Indlela yokuxhatshaza umlomo wakho?

Ukuba ukhangelelene, khangela abanye abantu, ubona ukuba abanye babo bayaluma imilomo yabo. Kwaye akufuneki ukuba uqinisekise ukuba oku, kwindawo yokuqala, inobungozi, kwaye ikhangeleka ngaphandle yinto enhle kakhulu. Le mkhwa kufuneka ipheliswe kwaye kuyimfuneko ukuyifumana ngokukhawuleza nangokufanelekileyo. Into ephambili kukuba unqobe kwaye unqobe. Oogqirha, i-psychotherapists bathi enye yezizathu zezi mpawu yinkinga yengqondo. Ukuba umntu uyaziqhelanisa nale mkhuba, uyayiqeda, ngoko kwinqanaba leengqondo, umntu uya kuphelisa ukwesaba kwakhe kunye namava ayenxulumene nayo.

Jonga
Jonga. Kufuneka ubone ngexesha elixhomekeke kuyo kuxhomekeka. Xa usombulula ingxaki, ngaba unomdla okanye ubukela i-movie kunye nomdla? Kwaye xa uqaphela ukuba uqala ukubetha imilomo yakho, zama ukulawula le meko ngokulungela ukulwa nawe kwaye uzikholise ukuba nguwe, kungekhona umkhuba wakho, owunqobayo.

Ngoku ukuba uzimisele ukulwa, kufuneka uqale ukuthatha amanyathelo alandelayo - kufuneka uzame ngenye indlela. Yaye uyazi, ezi ndlela zanceda abaninzi, ngoko baya kukunceda.

Zama ukugcoba umlomo wakho
Esinye sezizathu zalo mkhwa yinyaniso yokuba imilebe yakho iyomile kwaye idinga ukuxutywa. Enye yezinto ezikhethiweyo, ezithi, ngelishwa, akufaneleki wonke umntu-kukusetyenziswa kwe-lipstick. Olu khetho alukho ngendlela efanelekileyo kubantwana nakwamadoda, kwaye ngenxa yokuba iimveliso ezinonophiso ziyanelisa impawu, ziyakudliwa ngaphandle kokubangela ukuba zinyanyeke. Njengendlela yokukhetha, ifaneleke kuwo wonke umntu - umlomo wokucoceka okanye ucoceko olubi. Emva kokutya amaxesha ambalwa nje, ungazifuni.

Oogogo bethu bahlangula abantwana kwimizi embi yesardard. Kodwa isardadi idliwa ngokugqithiseleyo okanye izindebe ezibethelwa ngegazi, kodwa zivela emlonyeni onombala ongenabalabala - ayikho. Yaye iyancwina umlomo wayo, kwaye intle yakhe iya kuba yimbi.

Into ephambili ukuzola
Abanye abantu, xa bexhala, bakha umlomo wabo. Ngaba uvakalelwa kukuba uyabilisa kwaye uya kuphula? Kubalulekile ukuthatha umoya opholileyo, ucofe ngokukhawuleza, uphinde uphumelele, ubambe umoya wakho okwesikhashana kwaye uphumelele. Yenza iibini eziliqela. Khawucinge ngumoya olwandle olukhanyayo okanye isibhakabhaka esingenamlilo. Imifanekiso enjalo iya kukubeka ekuphumeni okuzitheleyo nokuzithemba, kwaye ukwesaba kwakho nomsindo uya kuzinza. Ukwenza oku akunakucima kuphela iingxaki ezininzi, kodwa ebomini kukulawula ngcono.

Fumana indawo
Zama esikhundleni somkhwa wokubetha umlomo wakho ukuba usebenzise enye indawo. Ingaba yimbewu yelanga kunye neesekese. Kodwa musa ukunyuswa, kwaye ke endaweni yokuxhomekeka komnye ufumane enye.

Le ndlela ilungile okokuqala, ngoko, xa uqaphele ukuba imilomo yakho ayisayi kutshaya, yeka ngokukhawuleza usebenzisa i-candy, imbewu yeetetrons okanye enye into.

Qala u kuthetha
Xa ufuna ukuluma umlomo wakho, qalisa ingxoxo. Emva koko uya kuphazamiseka ngesihloko sencoko. Hlalani nedwa - bhala ngokuvakalayo, funda ivesi. Xa umkhwa wakho ubonakalisa ngexesha lokucamngca nzima, thetha le ngxaki kwizwi lakho: imilomo yakho iya kuhlala ihleli kwaye iingcamango zakho ziya kulinganisa.

Uncedo lwezengqondo
Kubonakala ngathi zonke iindlela ziye zazama, kodwa yonke into injengaphambili. Yintoni endiyenzayo? Kwenzeka ukuba imikhwa emibi yindlela yokubonakalisa kwangaphandle kwamava akho angaphakathi okanye iingxaki. Emva koko unganqikazi, udinga ukubonisana neengcali kwiinkalo zengqondo okanye i-neurology. Ngokukodwa kuba ufuna ngokwenene ukususa ingxaki engathandekiyo.

Ungazama ukusebenzisa i-hypnosis. Kodwa kufuneka uqiniseke ngokupheleleyo kwiingcali, ukuze ingxaki enye ingabi yinye, okanye awufumani imali.

Wonke umntu uhlukile!
Sabala ezinye iindlela zokulahla umkhwa wokubetha imilomo yakho, kodwa umntu ngamnye ngumntu wodwa, ngoko ke into efanelekayo, inokuchaphazela omnye. Fumana indlela yakho ngokusondela kule ngxaki kunye noxanduva lonke, kwaye uyazi ukuba uya kuphumelela!