Iingcebiso zengqondo zebhenqa

Iingcebiso zengqondo zitshatileyo ziya kunceda abaninzi ukuba basombulule iingxaki zobuntu.

Ngaba kukho imeko ebomini bakho ongenakuyenza? Ingcali yakho yengqondo iza kukunceda kule nto.

Indoda ithembisa ukuphucula, kodwa ayizalisekisi izithembiso ...

Nditshatile iminyaka engama-16, kunye nabantwana ababini. Umyeni wam waqala ukusela, umvuzo wakhe uhamba, ndizama ezimbini, kwaye nje ulala phambi kweTV. Ngamanye amaxesha uba ngumyeni nobaba onomdla, kodwa akunqabile. Uthembisa ukuphucula, kodwa akazalisekisi izithembiso. Ndazama ukuqhawula umtshato, kodwa ndabuhlungu ngaye. Kwaye wayesele ndiphelile ...


Iingcebiso zengqondo

Usuyazi ngokwakho ukuba akufanelekile ukulinda ulwandle. Le ndoda, elele kwiTV, ayiyi kuhamba ngokuzithandela. Ukuba akayithandanga utywala, ngoko nangakumbi akunakulindela ummangaliso. Kwaye ngaphandle koko, ukuhlaselwa okungaqhelekanga kokunyamekela kunokupheliswa ngokupheleleyo.

Kwimeko yakho, kufuneka kwenziwe amanyathelo angaguquguqukiyo. Ixesha "lemizamo" sele idlulile. Ukuphonononga imeko embi kakhulu: indoda ayitshintshi kwaye kufuneka iyingxenye. Uya kuphi na kwaye uza kuhlala phi? Gqiba zonke iindlela, cinga ngendlela yokuzikhusela wena kunye nabantwana kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Xa ukulungele ukona kunzima, kulula ukufaka amalungelo omntu.

Ugogo wamakhulu wayebunzima kakhulu

Siphila nogogo wamakhulu. Ndavumelana naye ukuba eze, njengoko ndathembisiwe ukuba uya kunceda, kwaye wamtyhila njengengelosi. Kwaye wayenomntu onzima kakhulu. Ukhawuleza ngaphezu kwezinto ezintle, uqalekisa yonke ixesha. Yaye indoda leyo, ingaqondi, iyamemeza, yintoni na enetyala kumxabano. Andiyi kuphinda ndibe naye - indoda yam ayiyi kuvuma ukuba inxenye yakhe ...


Iingcebiso zengqondo

Ndiyabulela isiluleko sengqondo sezengqangi, ezininzi izibini ziye zahlala zivuya ngokususela. Ukuba usaphila phantsi kophahla olufanayo kunye nomfazi omdala onomsindo, ngoko kwenzeka. Ufuna nje ukufumana indlela efanelekileyo kuyo. Ukutshintsha umntu osekhulile kuwe kuya kunokwenzeka, apho kulula ukuyifumanisa nayo. Akulungele, kodwa aninakho ezinye iindlela okwamanje. Qala ngokuyeka indima yexhoba. Akukho mntu ukhohlisile. Uvile oko ufuna ukukuva. Kutheni kufuneka ukuba ugogo akuncede, kutheni kufanele? Akukwelethi nto. Bala kuphela kuwe - kunye nabanye baya kukubuhlungu ubuncinane. Musa ukukhangela ityala. Ngayiphi na "impawu enzima" unokujamelana nobuqhetseba.

Iqabane lam lihlala liguqula izinto zokuzonwabisa: i-snowboarding, igitare kagesi. Namhlanje uxakeke kule nkwenkwe, kwaye ngomso uyamdina ... kwaye zonke izinto ezithandwayo azithandi. Ngaba iya kudlula xa ekhula? Okanye ndidibana nomntu onobuqili, ongeke wakha kwixesha elizayo lohlahlo lwabiwo-mali?


Iingcebiso zengqondo

Ulindele imali yabanye abantu ukuba ubale. Ukuhlehlisa oku kufikelelwe kwisibonelelo esisemthethweni sokutshata. Emva koko ingxoxo yebhajethi yosapho iya kuba yinyani kwaye ichanekile. Okwangoku, vumela loo nto inqabile ukuba yindleko yakhe. Izinto zokuzilibazisa ezininzi zandisa ukwanda. Kungcono ukuba ne-snowboard kunye negarita kagesi kunokuhamba ngeenxa zonke kwiindawo ze-intanethi ngeentsuku nobusuku. Ukuba imali ifunyenwe ngumhlobo wakho ngokwakho, ngoko unokuyichitha wena ngokwakho. Ungamthinteli kule nto.

Umntu okhumbuleyo nguye olibalayo malunga neemfanelo zakhe kubamelwane. Ndiyathemba ukuba umhlobo wakho akayena wabo.

Ummelwane waqala ukusasaza ngamanga ngamazwi ...

Ummelwane wam ngumthengisi, kwaye wayefuna indlu efana nam. Ukungakwazi "ukusinda" kum, waqala ukusasaza amahemuhemu angamangalisi ngam, aze akhathaze nakwezinye iindlela. Abantu bandibukeka bexhalabile. Kum, ke, akubi. Kodwa ingxoxo kunye nommelwane ayibonakali.


Iingcebiso zengqondo

Okokuqala, kufuneka ujamelane nokucinga kwakho. Ukungquzulana nomthengisi kwakhuthaza ukucinga kwakho, kwaye kwadlula kakhulu. Awukwazi ukwazi ngokuqinisekileyo oko ummelwane ozayo emva komva wakho. Ulwazi lwe-Scrappy kunye nokuqikelela kuthetha okungancinci. Musa ukukrokrela bonke abo bakujikelezayo ngokungafuni. Nangona bakubheka ngokwenene ngokuqaphela, bhetele - baya kuthinta ngaphantsi. Hamba, qagela ukuba umntu "owonayo" unokukhupha. Lindela isigamu sonyaka. Ungabonakali nantoni na umntu, ungayifumani ubuhlobo. Ukumomotheka okwenene kumntu ozayo - kwaye akukho mahemuhemu aya kukulimaza.