Kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba uceba njani ukubhiyozela kwangaphambili kwaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba ulindelwe kangakanani na, ngokuqinisekileyo yonke into ayinakuba yindlela oyenayo kuyo. Ukuze uqwalasele ngokupheleleyo iingxaki zonke, uhambelane nemithetho ethile, kwaye intlokoma yokuqala yokuqala yakho iya kudlula ngokulula kwaye ikhululeke!
1. Naphezu kokunqoba, musa ukuphula umxholo wesiqhelo somntwana wakho. Ngaphandle koko, uya kuqala ukuba angenangqondo, kwaye ngaloo ndlela aphange iholide kungekuphela kwakhe kuphela kodwa nakwabantu abadala.
2. Musa ukubiza lonke iqela leendwendwe! Ubuninzi bentwana yabantwana bodwa kunokusongela.
3. Khetha umculo ngomhla wokuzalwa komntwana wakho, kungekhona ngokwakho kunye no-grand-grand-grandfather's taste, kodwa ekuthandweni komntwana wakho, kuba ngokuqinisekileyo uye wavelisa izilwanyana zakhe ngonyaka. Ngenxa yoko, uya kuvuya ukuba yonke imini uya kuphulaphula kuphela into ayithandayo.
4. Ingubo yomntu wokuzalwa, ngokuqinisekileyo, kufuneka ibe yinto enhle, kodwa ungayithandi. Ukuba unyaka oneminyaka elilodwa ubudala, kufuneka ube ngowokuzikhethela.
5. Ngomhla, ventilate igumbi apho ukubhiyozelwa kuya kubanjwa rhoqo ngangokunokwenzeka. Oku kuyimfuneko ukwenzela ukuba xa ukubhiyozelwa kuqala, akufuneki kubekho umoya ofile, njengoko emva kokusebenza nokuxhuma, umoya otsha uya kufunwa.
6. Ngamanye amaxesha, hamba nomntwana kwelinye igumbi, ukwenzela ukuba umntwana ahlale encinci ekunakekeleni okongeziweyo kumntu wakhe. Dlala kwimidlalo ekhulileyo, cinga ngezipho.
7. Kucetyiswa ukuba ulungiselele iphupha lomntu womntu wokuzalwa. Ukwenza oku, unokukhetha umvolontiya kwaye umvumele ahambe kunye nomntanakho kwisitrato - kuyaziwa ukuba abantwana balele bengaphandle.
8. Ngaphambi kwexesha, zama ukujonga kwangaphambili oko unokufuna ngexesha lokubhiyozela. Ngaphandle koko, kuya kufuneka uphumelele emva nangaphandle ngenxa yokucoca. inkwenkwe iya kungcola nantoni na, ke enye into, kwaye uya kuziva utyhefile kangangokuthi awuyi kufuna ukuzalwa ngalunye suku!
Yimangalisa kuwe iholide ngaphandle kwemiphumo engathandekiyo yonke into efanayo! Vumela ukuzalwa kokuqala komntwana kukhunjulwe ngobomi, njengenye yeentsuku ezintle kunye novuyo ebomini bakho!
Ksenia Ivanova , ngakumbi kwisiza