam?
Imfuno yokumakisha kwimihlaba yayizuze ilifa lethu (ngokutsho kweDarwin!), Xa ama-homo sapiens ayengabikho kwendalo. Zonke izilwanyana zifumana indawo yazo ekhethekileyo, ekhuselwa ngentshiseko ekuhlaselweni kwabantu abangaziwayo-kungakhathaliseki ukuba isigxina okanye sisigxina. Ukukhuselwa kwesidleke kukubonakaliswa kobutyebi bokuzigcina. Emva kwakho konke, ukuba unayo iindonga ezine, akukho mimoya okanye imvula eyoyikisayo, kwaye izilwanyana zinalo ithuba lokungena kuloo nqaba. Siye saqaphela ukuba xa sihleli kwindawo yokutyelela ekamelweni elitsha, kuqala kokukhetha konke ukulala kwethu kubhaliso lwethu. Kwipropati yakhe, kwakhona, shiya umatshini - ubeke i-napkins, ulungise izitya kunye neentlinkethi. Ezi zinto azikho nje iindlela zokubamba ngaphezulu indawo. Akunakwenzeka ukuba umntu ovela ekhaya uza kufaka isimboli sakho esiyithandayo ngokufanelekileyo kwinqanaba lakho le-porcelain. I. Kakade, sikhetha igumbi (ukuba indawo yeemvume zezindlu!) Okanye sixhobisa ikhoneni lethu.
Enyanisweni, eYurophu eNtshona Koloni kukho enye imbonakalo kwimfashini - kungekhona ukufihla, kodwa ukuvula, ngaloo ndlela ibonisa indlela yokuhlela indawo kwindlu encinane. Kwaye ngoku kufikelele kwinqanaba lokungabikho. Zenziwe izindlu zokuhlambela, izindlu zangasese ezinezingcango zeglasi. Kwaye kwiindawo zokuhlala eziphambi kwee-front-garde zangaphakathi zidibeneyo zinezixhobo ezikhuselekileyo nakwiindawo zokuhlala kunye ... kwi-loggias.
Njengaye, sinokuzifihla ntoni? Nangona kunjalo, kule nto ibonakala ivulekileyo kukho inani elithile lokunyuselwa - ngoko-ke i-excentric ndiyichaza ihlabathi malunga nam kwaye ndandisa indawo yam yempembelelo. Thatha inwabilo egumbini lokuhlala phambi kwabahlobo okanye kwibhantshi labadluli-ngokubonakalayo - sitsho ngokucacileyo ukuba ngubani inkosi lapha.
Igumbi lokuzimela: Akukho mnyango?
Nangona kunjalo, intsimi yakho ayikho kuphela igumbi elilodwa. Le ibhokisi ekhuselekileyo, kunye nekhakethi, kunye nedayari, kunye neefowuni eziselula, kwanomculo. Ngaba baqaphela ukuba abantwana abakwishumi elivisayo bayathanda ukuguqula i-tape recorder okanye ukubeka iifowuni? Oku kukubonakalisa ukongamo lwakhe. Ngendlela, izazi zeengqondo kwiingcamango zobungasese (ummandla wendawo) ziquka iimvakalelo, kunye nezilingo, kunye nokuthanda kwelungu ngalinye lentsapho. Ngamanye amagama, ukungena emphefumlweni ngemibuzo engafanelekanga kukuphula ummandla wabucala.
Ziziphi iimiphumo zokuhlasela okunjalo? Ukuvakalisa ebhokisini lomnye umntu - ngokuzenzekelayo kubangele ukunganeliseki ngumnini wayo. Umntwana osemncinci, ongeyena imida engayinakunyulwayo, unokurhoxiswa okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, uziphathe ngokungcolileyo - ufumane imikhwa engozi, ubalekele ekhaya. Ukuphendula ngobuhlungu ukuphulwa kwintsimi yakho kunye nabantu abadala. Ngenxa yoko, ukungavumelani, ukuhlukana, i-boycotts-de kube ukuwa kwe "iseli yoluntu". Nangona kunjalo, zonke iinkxalabo malunga "neMay! Musa ukuzibamba! "Unokuziphepha xa uxhobisa ngokufanelekileyo ikhonkco elicolileyo kuwo wonke umntu.
Uhlula kunye no koyisa!
Abadali abakhulu bokuzimela kwangaphakathi ngabahlulo. Baza kukunceda ufunde ukuhlela indawo kwindawo encinane. Imingcele ayifanele ibe yindawo ephakamileyo. Ingaba yi-stenochki ephantsi, kunye namashalofu, kunye neencwadi zeencwadi, kunye neentyantyambo ezinkulu zimila kunye neeninzi zezityalo zangaphakathi, kunye nezihlalo okanye i-sofas. Ngaba ukhethe ikhonkco elicocekileyo? Beka ubuncinane isihlalo esinomqolo omude, kwaye uya kuziva uwedwa. Ngendlela, indima yabalindi bomdabala impumelelo inokuyenza kunye nezinto zangaphambili - i-vase enkulu yangaphandle, i-toy elula. Yiyo yonke into eyeka ukubukeka nokulibazisa abanye kuwe. Omnye umqhubi wesikhala somntu siqu ukukhanya kakuhle.
Ukucwangcisa igumbi kunokwenzeka ngokuncedisa ukukhanya okuphakathi, izibani zecala, izibane zomgangatho. Ufuna ukudibanisa bonke - vula umxhaka omkhulu kwisilwanyana. Udinga iiplothi ezincinci zokucinga - sebenzisa izilwanyana, izibane zeplanga, iziqwenga (ukukhanya nesithunzi kuya kubonisa ngokucacileyo intambo yommandla wangasese). Omnye uchaza indawo yakhe yombala. Umbala, umzekelo, kwigumbi elincinci elincinci ludonga olumbala oluhlaza - kwaye ufumane indawo efanelekileyo yokuphumla. Nangona kunjalo, yonke indlu efulethini ineemfihlelo zayo zokuthuthuzela.
Kwiindawo!
Ukuze uzive kakuhle ngexesha lokudla etafuleni lekhitshi, ilungu ngalinye lentsapho kufuneka lithathe indawo yakhe, ngaphambi kokuba yonke indlu ivumelane phakathi kwabo - ngubani, apho kuhlala khona. Ilungelo lokukhetha lokuqala lidla ngokunikezelwa kumnini okanye lowo unqununu kwi: indlu. Emva koko, okwesibini, "umlawuli" wesithathu kunye njalo, ukwenzela, bafuna indawo yabo. (Le piramidi ivela kwihlabathi lezilwanyana. I-Hierarchy ikhona kwiinkwenkwe.) Ngendlela, ukuba inkosi inika isivakashi sayo esihlalweni ekhitshini, iya kumbonisa inceba ekhethekileyo. Kwaye oku kuqinisekiswa ukuba bonke abahlali bendlu bayakuziva.
Igumbi lokuhlala lifumana ukuvuleka kwendawo. Nangona kunjalo, kudinga iziqithi ezihlukeneyo - emva koko, intsapho iya kubuthana apha ukuze ihlanganiselwe ngokuhlwa kwikhaya elikufutshane. Omnye ufuna ukubuka iTV, umntu-funda. Iziqendu kwiholo azibonakali zifanelekile. Kodwa izinto ezisemgangathweni, izikhanyiso kunye nezibane zomgangatho, imibala engaqhelekanga imibala iya kulwahlula kwiindawo ezininzi ezintle. Ngendlela, kuzo zonke izindlu kufuneka wenze indawo yoqhagamshelwano-apho ungathetha kunye nesitye okanye omnye nomnye. Ingaba ikona elihle kwigumbi lokuhlala - kunye netafile encinane kunye neenhlalo ezimbalwa. Njengendlela yokukhetha - unokuxhobisa i-balcony. Kwaye, ke, kufuneka uqwalasele indlela yokuhamba kwendlu. Kwiindawo zentshukumo esebenzayo kungcono ukubeka isitulo sakho - i-melteshenie yamaxesha onke iyakucasula.
Ingongoma ebalulekileyo kwimaphu yefestile yiofisi. Umnini, ngokuqinisekileyo, uyamxhobisa ukuthanda kwakhe. Nangona kunjalo, kwiimeko ezininzi, umfazi uyamnyathela ngobumnene ukuba athathe isinqumo sangaphakathi. Yaye nantsi impazamo eqhelekileyo yamaninzi amaninzi. Ngesizathu esithile kubonakala kubo ukuba intloko yentsapho idinga ifenitshala emnyama. Olu qulunqo lusele ludala. Ukuhlonishwa kwamadoda kuya kugxininiswa ngodonga olumnyama. Yaye ifenitshala ingaba nemibala elula. Abasetyhini bavakalisa ihlabathi labo elingaphakathi ngomdlalo wemifanekiso kunye noqhagamshelwano olunxibelelwano. Ngoko ke, kwigumbini lenkosikazi (kwikhabhinethi) kuya kuba ne-velvet eninzi, imithwalo epholileyo, iingubo ze-silika - yonke into eyenza i-softness.
Igumbi lokulala kwintsapho ngokuqhelekileyo lihlala kwindawo ezimbini. Kodwa kule "thina" kufuneka sive zombini "I". Abacwangcisi abacebisi ukugcinwa kwezinto zebhangqwana kwi-closet efanayo. Okokuqala, ukuvumba kuxutywe - iimpahla zendoda kunye nesibini ibhinqa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Kwaye okwesibini, ukuvula ikhabethe lesigqithiso sesibini, simnciphisa ilungelo lemfihlo. Ngendlela, ipesenti encinci yabantu abatshatileyo abahlali behlelekile ukulala kunye. Omnye ufika ekhaya kamva okanye uhlala ejika ephupheni - kunye nokulala kwakhe okuthandekayo kakhulu kunomdla. Apha akufanele ukopishe abantu, uze ulale ngokwahlukileyo - ukuba awukho emagumbini ahlukeneyo, ngoko ubuncinane kwimibhede eyahlukileyo. Kwaye ikhonkco lokudibanisa phakathi kweibhedi ezidibeneyo inokuba yipetropet enkulu enkulu - iya kwongeza into yokudlala kunye neyinto enobungqina kwibala lokulala.
Abaninzi bacinga ngokucokisekileyo kwintsimi yabantu abadala, kodwa bayakhohlwa ngokupheleleyo malunga nesizukulwana esincinane seentsapho. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kukuphosakele ukubeka umntwana kwindawo ehloniphekileyo kwaye usebenzise zonke izinto zakhe - uya kukhula ukuba abe ngumkhulu omkhulu. Kodwa, ngoTeresa Mayevskaya, ngokuphathelele iimfuno zabantwana kuyimfuneko, njengabo. Ngaba baqaphele ukuba abantwana abancinci befana nokunyuka phantsi kwetafile, ukuyila ama-cottages emithonjeni? Ngoko bazama ukwenza umhlaba ohambelana nobungakanani bawo. Ngoko ke, indawo yokuzonwabisa kufuneka ibe yincinci. Umzekelo, umgca ongaphantsi webhedi ezimbini. Umgangatho ongaphantsi komntwana uya kulala, kwaye ngaphantsi komdlalo. Igumbi labantwana lingaba likhulu kakhulu, kodwa phakathi ungayifaka intente - kwaye i-crumb iya kuvuyisa ihamba nayo kunye needopi okanye iifowuni. Isitrki seengubo kunye neemathoyilo kufuneka zihluke. Akulungile ukugcina izinto zomntwana kwishefu enye kunye nabazali. Ukuba kukho abantwana abaningana, kubalulekile ukunika iikhabhinethi ngamnye kubo.
Iindawo zokufunda kufuneka zenzeke ngokwahlukileyo. Ukuba ubeka amalingani ambalwa akwenzeki, ungafaka ucingo kwitafile, okanye ifowuni ende ende ukuze usebenzise inqanawa elincinci okanye inqwaba yeencwadi. Iinkcukacha ezibalulekileyo, ezithandwa ngabazali, yindawo yokuthetha noontanga. Ngokukodwa kuxhalabisa abantwana. Kodwa abantwana abaselula bancokola kunye nabahlobo kwi-ajenda. Hlela inxalenye yegumbi ukwenzela ukuba abantwana bakwazi ukuxelela omnye iimfihlo zabo. Kwaye baya kuba banombulelo omkhulu kuwe ngenxa yokunyamekela kwakho, kwaye ukuxhamla ngokomoya phakathi kwakho kuya kukhula ngamandla. Emva koko, umsebenzi weentsapho awuyikuhlukana, kodwa ukudibanisa.