Kubonakala kungeyinto enzima apha, intombazana ithabatha isongo emlenzeni wayo kwaye iya kufikelela ekufeni. Kodwa bambalwa abantu ngexesha elifanayo bayazi ukuba akusiyo yonke intombazana ifanelekile kulo mhlobiso. Ibhinqa elithile ludinga isongo esikhethekileyo.
Kwimibutho yabadala be-archaeologists babedla ngokufumana amabhonkco ezinyaweni zabo, kwaye babethandwa ngabasetyhini bexesha elidlulileyo. Olu phuhliso lungavunyelwa ngabafazi abasuka kuluntu oluphakamileyo. Kodwa le nketshane yayigqithiswe ngamantombazana ayenomsebenzi omdala-urhweba emzimbeni wabo. La mabhinqa agqoke isongo esikhwameni somlenze wesobunxele, kwaye abo bafazi bafuna ukudibana kunye nokubonisa inkululeko, bafake ikhenketho elihle kwiinyawo ezilungileyo.
Namhlanje, le mithetho ayihlonishwa kakhulu, kwaye bambalwa ababaziyo ngabo. Ukuba ngelo xesha intombazana ikhetha ukuthenga isongo emlenzeni wayo, iya kukwenza, kuba ikhonkco ayifumanekanga kuphela, kodwa inokugxininisa ubufazi kunye nomtsalane womnini walo mhlobiso.
EmaMpuma, amantombazana agqoke iintambo ezintanjeni zombini, kwaye ngaphandle kwesandi salezi ntambo zihamba kunye nokudansa kwesisu. Le nkcubeko yafika kuthi evela kumazwe aseMpuma, ukugqoka isongo esikhwameni, kwaye le ndlela ifana ngokukhawuleza kwihlabathi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, iibhonce zisebenza njengendlela yokucedisa nokuhlobisa umfanekiso. Ngexesha elithile elinenqabileyo, unamathele amancinci amancinci, ngamnye ngamnye unentsingiselo ekhethekileyo. Ngokomzekelo, banokufanisa iziganeko ezibalulekileyo ebomini, iimfuno ezizalisekileyo okanye ezinokufanisa ukuhamba.
Phakathi kwezinto zokugcoba kwazo zonke iingubo kunye neendwanguzo, ezinikelwa kwiimarike, nayiphi na intombazana inokufumana ukuhluka okulungileyo kuye. Isalathisi esincomekayo esinokubhinqa sinokuzihombisa ngokukodwa ikhonkco yezonxibelelwano ezincinci ezingagqitywa ngexilongo. Kuya kubheka isongo esihle, esenziwe ngeplastiki ehlukahlukeneyo. Ukuba le ntombazana inomlenze omkhulu kunye neenyawo, ezifana nomntu, ngoko ke unxibelelwano lwamaqhagamshelwano angaphakathi luya kufika kuye, luya kumisa umlenze wakhe luze lube nomusa.
Ukuba ubeka isongo kumlenze wakho, ungakulibali ukuba abanye abantu bayayazi imbali yalo mhlobiso. Gqoka isongo kwiqalo lakho lokunene kwaye ungakhohlwa ukuba isongo esikhwameni sithetha inkululeko kuye. Kodwa, kwaye ukuba unxiba ikhonkco njengesigqongo, akukho mntu uya kukunqabela ukuba uyigqoke.
Ngoku siyazi indlela ongakhetha ngayo isongo kwienyawo zakho, kuba ngamnye ngokwakhe udala imfashini, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni imbono yabanye abantu.