Oogqirha babethusa!
Ndandidla ubomi obunzima kakhulu: Ndaqhubeka ndidlala kwimidlalo, ndazenza ngeefilimu kwaye, ngaphezu koko, kwaze kwafika iinyanga ezintlanu ngandwendwe nge "Ice Symphony" nguLilya Averbukh. Andiyi kuba mngcipheko kangako ukuba andingaqinisekanga yedwa lam iqabane uAlexey Tikhonov. Ngasekupheleni kweengqungquthela zeqhwa, xa sasixhasa, ndacela uLesha ukuba andithabathe esifubeni, kungekhona ngesisu. Kodwa nangona kunjalo, ndivakalelwa kukuba uDaniel wangaphakathi "wayefihla" (okanye "ukuguqa"). Kwaye ndashiya uhambo. Ekupheleni kwenyanga yesihlanu ndazinikela ekuboniswaneni kwabasetyhini. Xa befumanisa ukuba andinakufika kwangaphambili, njengoko ndathatha inxaxheba kwinqwelo yeqhwa, wonke umntu wamothuka!
Ndacinga ukuba ndiza kugqoka i-wig
Andizange ndibe nesidingo sokulungiselela ukubeleka ngaluphi na uhlobo lwento eqinisiweyo. Andiyiphuzi, andiyiyi, ndiyidla ukutya kwemifuno iminyaka emininzi. Into kuphela endiyenzayo yayithatha amavithamini kubasetyhini abakhulelweyo ukusuka ekuqaleni ukuya kwiinyanga ezidlulileyo. Kwaye kunjalo. Emva koko ndandimangaliswa: "Wow, ndivele ndigqoke kakhulu, kodwa ndineenwele ezintle! Kukhulu kakhulu - ndiyondla umntwana kwinyanga ngoku, kwaye ndinenwele ezintle. Kwaye ngoku ndiye ndondla iinyanga ezimbini, kwaye iinwele zam zibhetele kwaye zibhetele! ". Kodwa ngexa elithile, kwaye iivithamini zazingasindiswa - iinwele zavela! Ndidibanisa phambi kwesibuko, ndijonga phantsi - iigobolke zonke kwizinwele zam. Kwakubuhlungu! Ndazikhuthaza: "Ewe, akuyibi, ngoku i-shishini eliphuhlisiwe leenwele ezenzekelayo, unxibe i-wigs!". Emva koko inkqubo yokuvuselela yaqala. Kwaye ngexesha eligqibeleleyo lokuncelisa, ndaqaphela ukuba i-buldness ayingasongeli - umzimba uphephe.
Ubuhlungu buyimfuneko. Idibanisa nonina kumntwana.
E-Siberia, izihlobo zam zihlala-mntakwethu, udadewethu ... mna nomyeni wam sacinga saza sazala apho. Ngokuphathelele ukuzalwa ngokwawo, kwakubuhlungu kakhulu! Kodwa ngamabomu ndathatha le nyathelo kwaye ndenqaba ukunqanda i-anesthetize. Ngamanye amaxesha kwakubonakala, yonke into, akunakwenzeka! Kodwa ndathi: "Yeka, madam! Kuba abantu abaninzi bezalelwe, kangangokuba uthetha, mhlawumbi. " Kwaye akukho zikhetho! Ndandiziva ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ukubonakala komntwana kubangela ukukhanya kwihlabathi. Kwaye umbulelo kuye phakathi komama nomntwana kukho uxhulumano oluqinileyo lwengqondo. Indodana yam yayingenandaba nam ebomini bam bonke. Kwaye ngoku ndiya kwenza konke okusemandleni am, ukuze kungabikho nantlungu eyenzekayo kuye, kuba wandithande kakhulu! Nayi impendulo kwindlela u-Anna Bolshova akhulisa ngayo unyana wakhe.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhetha ugqirha
Ukugqithisa ngokukhuselekileyo ukuzalwa kwendalo, ndandincedwa ngugqirha oyingqayizivele. Andiyi kufihla, ndibe nemeko enzima, kwaye yonke into inokuphela kunye necesarean section. Kodwa wayithatha uxanduva malunga nokuba kukho impazamo, ukuba ndizalelwe kuphela. Ndiza kuwela kwezinye izandla, akukho mntu wayengazi, kwaye akazange ndiphulaphule. Ekugqibeleni, ndazala ngokukhuselekileyo!
Ndiyachasene neentsana zomntwana
Singomnye walabo bazali abangamkeli i-crib baby. Kuyinto engaqhelekanga kum, xa umntwana esuswa ekuzalweni ngokwahlukileyo, kwaye nakwisithuba esilandelayo nomnyango ongenasiphelo. Ukuba ngaba ndingazange ndiphazamise. Unokuphazamisa njani? UDaniel uhlala elala nathi. Ngelo xesha, ndandilungele ukulala ebusuku, ngenxa yokuba ndabona indlela umntakwabo uDavid, oneminyaka engama-9 ubudala ubudala, elala ngokuphumla ebusaneni. Kodwa xa unyana wam wazalelwa, kwabonakala ngathi wayehlala elele. Emva koko waqala ukukhula, kwaye thina kunye naye ulungele ukulala "ngokuthe ngqo": waya kwindlu yangasese, wadla waza walala kwakhona. Ngezihlandlo ezisibhozo zokuqala ngobusuku, zibe zintandathu, zibe zine. Hamba usondele malunga neshumi ekuseni. Ngoko kwakwanele ukulala ngokwaneleyo. Ngoku vuka kanye okanye kabini ngobusuku. Ewe, uyavuka ngaphambili, ezintandathu-sixhenxe ekuseni. Yaye ngokukhawuleza iyasebenza kakhulu - apha awukwazi ukulala!
Ngunyana, umama unguMama, noTata nguTata!
Ubaba wethu kwiinyanga zokuqala zobomi bomntwana uye wafunda yonke into ngaphandle kokutya, ekubeni ndiyanyamezela. Kodwa ndazama ukuyikhuphela kakhulu, kuba yayisebenza, kwaye yayifuna ukulala ngokwaneleyo. Nangona kunjalo, kufika ixesha lokuba ndihambe ngotyelelo. Emva koko ubaba wayenomthwalo wokuziphendulela. Ngexesha lokuqala ndabashiya ndedwa. Kwakwethusa! Umyeni wam kamva wamkela ngokumangalisa ukuba ukunyamekela umntwana kwakungelula. Ngunyana wakho, utata-konke oko! Umama unyanzelekile, kwaye ubawo nguTata! Kwaye nomntu onokuthenjwa ngokupheleleyo!
Ngoko ke, asinayo ingxaki xa umama eya kumdlalo, kwaye umntwana uqala ukukhala ngamaqhinga: "Mama, musa ukuhamba!". UDaniel uhlala kunye noyise egazini aze athi kum: "Bye bye!". Uyavuya ukuhlala nomyeni wakhe, kuba ulungile naye. Kanye njenga-nanny, ngendlela.
Into ephambili - kunye nomntwana ukufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo
Xa mna nomyeni wam saqonda ukuba umongikazi "akade kude" kwaye kwakungekho ndlela enokuyenza, kwakudingeka sithathe, ngokukhawuleza saqonda ukuba kuthiwa yintlekele! Andizange ndiyazi indlela yokuthembela kwindoda yam ngaphandle. Ndiyakhumbula ndibiza uAnuta, umfazi wam, waza wamangaliswa: "Anya, wamthemba njani uDavide?". Ngoko mna nomyeni wam sasinzima kakhulu kule nto de nto yonke into yodwa isisombululo esinomdla. Asikaqalanga ukukhangela ngokuphangaleleyo kwintsapho, njengomnye wethu owaziwayo, owangena kwintsapho, wawa phantsi koqhekeko. Umntwana wakhe wayemdala, kwaye ngelo xesha wayengazi ukuba wenzeni. Emva kokuba esityelele, incoko yavela ukuba sasidinga intsana. Kwaye sonke saqonda ukuba lo ngumntu onokuthenjwa ngumntwana. Bazinikela ukuzama, wavuma. Ngoku siyambulela uThixo ngaye! Unembopheleleko, unomdla omhle, ulungelelanise ngokukhawuleza, ukusabela ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, kunoma yimuphi umbandela onzima, thina emacaleni omabini sinomnqweno wokufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo, kwaye singabambisani nokusabalalisa ngendlela eyahlukileyo.
Ndicula ingumfana encinane kwifowuni
Ngexesha lokutyelela, sithetha naye kwi-Skype nakwifowuni. Ndiya kucula iingoma, ndicinga imifanekiso, ndiyathetha iindaba zamagama. UDaniel ubhekise ngokukhawuleza ukuba ndingabikho, kwaye mna ndiyakhumbula! Ngamanye amaxesha ndihamba emotweni, ndimise kwizibane zendlela kwaye ndiqale ukumbamba ifowuni yam kunye nesithombe sakhe. Ngaba unokucinga ukuba abanye abaqhubi bacinga ntoni ngam?
Hayi ubisi, kodwa ukhilimu!
Ngokuqinisekileyo, shenyuza kuphela ekunyamekeleni umntwana - kwakuyinto enqwenelekayo. Kodwa ngelinye ilanga ekukhandeni ukuba abe naye kwakufuneka alahle. Ngenxa yomntwana! Siphila kwizinto eziphathekayo kunye nemithetho yayo. Umsebenzi uzisa imali, kwaye ikuvumela ukuba uyigcine, uqeqeshe, uyijikeleze ngobuhle. Ngoko ke, ukuba umsebenzi womama awukho ngeendleko zemvumba, ngoko umphumo wayo ulungile kuphela. Ngexa ndandincelisa, uDanja wayekunye nakwiimidlalo. Babenomhlengikazi balindile egumbini lokugqoka, besidla, ukuba befuna, ndilula lula kwinqanaba, kwaye lahleka ngokulala.
Oogxa nabo, bejonge i-buddhuza yam, bahleka bathi: "Awunalo ubisi, kodwa ukhilimu!" Ngobisi lwebele, unyana wam wakhula ngokukhawuleza kangangokuba kwiinyanga ezintandathu wayesele ebonakala njengomntwana oneminyaka elilodwa. Ngoko ke, kwiinyanga ezisibhozo neyesigqibo kwagqitywa ekubeni uyithumele kumandla okuzimela. Kwakukho umbuzo wokuzinza ebomini bakhe. Emva kwakho konke, ukuba inkunzi enjalo kunzima ukutshintshwa kwimeko yonke kwaye ifike kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo ngexesha lokuwela. Ngoko ngoku unyana unendlela yokuphila ehleliweyo, ulawulo oluqhelekileyo lwabantwana.
Kwaye kwacwangciswa ukuba ndiza kuphuhlisa umntwana ukusuka kwiintsuku zokuqala.
Ndiyathanda konke oku, ngokuba ndibona umphumo omangalisayo. Ndandilungiselele zonke iintlobo zeengoma ezahlukileyo, izandi zokunyumba, ukuzisebenzisa ngeminwe, ukuva, ukuqwalasela, ukuhlawula zonke iintlobo. Kodwa ke ndiya kuqala, njengoko elele. Ngoko uphazamise! Ndathuthuzelwa - yonke into ihamba phambili! Ngokuqinisekileyo unyana waqala ukuhlala ephapheme, sinawo wonke umsebenzi. Wakhawuleza wasabela kwizandi, imibala, egxile kwizinto ezithile. Kwakhona, ukusuka kwinyanga ukuya kwinyanga, umyalelo wokubhukuda i-breastfish wasivakashela, kwaye uDanya wayiguqa kwindawo yokuhlambela ngokubhekiselele kuyo yonke imithetho. Kwaye emva kweenyanga ezine saqala ukumqhubela emgodini, apho unyana wayesele efunde ukuhamba.
Ngoku uneminyaka ubudala, kwaye sele ndicinga nge sikolo.
Sine thamsanqa. Konke kuthiwa ootitshala ekuphuhlisweni kwonyana. Udadewethu umculi, umculi wobawo, umthikazi wam owaziyo uyazi kakuhle isiTshayina ... kwaye akunjalo! Kwakuhlekisa xa uDanya epapasha ukukhala kwakhe kuqala ebomini bakhe, ngoko konke kwangoko wathi: "Ndiyabona! Ilizwi liseMama! ".
Yaye phi na ingxaki? Akukho buhlungu!
Abantwana abayinto engabonakaliyo kuba "bayingozi" - abazi ukuba bayakwenza njani! Kodwa ngenxa yokuba bacaphukile. Ngoku uDaniel uneminyaka enjalo xa efuna ukufezekisa yonke into kanye. Kwaye ukuba ngamanye amaxesha into ethile ayisebenzi kuye, ngoko ke akanakunqwenelekayo, okanye kunoko, uphazamisekile. Unentlungu. Kwaye umsebenzi wam ukuchaza ukuba ngokwenene akukho ntlungu. Ngandlela-thile badlala nomngcingo womculo, oqala ukuvakala, ukuba uyayifaka kumavili kunye nokuhamba. Indodana yakhe ayikwazanga ukwenza. Yikho konke! Injini iyahamba, uDaniel uyakhala. Ndacacisa ngokuphindwe kabini indlela yokubeka indawo yokuhlala ukuba "ingoma". Kwaye wayethi: "Hayi, yintoni ingxaki, sibuhlungu, makhe sibone, ngaba kukho intlungu apha?" Simele senze oku kwaye, awukwazi ukukwenza, ungakhathazeki, uzame kwakhona, ndiya kukunceda ... Kodwa phi intlungu? Akukho buhlungu! ". Sidibanisa, kwaye uhambo luhamba, luqhayisa kwaye ludlala ngomsindo. Naliphi na "i-whims" yabantwana kufuneka idibaniswe kwaye ichazwe.
Uvuyo lokubona amanyathelo okuqala okuzimela
Umnqweno wokuhamba kunye nosana usuvele udala. Ukufikelela kwiinyanga ezimbini kwakuyi-reflex. Emva koko, xa sasixhasa phantsi kweempembelo zakhe, wayehlala ecula emilenzeni yakhe: phezulu-phezulu. Kwaye kwaqala nokuba ngumngceli. Waba yintonga. Uyamxhasa, kwaye imilenze-ukuxuma-ukuxuma-ukuxhuma imilenze. Yaye le nqwenela ukuma ezinyaweni yayihlala ikhona. Ngoko, sasiyothusa gqitha xa i-neurologist kwi-examination elicwangcisiweyo yathi unyana wethu uya kuhamba ngokukhawuleza - ngonyaka kunye neenyanga ezimbini. Enyanisweni, wahlola emva kwenyanga eneminyaka eyi-10 uDanya wayifumana kwaye wayenamandla kakhulu. Mhlawumbi yeso sizathu senza i zigqibo. Sasincinci, kuba sibona umnqweno womntwana ukuqala ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa abazange bathukuthele: xa badibana, baya kuhamba. Kwaye kwenzeka loo mcimbi xa uDaniel eneenyanga. Ndandilungiselela ukuhamba, kwaye ngaphambi koko wandinika amanyathelo amathandathu okuzimela. Ngaphambi koko, unyana wazama ukuhamba, ebambelele eludongeni kunye nento yonke eyafumaneka. Emva koko wahamba ngokwakhe, engenazo inkxaso, ebonisa ukuqaphela okukhulu. Isinyathelo - yeka-thola ibhalansi, isinyathelo-yeka-thola ibhalansi. Kwaye ngokuphindwe kathathu! Emva koko ndiyaphonsa esile! Ndade ndilingwa ukuba ndibize i-neurologist kwaye ndithi: "Uyazi, kodwa inkwenkwana yethu sele ihambe!". Ngoku uDanya akahambanga, ugijima. Kwaye kusihlwa sijikeleza indlu ukuze ubaba wethu abize itshisa phambi kokuba ulale. Njenge-moya, ngaphambi kokuhamba, ukucima ukujikeleza kwinqanaba le-moya kunye nokutshisa amafutha.
Umshini wokuhlamba unobunzima kakhulu.
Unyana uthanda ukudlala ngeebhola: ukuphosa, ukubamba, ukugijima emva kwazo. Zinezinto ezininzi, kunye nemilo eyahlukeneyo, imibala kunye nemifanekiso. Ndiyathanda kakhulu ukuzama, iibhola eziphosa kumashini okuhlamba. Ngoko ke, ngaphambi kokuba siqale, sihlola ukuqinisekisa ukuba kukho nayiphi na imidlalo yeDanechkin kuyo. Uthandayo, uzwakala, ukhawuleza, umatshini oqhawulayo. Uvuyo olukhethekileyo kuye ukuphonsa umshini wokuchwetheza kwindawo yokuhlamba ngamanzi. Njengomthetho, abaphili emva koko, kodwa ummangaliso omnye wokuvelisa waseTshayina wandibetha. Ngesinye sezantsi, umatshini waqhubeka ehlwayayo nge-expanses yokuhlambela, kwaye isandi sawo kuphela saba ngaphantsi kwamanzi. Xa ndayikhupha, waqhubeka ehamba kwaye ehlabelela. Ndothuka! Kodwa ininzi yazo yonke into endiyithandayo yinto enomdla wam umntwana, uyaphalaza, aze abuyisele zonke iintlobo zezinto ezincinci kwiibhotho ezahlukeneyo. Xa lo mkhwa wokumtyelela, ndinelungelo lokukholisa uDanya ukuba afake iinkcukacha ezidibeneyo kwipokethi. Into ephambili kukuba ubambe umzuzu!
Kukho izinto zezingane apho abazali ababulela kubaqambi babo.
Sawuthanda ummangaliso wesifo sokunyakaza. Indodana yethu kuyo isele ikhule. Kodwa ekubeni elala ekulungeleyo, ngokokuba ubuthongo bemini, xa ufuna ukulala ngokukhawuleza, siyaqhubeka silala kulo. Xa imilenze yakhe yaqala ukuphumla eludongeni, sawugubungela, kwaye ngoku baxhomeke. Umbono uyamangalisa, kodwa ngaphandle kwendawo yokulala nayiphi na indlela! Kodwa i-kangaroo yesibhakabhaka ayimkelekanga kuthi. Kubonakala kum, ehleli kuyo, umntwana uthatha indawo engeyonto engafanelekanga, engalunganga emgodini.
Kwimi, unyana uyisimfano esinceda ukuhlala ngendlela.
Ndenenhlanhla nje. Ukukhulelwa ndazuza iikhilogram ezininzi njengoko ndandifuna. Kwaye ngexesha lokubeleka ndilahlekelwe ngaphezu kwam. Emva koko ndabiza kwakhona ngexesha lokutya.
Kodwa ekuqwalaseleni ukuba unyana wenyuka ngokukhawuleza waza waba nesisindo kakuhle, waba yinto endiyifumanayo eyamnceda ukuba ahlale ebomini. Ekuqaleni kwakufuneka igugile, iphakamiswe phezulu, ibonise yonke into ayibonisa ngayo ukwazi. Emva koko waqalisa ukuhamba, kwaye ndazama ukuqhubeka naye. Xa ndayeka ukutya, ndandisoyika ukuba apha uza kundibetha.
Kodwa kwenzeka ukuba ndikwazi ukunciphisa umzimba. Andinaso ixesha, kwaye ndifuna ukuya kwimpilo kunye neentloni zobuhle. Ndiphinde ndithathe inxaxheba kwi-show "Ice Age". Kulo nyaka, bonke abaphumeleleyo beeprojekthi ezidlulileyo bahlanganisiwe apha. Ngoko kum, ukufaneleka kuya kuba kwiqhwa. Kwaye ndizama ukuchitha ixesha lam elikhululekile kunye nosapho lwam.
Ndivakalelwa ngengozi malunga nosana kunye neeseli zesisindo
Yonke inkcazelo malunga nabantwana ngoku iyabonwa ngokuqinileyo. Xa ndiva ukuba kwindawo ethile umntwana ehlupheka, yonke into ijika. Ukusuka kwindlela yokuba ndingenalo ithuba lokubandezeleka kwabantwana, ndinomthwalo omkhulu kumntwana wam. Kwaye ndizama ukumenza abe nolonwabo njengoko kunokwenzeka. Ndibeka i-skin kunye neeseli zamagulane ukuba ndizive iingozi kunye neengxaki ezisongelayo. Into eguqukile kwi-psychophysics kunye nokubhekiselele kubomi. Oku kuboniswa kwiindima zam. Kwimidlalo yokuqala, emva komyalelo owamdlalayo ("Iimidlalo Zasebukhosini"), ibali lika-Anna Boleyn, owazala umntwana evela kuKumkani uHenry VIII, kunye nayo yonke into enxulumene nayo, yayandizwakala ngokungalindelekanga, ngendlela entsha. Ndabona nezinye iimvakalelo, kuba ndandisazi ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuba ngumama kwaye uxanduva lomntwana.