Ukuzonwabisa okungaqhelekanga kwamantombazana

Ngaba ufuna ukuphumla emsebenzini oqhelekileyo okanye ukwandisa ingeniso yakho? Isisombululo "sesibini kwinye" sifumana umdlalo!
Ingcamango yokuphumla kokulala kwibhede phambi kweTV izisa ukukholisa? Ixesha lokuba ube nethuba lokuzonwabisa. Ukutshintsha kwiinkxalabo zemihla ngemihla kwimisebenzi enomdla akusiyo nje into enomdla, kodwa iyanceda.
I-vein yobumba
Iingcali zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba ukhetho oluhle luyinto yokuzilibazisa engenanto enxulumene nomsebenzi. Inyaniso kukuba, ukulungiswa komnye "umtsalane", ubuchopho busebenzisa loo mathuba awazange afakwe ngaphambili.
Isiphumo esona sisisigxina siya kuziswa kuwe ngokutshintshwa komzimba ukuya kwisigqibo somsebenzi (kunye nenye indlela). Awuyi kuphumla emsebenzini, kodwa ke uya kuwathatha ngokuvuselela amandla kunye neengcamango ezintsha.
Ukuzilibazisa kuza kunceda ukuphuhlisa ukucinga, intuition, ukufunda ukufumana iindlela zokuqala zokusombulula iingxaki ezininzi zobomi.
Iziphumo ezilungileyo zinika ukhetho lwezinto zokuzilibazisa ngomgaqo: "Yintoni ekhoyo kumntu wam?" Ukuba unganasiphelo, unganakukwazi ukuwugqiba ishishini ekupheleni, usebenze ngokubamba okanye ukujikibala-oko kufuna umonde. Ngaba awukwazi ukuphuma endlwini? Ungene kwiqela lezokhenketho, uthathe imifanekiso, ngebhayisikili. Ngoko ukuzilibazisa kuhlawulela ubuthathaka bendalo bakho.
Ngaba ukuzithemba kwakho kuhamba ngexesha elibi? Ikopi entsha ekuqokeleleni, irekhodi lomntu lihle kakhulu kwisiganeko sokuziqhayisa ngokwakho, ukuzithemba ngakumbi kwizakhono zakho.
Ngaba unamahloni kwaye unamahloni? Ukuzilibazisa kuya kunceda ekuncediseni ukuthetha nabanye kunye nokwandisa isangqa sazana. Ukuthetha ngokunyanisekileyo ngoshishino oluthandayo kwaye uxelele iinkcukacha zobuncwane kwi-interlocutors yakho, uzakukhangela umdla. Imiboniso yokutyelela kunye namaziko athile, uza kufumana abahlobo kwiminqweno, kwaye, mhlawumbi, iqabane lomntu.

Ubuso obutsha
Ukuba sele ufumene umsebenzi ngokuthanda kwakho, cinga, mhlawumbi uya kuba ngumthombo wenkxaso engaphezulu okanye nokuba ngumsebenzi oyintloko? Ukhumbule ukuba isimo sengqondo esinomdla ngokubhekiselele kwizinto zokuzilibazisa kunokutshintsha xa kuphenduka umsebenzi wemihla ngemihla. Ngaba ulungele le nto?
Ngendlela, ukuba umdlalo uya kuba nenzuzo, izalamane aziyi kuthathwa njengento yokuchitha ixesha kunye nomzamo.
Ukuba abaqhelana nabo bayabubula baze baphumele emibonweni yeempahla okanye iimpahla ezenziwe nguwe, oku akuthethi ukuba baya kukunceda ukuba ube nobutyebi. Qinisekisa ukuba iimveliso ziya kuba nemfuno: hamba ukuyothenga, uthetha nabaqeqeshi. Ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimiboniso kunye nokuthengisa. Musa ukukhawuleza ukushiya umsebenzi wakho wangoku. Ukuze wenze umdlalo owona msebenzi uphambili, ufuna amava, ngakumbi ukuba ngumbuzo wobugcisa bodwa.

Into ebalulekileyo!
Zama ukutsala umyeni okanye umntwana kwinto yokuzonwabisa - isizathu esifanayo siya kuqinisa ubuhlobo bakho. Ukususela kwangoku, awuyi kuba neengxaki ngezipho - unokuzenza ngokwakho (bhala umfanekiso wesantya, gula i-blouse).
Khangela umdlalo wakho wokuqalisa. Le nkcukacha iya kuxelela umqeshi ukuba unamandla kwaye unombono obanzi.

Musa ukudlala ngothando!
Ukuba unomdla onomdla kwaye unqwenela ukugqithisa, khumbula: i-hobby akufanele ibangele ukuxabana nokungaqondani kwintsapho. Ukuhlala ebusuku kwikhompyutheni okanye ukuchitha imali yokugqibela kwi-diving equipment, unokulimaza ubomi bakho. Yenza oko ukuze abathandekayo bakho bazive bengenakukukhathalela kunye nokunyamekela.
Iingcali zenzululwazi ziye zafumanisa ukuba iiklasi zentombikazi ngokukhethekileyo - ukuthunga, ukubopha kunye neminye imisebenzi ye-needles-inefuthe elihle kwimpilo nakwimpilo.
Ziyayimisa intlawulo yenhliziyo kunye noxinzelelo lwegazi, kwaye iphinde iyanciphise ukuvakalelwa. Abantu abanentshiseko, abaqulunqo, abanamathuba amaninzi okufumana izifo ezingapheliyo-umphefumlo uphulukisa umzimba.