Ngomdla omnye kunye nomyeni wakhe, unquma ukwandisa yakho, ngoku, i-joint genus. Unentlungu kunye nenwabe ekukhuliseni isigxina zonke iinyanga ezi-9 zokuzalwa kwakho. Iiii ... Umzuzu womlingo wokubonakala komntwana ufikile! Ndiyakuvuyela! Ubaba omncinci eneentyantyambo kunye nomzala wakhe osondezayo esibhedlele. Emva kweveki yokuqala yeeveki, kwinqanaba leentsuku ezinikezelwe kuphela kwintsana.
"Papa", indoda yakho, ayibonakaliyo, kodwa ngokunyamezela, ukuhlwa, ukulala, ukuguqula umbhobho kunye nokuthula, uhamba waya ebukumkanini bukaMorpheus!
Nawe ubuza umbuzo ocacileyo-kutheni umyeni engafuni ukulala ngesondo emva kokuzala?
Izizathu, eneneni, zininzi, kodwa qwalasela izinto eziphambili. Masiqale ngokulandelelana.
Izizathu zengqondo:
1 isizathu. Ngethuba lokukhulelwa, abafazi, ukuba bawubeke ngokuthobeka, abaziphathe kakuhle, banomdla kwaye banothando kumyeni wakhe. Imimoya, impilo embi, ubunzima, ukukhathala, i-toxicosis ayinciphisi iingxaki kubini, kodwa kunoko-ke. Enye, enye, okwesithathu ... Yiba nokuxabana kwakho, ukungaqondani kunye nokushiyeka kukukhula kwijubane elibi! Inani elincinci lamadoda, sele libuya ekhaya lisuka emsebenzini ngokuhlwa, liyakwazi ukuphulaphula, ukuxhasa kunye nokujikeleza isiqingatha sabo esikhulelweyo ngokunyamekela. Kulo mbini, ukuhlukana kuyavezwa, kwaye ayikuthi ihambe nge-inertia, kodwa iyaqhubeka ikhona emva kokuzalwa. Ngomthwalo onjalo weengxaki kunye nentukuthelo ngesondo, umntu akanako ukuthetha. Okokuqala kufuneka uhlale kunye kunye nokufumana ingqungquthela yeengxaki zakho. Kufuneka uxoxe ngeemvakalelo zakho uze uphulaphule umyeni wakho.
2 isizathu. Indoda, ubukele indlela osondla ngayo isifuba sakho somntwana, ulale naye, uhlambe, njl. uyeka ukukubona njengento yesondo, into awayefuna ukuyihlasela xa uqala ukudibana (ubuncinci). Ngoku ubona kuwe unomdla, uthanda kakhulu, kodwa unina womntwana wakhe. Umama - Madonna. Kulo ntloko yomyeni wakhe, oku kwaziwa akunakwenzeka ukuba udibene nesondo.
3 isizathu. Yonke ingqalelo yakho iphendukele kwi-prankster encinane eyabonakala ngokukhawuleza endlwini yakho. Indoda ayiyena yodwa kwaye iyakuthandwa kakhulu. Ewe, ukuba uqala ukumanga emnyango ngegama elithi "unobulumko" xa uvela emsebenzini. Kodwa ukususela ku-kiss nokulala ngokwesini, ode kangakanani. Abasetyhini banomfudumalo kwaye banamathele ngakumbi abo bafumanayo kunye nabaqini bakho abaneqinileyo. Ukudlala nomyeni wakhe kwaye, ngaphandle kokuqaphela oku, ngokukhawuleza ube ngumlingisi okhohlisayo.
4 Isizathu. Oomama abancinci banzima kakhulu ukunyamekela umntwana, kunye nomyeni wakhe, kunye naye! Ukuba umntu akanakunceda kwimicimbi yekhaya kunye nokunyamekela umntwana, usadinga ukuthetha naye ngokuqinisekileyo kwaye unqume indlela yakhe yokugcina indlu yonke imihla. Kwaye apha. O, ummangaliso! Ufunyenwe, yintoni-hayi, imizuzu engama-30 kwintanda yakho!
Kwaye-ke-inqwelo yefantasy! Sinawe bafazi! I-mask ebusweni, okanye ukuhlamba kunye nemifuno ecocekileyo, kunye ne-SPA-salon kwindawo ethile engekho kwindlu okanye ivenkile yelinen ecikizekileyo! Kwaye, sibulela kuthi, kunye nawe, abafazi, abakhutheleyo kunye nemigudu, sikulungele ubusuku bothando! Ewe, kungekubo ubusuku, kodwa, kothi, kwithuba elide, kude kube yinto "ebaluleke kakhulu" ilungu losapho likubiza ngokukhala okukhulu ebusuku!
5 Isizathu. Esinye isizathu sokunqongophala kwesondo kukuba ubukho bomyeni ngexesha lokubeletha. Ubundlobongela emva kokwesaba komntu kubangela ingozi kwaye kumenze abe netyala phambi komntwana. Kule meko, thabatha indima echaphazelekayo kwisini kunye nawe phantsi kolawulo lwakho. Bonisa umthandayo ukuba akufanele uloyike, ukuba usengumfazi ofanayo ongeyifunayo ngaphantsi kombhede kunokuba ngaphambili.
6 Isizathu. Akukho mzekelo kufuneka sihlehlisele ngomso, njengoko besithi, yintoni enokudliwa namhlanje! Ngoko ke! Awukwazi ukuhlehlisa isondo ngo ... - "Ngomso ndiya kumnceda umyeni wam oyintanda!" Cha! Hayi! Kwaye kwakhona - Akukho !!! Isibini, njengoko bahlala ngaphandle kwesondo, ingozi yokuhlala ngaphandle kwayo! Umzimba womntu uyinto enjalo, inyanyekayo kwaye inzima! Le "siqhamo" ngokukhawuleza ivumelanisa nayo yonke into kwaye iyalisebenzisa. "Akukho ngesondo? Ulungile kwaye ulungile! »Nantsi ukungaphumeleli kwe-hormone kunye ... izifo, izifo, izifo azikude! Kwaye kufuneka u-oh, unamandla kangakanani kwaye unamandla, ukuze unike amandla akho onke amandla akho kunye nombane wakho. Kwaye umyeni wakho unokuhlakulela, okubizwa ngokuba ngu "Widow's Syndrome" ngenxa yokuzilahla ixesha elide, okwenza impilo yakhe ingabi nombala ongaphantsi.
Kwaye ekubeni saqala ukuthetha ngempilo.
Iimpawu zengqondo yombuzo - kutheni indoda ingayifuni isondo emva kokubeleka?
Inkathazo efunyenwe ngumfazi emva kokubeletha eyenziwa ngokwemvelo ayinakuba isizathu sokugqibela kule meko. Ukusondeza kwakho kumyeni wakho, kwaye yena kuwe, kuyona mnandi ngakumbi ukuba uchithe ixesha kwi-intimate atmosphere. Kodwa iisifuba zakho kwindawo enokuthabatha inokuthi ingabi namandla kwaye i-elastic njengoko ngaphambili. Kukho ukuqeqeshwa okuninzi ngokomzimba (umzekelo, ukusetyenziswa kweKegel - ukutyunjwa kwangaphandle kwezihlunu ze-anus kunye nesisini) kunye neentlobo zokuhlambalaza ukubuyela kubuhle besifazana kunye nokuthakazelisa kwiindawo ezithile zezilwanyana zasekuqaleni kunye nemeko, njengamaxesha okubeleka.
Ukuba imiphumo yokuzalwa kwengane yakho ibaluleke ngakumbi kwaye kwisibhedlele sokubeletha asizange ilungele ngokufanelekileyo abasebenzi bezonyango, kunokwenzeka ukuba ufake isicelo sokulungiswa okongezelelweyo kwezilwanyana zesini kwi-ward yokubeleka okanye kwelinye iklinikhi yezokwelapha ozikhethile.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni, bathandekayo, musa ukuphelelwa lithemba! Thatha inkunzi yenkomo ngeempondo kunye nasendlini esivuthayo! Kwaye iyeza, i-psychology kunye ne-cosmetology kwinqanaba le-21 liya kusinceda! Inhlanhla kunye nempilo enhle kuyo yonke intsapho yakho eqinile!