Indlela efanelekileyo yokutshata

Usengatshatanga, kwaye oku akusiniki ukuphumla kwintsapho kunye nabahlobo. Bonke bazama ukufumana inxaxheba efanelekileyo ... Masisebenze kunye kunye nendlela efanelekileyo yokutshata.

Kubonakala ngathi bonke baceba! Njengabalingani bezemidlalo, bajikeleza ngeenxa zonke, badumisa omnye okanye omnye umviwa kwisandla sakho nentliziyo. Siya kuqonda ukuba ngabahlobo, izihlobo kunye nabahlobo banokukunceda njani kwilungiselelo lonwabo. Ngaba kukufanelekile ukuhamba nabo kwinqaku kwaye zeziphi iimbono zokwazisa okunjalo?


Ubuchule bokudibanisa

Ukuba wena kunye nabalingani bakho yintsapho enye enkulu, kufuneka ukuba ulungele ukuba uzame ukufumana ibini kwaye le nto inokuba yindlela efanelekileyo yokutshata.

Iinkonzo. Amathuba okutyunjwa kwabo aya kufaneleka, aphezulu kakhulu. Oku kubangelwa kukuba abasebenzisana nabo abanomdla obuncinane kwimeko yentsapho yakho. Kubo, kunoko "umsebenzi obuthakathaka", umdla wezemidlalo. Kwaye ukuba kunjalo, ke akufanele ubenokubakhokhelisa ukuba bazuze. Abalingane baya kufumana phakathi kwabo baqhelana namadoda angatshatanga ofanelekileyo kwaye benze izimo zokuba nolwazi kunye noqhagamshelwano. Into ephambili kukuba akunakwenzeka ukuba babeke umbono wabo kuwe.

Umxhasi. Inyaniso yokuba oogxa bakho baqonda ngobomi bakho bobuqu akusoloko kulungile. Abantu abanobugwenxa abayi kukwazi ukuhlambalaza: "Unothando olulodwa entloko yakho!" Ukwazi ukuba nomhlobo ophumeleleyo malunga ne-60%.


Imvakalelo enomdla

Abazali, ootata kunye nabazala baxhalabele kakhulu ukuba uya kumantombazana, njengoko oku kusebenza kubo. Ubeka isithunzi kwigama lentsapho.

"Ekubeni kungekho mntu umtshatayo, kuthetha ukuba kukho into engcolileyo. Yintoni abantu abayiyithethayo? "- malunga neengcamango ezinjalo zizalela" inxalenye "yesiqhelo sabo.

Iinkonzo. Izihlobo zikhuthazwa ziinjongo ezilungileyo, kuba zikunqwenela kuphela okulungileyo, - ngokunjalo, njengoko ziyiqonda. Ngexesha elifanayo bakukhangela umyeni akukho nayiphi into embi, kodwa ikhuselekile ngokwezemali, ezoqoqosho, inqabileyo, ngaphandle kwemikhwa emibi. Kwaye kufuneka ukuba uvela kwintsapho ehloniphekileyo, ekhethekileyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kufana nemishado yezopolitiko yobukhosi bobukhosi.

Yenza indlela engcono yokutshata. Kule meko, akukona ukulungisa ubudlelwane phakathi kwamazwe, kodwa malunga nokwenza ubungane nabamelwane kweli lizwe okanye kunye nosapho lomhlobo wam omdala. Kwaye ngenxa yezizathu ezithile abahlobo bazali bahlala benesithende samadoda amantombazana "emtshatweni" - omnye nomnye uyamangalisa. Njengomthetho, izalamane zitsho ngokucacileyo umyeni ofanelekileyo kuwe, kwaye le yinto engabalulekanga ebantwini abathandana nabo. Ukwazi ukukwazi ukuphumelela malunga ne-20%.


Ukunikezelwa ngumhlobo

Abahlobo abangekho ngaphantsi kwezalamane abanomdla kubomi bakho bomntu obonwabileyo. Ngokwenene, kunjalo. Kodwa ngaba uyaqiniseka ngabo bonke abahlobo?

Iinkonzo. Iintombi ziyazi zonke iincwadi zenu kwaye zicinga ngokucacileyo ukuba zihlobo luni lamadoda okhanga kwi-blondes okanye i-brunettes, ixhomekeke okanye inamandla. Ukongeza, bayazi umlingiswa wakho kunye nesimo esihle, kunye nokuthanda nokuthanda, ngokungafani nezihlobo ezikubona njengoko zifuna. Ngoko ke, bayaqonda kakuhle ukuba ngubani onokuhlala naye, ufumane ukuqonda okufanayo, iimfuno eziqhelekileyo kunye nezihloko zengxoxo.

Umxhasi. Akuyena onke amabhinqa, ingakumbi ukuba engakatshatanga, ulungele ukumzisa umngane wakhe kumntu opholileyo, kuba ngoko uya kuphuma uluhlu lwakhe lwabalandeli.

Ngaphezu koko, ufuna ukuba nawe ube yedwa - ababini "bengabonakaliswa" ababi kakhulu. Uyakunokukukhuphaza kwinqanaba "elikhawulezayo". Ngako oko, abanye abahlobo bakho banomdla kakhulu ukuva ubuhlungu kuwe kwaye banikele iingcebiso ngamalungelo "abanolwazi" kunokumema kwinkampani apho kukho amadoda amaninzi. Ukwazi ukufumana ulwazi oluyimpumelelo malunga no-40%.


Jonga

Inyaniso yokuba uzama ukuzisa umntu, akukho nto engavamile. Ukudibanisa okwenyaniso okwangoku kungabikho, kwaye ilungelo lokukhetha lihlala lihlala kuwe. Ngaba le nto ingaba yinto efanelekileyo? Kakade! Ukongezelela, emsebenzini nakwizothutho, apho uchithe ixesha elininzi, awuvunyelwanga ukuba ujwayelane neenjongo zomtshato, kwaye udla ukufika kwezinye iindawo. Ngoko kutheni ulahla ithuba lokuthetha nomntu? Kwimeko embi kakhulu, uza kudla kwiindleko zomnye umntu kwaye ufunde into entsha ngeetheknoloji, imicimbi yezopolitiko okanye yezemidlalo. Eyona nto ingcono, uya kufumana uthando. Kukho ukhetho lwesithathu lwendlela efanelekileyo yokutshata: mhlawumbi indoda iya kuba ingaba iqhawe lakho, kodwa iqabane elincomekayo, kwaye ixesha aliyi kubonakala lilahlekile kuwe.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, akukho siqinisekiso sokuba uya kuba nethamsanqa: Umviwa wesandla sakho nentliziyo uya kulungeleka, intlanganiso ayiyiyo yedwa, uya kutshata, uzalise isiqwenga seengelosi zezingane, siphila ngokuvuyisayo emva koko, kwaye ufe ngosuku olulodwa. Ebomini, akukho ziqinisekiso ezinjalo. Kubalulekile ukuzama! Ukuba umntu othi "woo", uvuselela ukuzithemba kwaye uyonwabele intlonipho yakho, uya kukwazi ukuxhomekeka kwakhe, kodwa ungadli izilwanyana ezinkulu ...


Iingcamango zabasetyhini

Ukuba inxaxheba yabalingani ithathwa ngabahlobo bakho besilisa, eli li bali elihlukile. Kubo, unjengodade omncinci, ofuna ukukhuselwa nokukhuselwa. Ukuba bazama ukukufumana umyeni, umviwa akayi kubonakala kancinci: umthi wokuzalwa komnombo, irekhodi lomzila kunye neziphumo zovavanyo ziya kufundiswa phantsi kwe-microscope. Ukuba umfana omncinci uyakucasula, ngoko ke, wasuswa ngokukhawuleza ebomini bakho. Ngaloo ndlela, amathuba akho okutshata ngokuphumelelayo kunye noncedo lwabahlobo besilisa luncinci, kodwa ... Kuya kwenzeka ukuba umhlobo uba ngumyeni. Kubalulekile ukubona emehlweni akhe umdla kuwe njengowesifazane ngexesha. Khangela kufuphi nommandla ojikelezileyo: mhlawumbi abahlobo banomona kakhulu kubafundi bakho ngenxa yokuba bona bafuna ukuba kwindawo yabo?

Xa umntu efuna ukulungelelanisa ubomi bakhe, kodwa akancedwa yiinkampani zokudibanisa okanye i-arhente yomtshato, uphendukela kumdlali womdlalo.

"Ngomhla wokuqala, thetha encinci ngawe, phulaphula ngakumbi." Khangela oko akufunayo, into aphuphayo ngayo, into ayifunayo. "

"Kungekudala ndabuyela eKhazan ... ndaqaphela ukuba ngaphandle kwabakhweli abangama-400 kunabesifazana aba-10 kuphela." Nantsi i-Klondike yabatshatileyo! "

Fumana umphefumlo wakho umlingane unzima: ebusheni babo, iimvakalelo zibethelwa ngaphaya kwemida kwaye kubonakala ngathi yonke into isaphambili, kwaye malunga neminyaka elishumi emva koko uyaqonda ukuba kukho abantu abaninzi abakhululekile ngaphandle, kodwa ngandlela-thile bajonga yonke indlela eyadlulayo.

Ukukhangela isiqingatha sesibini, yonke into incike kuthi kuqala. "I-market market" ithandwa ngabantu abancinci nabahle - ngale nyaniso.

Kwaye ukuba uneminyaka engaphezulu kwe-40, kuya kufuneka ufunde ukusebenzisana kunye nezicwangciso ezinobomi-umfazi, umonde, ubulumko. Ngokwezibalo, kukho ukwahlukana kowesahlukaniso kumazwe ase-post aseSoviet kunemitshato, oku kuthetha ukuba kukho amadoda amaninzi akhululekile. Kungokuthi bafuna indlela efanelekileyo. Ukuphelelwa amandla - ukhathazeka, usebenza kwaye uphumelele - phulaphula kwaye ujonge. Kodwa abaninzi abantu abazi ukuphulaphula. Ukwandisa, incoko yakhiwa njengale:

- Ndinezemfundo yezoqoqosho ...

- Kwaye ndinabini kwaye ngokukhawuleza kuya kuba yingqondo.

- Ndisebenza njengomphathi kwi ...

- kwaye ndiyintloko yomphathi. Emva koko, amadoda athabatha umhlalaphantsi ngonaphakade. "


Ungazifumana njani?

Umdlali womdlalo wanamhlanje akafani ne heroine kaNatalika Gundareva kwi-movie "Ihostele yedwa yanikezelwa." Namhlanje, abanqwenela ukutshata, bafika kumdlali womdlalo kwiofisi baze bagqibe isivumelwano naye. U-Rosa uthi: "Unyaka," uyazi ukuba ixesha lesikontrakthi isayinwe kunye nomthengi. "" Kwiinyanga ezintandathu zokuqala, sifundisa abafazi abahlukahlukeneyo, sithuthukise izakhono zoqhagamshelwano, kwaye siququzelele imibutho yentlalo. "Ngokubanzi, senza konke okusemandleni ukuqinisekisa ukuba abafazi bafumana ulonwabo, kodwa babini kuphela abaza kutshata. "


Izizathu zokungaphumeleli

U-Syabitova uthi: "Akukho mntu ongenathemba, kukho ukungafuni ukufumana ingxaki okanye ukusebenza nayo," utsho uSibabriva. "Ngokomzekelo ndingakwazi ukuzisa ibali lomfazi." Ngokukhawuleza wayenza ubuchule bokunxibelelana, kodwa konke ukutyelela kwakhe akupheli nto.

Njengoko umthengi ngamnye ekhokelela kwi-diary okuthiwa idayari, echaza yonke into eyenzeka ngemihla, oko abantu bathetha ngayo, indlela abaziphatha ngayo, njalo njalo, ndagqiba ekubeni ndibukele amabali entlanganiso yakhe. Kwaye kwacaca ukuba kwingcaciso yakhe akukho lizwi elinye elihle malunga namadoda awadibana nawo. Ndambuza ngelinye ilanga ukuba ndifumene kumntu ubuncinci into efanelekileyo - amehlo, impumlo, ukumomotheka, indlela yokuthetha okanye yokugqoka, ubuncinane into ethile. Hayi, kodwa akazange akwenze. Kwaye ke ndaqonda ukuba ezi ngxaki zakhe, apho enye ingcali ifanele isebenze.

Ewe, ukuba umfazi ubona ekuqaleni kwinto embi, luhlobo luni lolwalamano onokuthetha ngalo ...


Ubudala abubala

Kodwa kukho amabali amaninzi kunye nokuphela okuvuyisayo. Ngokomzekelo, sasisebenza ixesha elide kunye nomfazi owayengaphezu kwama-50.