Isihloko esithakazelisayo kakhulu sophonografi: ezininzi iinkqubo kunye neengxaki ezahlukeneyo zikhona kule nqanaba. Kule nqaku siza kuqwalasela, ukujonga njani i-porn kwiqabane elichaphazelayo, ngaba kufanelekile ukuquka ividiyo ekhutshelweyo kwaye uyibuke kunye?
Nantsi enye yeengcamango: "Ndicinga ukuba ukubukela iifoto ezimbini ndawonye - kuhambe!" Kwaye ukukhawuleza kwamanzi acocekileyo, kuba "Kutheni abantu bahlala bexhatshazwa kangaka?
Ngoko-ke, masiqale nge "ngxubusho." Ndiya kucaphuna yonke i quote: "Kungathiwa yile ngongoma yombono. Kodwa mna mna ndifuna ukuba le ntloko ibe yintloko yam nentloko yam ngexesha lethu lesini! Ingaba kunika nayiphi na ingqondo yokuqhubela phambili kwezobudlelwane bezesondo kunye nokwazisa ngokwabo "ngaphandle kweengxaki" ?? Andiyonto, kodwa ukususela ekunganeliseki, kufuneka ndihambe ndawo! Kwaye ungambandakanyi endlwini kwaye ingakumbi umbhede! "
Apha ufanele wenze ukubhuka popovodu erotica, i-porno kunye neentlobo, ngoko kuthetha, "ikhaya" (elisebenza kuphela kwindawo yokudubula, umgangatho walo kunye nokubekwa, ewe, ewe, kunjalo) - akunjalo into efanayo. Nangona kunjalo, sithatha ukulingana nemigqaliselo yokukhwabanisa kunye noononophelo, kuba akukho mfahluko ocacileyo kwiinkcazo (ngakumbi xa ucinga ukuba i-pornography iyenzeka nokuba ilula kwaye inzima kwaye yintoni enye).
Kutheni ewe?
Okokuqala kwaye okuphambili, kufuneka kuthiwe ukuba iiporografi ayinayo impembelelo embi kubantu abaye bazibandakanya ngokuziphatha, bafikelele ekukhuleni komphakathi. Ngako oko, zonke iingeniso kunye neengxaki ziya kucinga kuphela ngalaluhlu lwabantu.
Ngoko, kubantu abanobudlelwane okanye ubuhlobo obude obakhokelela ekubambisaneni, imbono edibeneyo yezinto eziphathekayo zivelisa i-piquancy ekhethekileyo, itayiti ebudlelwaneni kunye nobomi bentlobano. Ukongezelela, iifilimu zoononografi zithatha utshintsho oluthile lomzimba kunye noluntu, phakathi kwabo:
- Ukupheliswa kweenkomfa zalabo abasenayo ngesizathu esithile, esibaluleke kakhulu ekunxibelelaneni kwexesha elide. Kuthiwani ngeenkcukacha zesondo kunye nokufunyanwa kwezinye izinto "ezitsha" ezikhethwa ngumlingane wakho?
- Iifilimu ze-Porn zixhobo zokwazisa ngesondo ngesibini, kuba isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kwimpahla yokufundisa yesixeko esinjalo sinokuphakamisa ubomi bobulili beqabane kumgangatho omtsha.
Ukususela kwicala lokusengqondweni lokungena "ukunyaniseka" kwimihla ngemizimba yobomi bobulili bobulili bonke kwenza umntu azive njengomthandi okanye umthandi wesahlulo sakhe, ukuba ukunyaniseka kubalulekile ebubudlelwaneni obude.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngamanye amaxesha abantu abaninzi bafuna ukuvula ifilimu-enye (ingakumbi umxholo okhuselekileyo, apho "inxaxheba ngokuthe ngqo" akuyona indawo yokuqala) yokufumana ingqondo yengqondo kunye nokufumana uhlobo oluthile lokutshatyalaliswa kwezinto ezintsha.
Kwakhona, umdlalo ofunyenwe ekubukeni ifilimu esemgangathweni uyamangalisa, kwaye imifanekiso kunye nezandi ekhanda zidibanisa kuphela ukungcola kunye neemeko zengqondo.
Ngubani eengcamango zakhe ezingazange ziphuphe iqela lezesondo zesini (nje jonga ukusuka kwicala, kwakhona, kuqwalaselwa!)? Okanye kwiingcinga zakho unokwenza nantoni na? Ngokufanayo, akukho nto iphosakeleyo, umphumo wobungqina (ngendlela efanelekileyo ebalulekileyo kuzo zombini) kwaye unokongeza ifilimu yomxholo we-XXX.
Kwakhona, unokubukela ngento ehlekisayo, uxabise ixesha elithile uze uhlekise. Ngaba kufanelekile ukuthetha malunga nokuzonwabisa okufunyenweyo xa ubukele ndawonye, ukuba umlinganiselo weefilimu zoononophala zifana? Ukujonga ngokubambisana kwezononografi kukulungiswa okufuneka ufunde ukuwuthatha nokusebenzisa.
Kutheni na?
Nangona kunjalo, nangona zonke iinkalo ezintle zalesi senzo, kukho iingcipheko ezenza ucinge ngaphambi kokuba wenze.
Ngoxa ubukela umxholo wevidiyo webini, kunokubakho iingxaki ngokuqonda ngokufanayo: ulwalamano nento obonayo nokuva ngayo luyahluka. Nantsi enye ingcaphuno: "Andiyi kuphinda ndiphinde ndikhangele iifografi zam intandokazi: ngenye indlela ndihleka njalo, kodwa wayenomdla ... kwaye akayiqondi nhlobo." Yiloo nto enokuyilinda abantu ababini, ukulungelelaniswa ngokwahlukileyo ukujonga umxholo ofanayo.
Okanye: "Xa ukhangela enye, kubonakala kulula, akukho mntu ubona ukuba ukhangele. Awvoyem, engaqhelekanga ngandlela-thile. " "Yimangalisa" yenye yexesha elingenakukuvumela ukuba uzikhulule ngokuthatha ingcamango yokuhaha okanye ukufumana ... Ukungaboni kakuhle komnye okanye ukungafuni ukubonakalisa, ukubonakalisa imfihlo yakho, enokuba yinto ebalaseleyo ngayo ubudlelwane bezesondo zesibini, yinto ongayilahleka ngaphandle kokuzama. Nangona ufuna ukunyamekela / oh, ukuze ungalimazi ngengqondo yakho / umlingane / ru. Lo mngcipheko uphakeme kakhulu.
Ukongezelela, ungabi nentshiseko kulo mbandela, kuba ukugqithisa kuya kuba yimpembelelo yeefilimu ezinomdla okwandayo kubo. Oku kungabangela imiphumo emibi enjengokungabikho komnqweno "oqhelekileyo" okanye inkqubo ngokwayo "ngaphandle kokuphuma kwakhona."
Okanye, nenye enye into: "Kungokuthi ngamanye amaxesha kukuqhubela kunzima kunezandla zomntu obathandayo kwaye unike ngesondo kwaye ngamanye amaxesha unentsingiselo entsha ebusweni bakho." Yonke into ilungileyo ngokumodareyitha, kodwa, njengoko kuchaziwe ngasentla, yinto enamandla kakhulu, kodwa ukuba ungabi ncinane ubuncinane kuyo, inokuguqula ubomi bentlobano ibe yintlekele, ingabi khankanya ukuxhatshazwa kwengqondo okanye ukuxhomekeka kolunye uhlobo.
Ukuba ukhangeleka, yintoni na?
Ngokugqithiseleyo, xa ufaka umbuzo wokukhangela onjenge- "Porn for viewing together", "Ii-Classic classics", "Ezizalwe ngokukhawuleza" kunye ne "Erotica", "I-Beautiful Sex", awukwazi ukufumana imboniselo yevidiyo ofunayo.
Kuya kuthatha ixesha elininzi kunye nomgudu wokukhetha (ngokuchanekileyo) izinto eziza kuhambelana nawe, kunye nomxholo, kunye nokukhuthazwa, kunye nemigangatho. Ukunyaniseka, kusenokwenzeka ukwenza oku. Kwaye ungacingi ukuba kufuneka ukhangele yonke umzila ukuqonda: njengawe (enye) okanye akunjalo.
Ukuba, nangona kunjalo, imbono yokubukela iifilimi zolu hlobo iza ngokukhawuleza (kwaye kaninzi kunokuba kungenjalo, ngaphandle kweminqweno yokumangalisa umntu wakho, kumangalise okanye uqale i-spoor xa ebuya ekhaya evela emsebenzini okanye njengaye), lungele 'ubambelele' umnqweno wakho kumda wexeshana, kuba kuya kufuneka uchithe ekufumaneni ulwazi olufanelekileyo lwevidiyo.
Ukongezelela, kukho izinto ezininzi, kodwa umxholo omninzi (emva koko, oku kanye nento oyifunayo ezimbini) kwimidiya ekhutshweyo.
Ngaba kunokunye okunye?
Imvakalelo yesondo okanye i-dazhenakom inokulungiswa lula ngokuncediswa kwesihloko esichazwe kweli nqaku.
- Unokubeka izinto ezifunyenweyo kumaphepha e-browser (ngaphandle kokuba zigcinwe xa kuvalwa-kuvulwa);
- Shiya umfanekiso wesantombazana ehamba kwi desktop, umzekelo;
- I-hard drive iyinkcukacha eziza kumemeza "Ndivule, nantsi ingcaciso ephazamisayo," kwaye oku kungabikho ividiyo kunye nemifanekiso-mifanekiso;
- Shiya ifowuni oyintandokazi (ngeposi yeposi, fowunela) uhlobo olusishukumisayo, olusisigxina sesondo, ingoma okanye iringithoni. Umzuzu othakazelisayo, ukuba nje ngohlazi (!) Ukunyanga;
- Vula ividiyo xa indoda ingena endlwini kwaye ibheka yedwa;
- Khawubheke nje u-eroticism okanye i-porn elula apho kungekho ziqendu eziqhagamshelanisiweyo, ezi ...
Ngoko konke okufanayo: Ewe okanye cha?
Ewe, umbuzo ngokucacileyo awunabo olula. Konke okubhekiselele kulo hlobo lobugcisa: nabani na abayithandayo. Kodwa xa ushwankathela, kubalulekile ukuba uthi akukho ziphoso ezibonakalayo ezenza okufanayo, kwaye nangona kunjalo: ukuziphatha ngokwesini kuxabiseke, imfundo yesondo iyenyuka, ithemba linyuka, luvuyisayo ngokwenene ngelizwi.
Kodwa kwakhona, i-negative ingakugxeka ukuba awulungele ukuphendulwa komntu, ukuba awusondelene okanye unako ukuvuleka okufutshane kwimibutho yakho kunye neminqweno.
Kodwa yintoni enokuba yingozi nakwezesondo kunokuxoxa ngefilimu yoononophelo?