Kutheni ndiphupha ukuba ngumndwendwe kumtshato womnye umntu?
Ukuba uphupha iphupha apho ungomnye wabathathi-nxaxheba kwimitshato yomtshato, ngoko uyavuya - abaninzi abaguquli beliphupha bathetha oku njengophawu oluhle kakhulu. Kukho impumelelo kwi-career okanye ishishini, ubudlelwane kwintsapho buya kuphucula kakhulu, abantu abajikelezileyo baya kuhlonela uluvo lwakho nezenzo. Ukuba kule holide phakathi kweendwendwe zentlonelo uphawu lokuba omnye umntu osondeleyo ufuna uncedo, kodwa banentloni ukukubuza malunga nalo.
Ukuba ephupheni emtshatweni wesiqingatha sakho sesibini kuthetha ukuba kungekudala uza kufuneka ube nomona omkhulu okanye ube lixhoba lokhohliswa ngumntu. Ukubona ukubamba komlingane wakho kunye nomnye umntu uthembisa ukungquzulana okukhulu, iingxabano kwimicimbi yasekhaya.
Ukubona umtshato wesinye sezihlobo eziseduze kuthi lo mntu uza kukuzisa iindaba ezivuyayo. Ezinye iincwadi zephupha zithembisa umphuphi intetho ngentliziyo ngentliziyo.
Yenza umdlalo kwaye uhambe ngomtshato womnye, uphupha ukutolika, njengokuhamba ngokukhawuleza kworhwebo okanye uhambo oluxhumene nokwenza inzuzo. Ukuthi inambuzane emsitho womtshato ithetha ukuba ebomini bobomi uya kuba ngumnini wezinto ezifunwa ixesha elide.
Fumana isimemo okanye iindaba malunga nomtshato womnye umntu, uphupha iincwadi zijonga uphawu lotshintsho olungcono. Emva kwephupha elinjalo, unokufumana umsebenzi ohlawula ngakumbi okanye ukwazi umntu oza kudlala indima ebalulekileyo ebomini bakho.
Ukuba uphupha umtshato womnye kwaye umntu osandul 'ukutshata akafuni kukukhathalela ebomini bokwenene, ngoko kuya kuba kuhle ukuba lo mntu uvakalelwa iimvakalelo ezifudumele kuwe. Emva kwelo phupha, zama ukuqala incoko nomntu. Kunokwenzeka ukuba uya kuvuma ukuvuma okanye, ubuncinane, ufumane iimpawu zenceba.
Yintoni umkhwenkwe womtshato ophupha ngawo?
Ukuphupha imoto ehlotshiswe ngemitshato yomtshato kuthetha ukuba awukhathazeki ngokukodwa ngesiganeko. Zonke iingxaki zakho kunye nokwesaba akuyi kufumana indawo ebomini bokwenene, ngoko unokuzinqabisa. Kwakhona, eli phupha lithembisa iphupha iindaba ezimnandi malunga nomsebenzi okanye intsapho yakhe. Akunakunyuswa ukuhamba, iindaba malunga nokuqeshwa kweentsapho okanye ukuphakamisa umgangatho wemisebenzi. Ukuba uhleli kuloo moto ephupheni, ulinde impumelelo kwimigudu yakho. Yonke into ekhulelwe iya kuzaliseka kungekudala.
Nangona iphupha lomtshato womnye, kungekhona eyakhe - akusiyo isizathu sokuthukuthela, kuba ukuchazwa kweliphupha, ngokwalo, kuninzi ixesha elihle. Ngoko ke, qinisekisa ukuguqula ukuphucula!