Ukufunda ibali leendabuko, kubalulekile ukukhetha ixesha "elifanelekileyo" xa umntwana uya kuhlala ethule. Unokwenza oku ngaphambi kokuba ulale, xa kukho ixesha lokuxoxa ngenganekwane. Kufuneka ukuba ufunde ngokuzonwabisa kwaye ungaphazanyiswa, kuya kuzisa iintlobo ezininzi kunye neemvakalelo ezintle. Iingxelo zefayile zandisa ulwazi lwabantwana. Indlela yokujonga izinto ezilungileyo kunye nobubi kubantu abadala azicingeli. Abantwana abakwazi ukuqonda ulwazi kule fomu, badinga imifanekiso, badlala.
Indima yeenganekwane zezingane ekukhulisweni kwabantwana azikwazi ukunakwa. Umntwana, ebonisa imifanekiso, ufunda ukuqonda ihlabathi elingaphakathi lamaqhawe, uxolelane nawo kwaye ukholelwe ngamandla omhle. Indima yeenganekwane zezingane azikhawulelwanga kuphela kwixesha lokuzonwabisa. Iingongoma zingathathwa njengendlela yokususa uxhalaba kumntwana.
Ngokuncedwa kweengoma zamadoda, omnye unokunceda ukunqoba izinto ezimbi zobuntu obukhulayo. Ukukhetha inkcazo yamantombazana yomntwana kufuneka imele iqwalasele iimpawu zentuthuko yengqondo yomntwana wakho.
Iimbali zezingane zikhulisa isigama sobantwana, ncedise ekwakheni kakuhle intetho, ukuhlakulela intetho ehambelanayo. Kubaluleke ngokufanayo ukwenza intetho yomntwana inemvakalelo, inhle, icingisise. Ukwakhiwa kwamandla kuyakha. Ngokufanayo, kwimfundo, ngaphezu kokusekwa okunembile kweziseko zentetho yomlomo, imfundo ekhethekileyo iyimfuneko. Ubaluleka obukhulu kufuneka banikwe ukwakhiwa kwamagama, izivakalisi, ukuhlanganiswa kwegama. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukudibanisa phakathi kwentetho nomsebenzi wengqondo yabantwana. Iingxelo zenkcubeko zifanele zikhuthaze intetho.
Umsebenzi wokukhulisa abantwana ngeenganekwane ziyinkimbinkimbi. Kufuneka uqikelele inani leenqaku ezihambelana neempawu zomntwana wakho. Kwiingxelo zenkcubeko kukho ubudala obudala bulumko. Amaxesha amaninzi amaqabane amantshi atyholwa ngokukrakra. Umntwana ubona izenzo ezinobukhohlakali umntu omdala obona ngokukodwa. Ukuba umntwana, ngokuphindaphindiweyo, wabona iziganeko zobundlobongela kwiTV, akayi kukwazi ukuyiqonda ngokufana neengcamango. Kubalulekile ukuchazela umntwana ukuba ububi bumele bubhubheke.
Kwimbali, iindaba ezilungileyo zihlala zincinci-kubaluleke kakhulu ekukhuliseni abantwana kwiinganekwane. Emva koko kuya kuba lula kuye ukujamelana nobunzima bokuphila. Ubomi buza kwenza izilungiso, kodwa akukho nto ilahleka kwi-subconscious.
Isimo sakho sengqondo kwi-inganekwane ibalulekile. Ukuba nawe uvakalelwa kukuba le yinye, i-world-story story, mxelele ngakumbi umdla.
Iincwadi kunye nemifanekiso ziphazamisa ukuphulaphula iindlovu. Emva koko, umculi ubona yonke into ehlukile kunomntwana wakho. Qiniseka ukuba ufunde ibinzana lokugqibela, liya kubelana ngamabali omnye komnye. Ukuba ufunda ibali leenkcazo kunye nesichazi kakuhle, ukucaca ngokucacileyo zonke izandi, uya kuhambisa ukutyelela kwiprogram yomlomo.
Inye kunye neengcamango ezifanayo ziyakwazi ukufundwa kumntwana kaninzi, oku kuya kumnceda ukuba aqonde intsingiselo yalo. Xa eqonda intsingiselo yebali, akuyi kuba mnandi kuye. Wonke umntu unokufumana kwingxelo yefestile into ecacileyo kwaye esondele kuye. Ngomxholo wefestile, unokufaka umntwana wakho uthando lokufunda.
Iingxelo zefayile kufuneka zisetyenziswe ngokupheleleyo kwintsapho ekukhuliseni umntwana. Ngokusebenzisa inganekwane, kulula ukuba umntwana aqonde into "entle" kwaye yintoni "embi". Umntwana uzibonakalisa nje ngokuba ngumdlali oziphethe kakuhle.
Inkcazelo yamanqaku yenye yezona ndlela zifikeleleke kakhulu ekuphuhliseni ngokupheleleyo umntwana. Akuyimfuneko ukunciphisa indima yeengane zomntwana ekukhulisweni kwabantwana. Ukuba ukhetha ngokuchanekileyo ibali leenkcubeko kunye neempawu zabadala, unokuba nefuthe elifanelekileyo kwimeko yengqondo yomntwana. Ukulungisa nokuphucula ukuziphatha kwayo.
Iingxelo kufuneka zifakwe kwisicwangciso sokukhulisa abantwana njengendlela yokufundisa umntu. Injongo yeendalana kufuneka ibe yintuthuko kumntwana weenkcukacha ezivela kwimeko yemvakalelo. Isenzo seencwadi ezinjalo kufuneka sijolise ekuphuhliseni iimvakalelo zabantwana, kungekhona ezingqondweni zabo. Ukuba ubeka ingqalelo kwiingqungquthela ezingathandekiyo nezithandayo zomntwana, unokwazi ukuchonga nokulungisa iingxaki zeengqondo zomntwana ngexesha. Imfesane yomntwana inokuthi iqondiswe ngokulula kokubili kunye nokuziphatha okungalunganga kophuhliso. Kungcono ukuqala ngeengxelo zefriythi ezineqhinga elilula. Imfundo kunye neenganekwane kufuneka incedise ukuzithemba nokuzithemba.