Kwiminyaka emininzi edlulileyo, abafazi abaneengqondo eziphuhlisiwe babefanele bafe emxholweni, kuba abameli becawa kwaye bengaboni nje kuphela, babekholelwa ngokunyanisekileyo ukuba babengabathakathi ababenxulumene nomtyholi ngokwakhe. Namhlanje, nangona kunjalo, ukubonakaliswa kwendoda yanamhlanje ngezinye izidalwa zehlabathi, ukudibanisa kwabo kunye nokukwazi kwabo ukuqonda into enjalo okanye loo meko, abaxhumene nabo kunye nabasetyhini abanentlangano yokomoya abangenako ukwesaba ubomi bokuzihlaziya.
Kodwa ukuba intuition idlala indima ebalulekileyo ebomini bethu, inceda ukuphepha iimeko ezibuhlungu, ingenzi iimpazamo ezibulalayo, ngaba sinokuphuhlisa ngakumbi lo mqondo wesithandathu?
Okokuqala, makhe sizame ukuqonda ukuba yintoni intuition, ngubani onikwe yona kunye nendlela engasetyenziswa ngayo kakuhle. Ngoko, ngokusondeleyo kunokwenzeka kwisisombululo, kwakukho izazi zefilosofi ezinjengo-Emmanuel Kant, uSpinoza, uSocrates kunye nomlandeli kaFreud Jung. Inqobo ye "intuition" iguqulelwe ngokuthi "jonga".
Enyanisweni, umqondo wethu wesithandathu, kungakhathaliseki ukuba uphuculo olunjani, luhlobo lombono ongaphakathi, ulwalamano olusisiseko oluvumela ukuba sisombulule iingxaki ezinzima. Enyanisweni, ukuba umntu akanalo ulwazi oluthile malunga nesakhiwo sehlabathi, ngoko ke akanako ukukwazi ngokuchanekileyo iimpawu ezibonisa ukuba intuition inika. Kwaye njenge-kakisvestno, iziphakamiso zingabonakaliswa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo: abanye babona amaphupho angokwesiprofeto, amanye amanqanaba okuvakalelwa anokukwazi ukubonelela ngeemeko ezahlukeneyo, okwesithathu, ingqiqo ngokukhawuleza ihla.
Ngenxa yokuqhuba ubuninzi bezophando, izazinzulu ziye zafumana izigqibo zokuthi i-intuition iyaphuhliswa kakuhle phakathi kwabantu abaqulunqiweyo abadla ngokubanzi basebenzeleni ilungelo lobomi beengqondo. Kodwa ukuba awuziboni njengabantu bokudala, ngaba unokuhlakulela ngokuzimeleyo i-hemisphere, ngaloo ndlela ukwandisa umqondo wesithandathu? Kuyavela ukuba kunokwenzeka, kwaye ingqwalasela ephambili kufuneka ihlawulwe ekuqinisekiseni ukuba le nkqubo incedisa umsebenzi ohambelanayo wee-hemispheres zeengqondo.
Indlela yokuphuhlisa intuition?
Abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba ekuphuhliseni i-intuition, kubalulekile ukubandakanyeka kwizinto ezinzulu, ubanikeze phantse ixesha elilodwa losuku lwakho. Asinakuphikisa, kukho iifayile zefilosofi kwihlabathi elinikezela ngezenzo zokucamngca, ukuzaliseka ngokukhawuleza okukuvumela ukuba uzibuke kwaye uhlaziye intuition yakho. Kodwa kukho izinto ezilula, kodwa ezingekho ngaphantsi kokusebenza.
Eyona nto ilula kakhulu yilezo ezikuvumela ukuba usebenze nesandla ongekho ngaphantsi. Oko kukuthi, ukuba unesandla esifanelekileyo, kufuneka uhambise ezinye zezenzo ozijwayele ukwenza ngesandla sokunene, ngakwesobunxele. Ngoko, unako ukubamba isipuni ngakwesokunxele sakho, zama ukubhala ubuncinane imigca yesicatshulwa, oko kukuthi, kufuneka ufezekiswe ukuba umthwalo kwiindawo zombini ze-hemisphes yayifanayo.
Njengomsebenzi wokufunda, zama ukuthatha ipensela ezandleni zombini uze udwebe into ehambelana nesiqephu sephepha. Kungaba nantoni na: i-apula, ubuso bomntu, iflyflyfly. Gcina izandla zakho zihamba ngokuchanekileyo, kunye nomfanekiso osetyenziswe kwiphepha lilinganisane ngokunokwenzeka. Ngokwemvelo, ukuphumeza umphumo omuhle kwi-rasudutsya yokuqala kungekhona wonke umntu, kodwa izenzo ezinjalo ngaphandle koko ziya kunceda ukuphuhlisa i-intuition, iya kukufundisa ukuba ugxininise kwaye ukhuphe ukuhlaselwa kwe-migraine. Ngokukhawuleza xa uqala ukufumana imifanekiso ehloniphekileyo, isantya sentshukumo singanyuswa.
Enye enye inketho yindlela yokuqeqesha ngesandla. Okokuqala, zama ukuthatha iminwe emibili yesandla sasekhohlo emva kwendlebe ye mochkravoy, kunye neminwe emibili yelungelo-emva kwempumlo. Emva koko ukhulule iminwe yakho, gweba izandla uze uphendule ngokukhawuleza izandla. Yintoni, okokuqala akuzange isebenze? Kuyafaneleka, imizuzu emibini yoqeqesho kunye nezandla ziya kuhamba njengoko kuyimfuneko. Ngokukhawuleza xa unokwenza umsebenzi ngaphandle kweepazamo, khawuleza uhambe kwaye uqhubeke nomoya ofanayo.
Abasetyhini abaninzi kunye namanye amadoda ayaqonda ngokugqibeleleyo xa umdibaniselwano ethetha inyaniso. Kwaye oku kuqonda kuya kuthi kumgangatho onembile. Le ndlela isebenze njani kule meko? Yonke into yokuba ukuba, ukuthetha ubuxoki, umntu obonakalisa ubuso bakhe kunye nokuzibonakalisa kubonisa isimo esiyinyaniso sezinto - umzimba wakhe njengoko ubonakalisa imeko yangempela yezinto. Ukuba awuzange uyifunde inzululwazi enjenge-physiognomy, oku akuthethi ukuba awuyi kukwazi ukuqaphela amanga-uya kuziva ulumke kwaye uzakungaqiniseki kwisithethi.
Njengoko sele sele khankanywe ngasentla, ukuqaphela iimpawu ezibonwe ngathi kwizinga elimnandi kuncediswa ngolwazi. Ngexesha elifanayo, intuition isebenza njengoluhlobo lweengqiqo, ngaloo ndlela lihluke kwiinkqubo zokucinga, ezinokuhlala iiyure eziliqela, ngamanye amaxesha ngaphezulu. Kungenxa yesi sizathu sokuba abantu abangakholelwayo bakholelwa ekubeni kukho intuition, kwaye nangakumbi ngenxa yeenkcukacha zazo, umntu unokukwenza isigqibo esifanelekileyo.
Amadoda angakholelwa kwizilumkiso zabasetyhini bawo, kholelwa ukuba ukubonelela kwangaphambili kwimeko akuyona into engaphezulu kwayo. Okokuthi, ibhinqa ayiboni kwangaphambili imeko, kodwa imkhwaza, kwaye loo mntu uyakwazi ukulwa neengxaki.
Enyanisweni, sinokuzibona imeko echasene nayo: Umfazi okhuselekileyo ulindele ukuvela kwimeko enzima kwaye uxelele kumntu. Emva koko, emva kokumamela, uqonda oku njengenye into eyenziwa ngumfazi kwaye akamthobeli. Xa imeko iyenzeka ngokwenene, ummeli wesondo oqinileyo kufuneka alwe ngokungahambi kakubi, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha angenakulinganiswa, nemiphumo.
Iingcali zithetha ukuba ilizwi langaphakathi liqhelekileyo kuthi elowo kuthi, kodwa abanye bayaliphulaphula. Abanakuzithemba iimvakalelo zabo kunye neziganeko ezingaphambili.