Akuqhelekanga ukuva intombazana ikhalaza kumhlobo wayo: "Umfana wam akafuni mna!" Iseluleko seengcali - ungesabi ngaphambili kwexesha. Izizathu zingahluka. Mhlawumbi sele uvele uzame onke amaqhinga owaziyo. Wabiza kuye kwiifilimu zefilimu eneempawu zeembhedlele ezithembekileyo, iipende zatshatile intombazana yentombi intombi evuyayo kwaye epheleleyo, ngokuqinisekileyo wavunyelwana ukuba ahlale naye ebusuku - akukho mpendulo. Udibana nesiqingatha sonyaka kunye neveki ezimbini, kodwa phakathi kwakho akukho nto ibonisa ukuthandana. Ukuba umfana oneminyaka engama-21 akanakunqwenela ngesondo - yintoni na? Kutheni engakufuni?
1. Uyidla.
Ngoko ke nayiphi na inzululwazi oye wanikezela ubomi bakhe bonke ekufundeni izigulane unokuphendula. Inyaniso kukuba amabhinqa kulezi zinambuzane adla amadoda emva kokulingana. Oko kukuthi, ukuba uthandaza umfazi (isandi, ngokuqinisekileyo, singenakwenzeka, kuba ama-mantis abafundanga amaphephancwadi e-intanethi), ukungavumi ngesondo kuphela yithuba lokulondoloza ubomi bakhe. Ewe, awuyidli abantu - ngendlela engokoqobo la magama. Kodwa unamanye amabali amahlekisayo kuye. Ngokukhawuleza, uya kucela ukuba ahlawule ngesondo kunye kunye nokuqeshisa indlu, kunye kunye neebhanki ngemboleko okanye kunye kunye nokuhamba ngokuthe ngqo kwinqanaba le-ofisi yokubhalisa? Ewe, okanye ubuncinci banxusa ukuba nithande kuze kube sekupheleni kwenkulungwane. Amahlaya amahlaya, kwaye ezi zikhethi zenkwenkwe zifana nethemba lokudliwa liphila.
2. Umoyike ukuyeka.
Ewe, kunoko. Ucinga ngale nto: "Ewe, ewe, ndiyazi ezi ntombazana. Ngoku udonsa egumbini, emva koko ulala embhedeni, kwaye uyabanga apho, zonke iintlobo zokubamba. Kwaye ngexesha elibaluleke kakhulu ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuthi akakulungeli okwamanje. Akayinto, kwaye ndiya kuhamba yonke imini, njengendoda, ngolu hlobo. " Ndimele ndivume, inkwenkwe yenkwenkwezi ilungile. Ehlabathini akukho nanye i-nedevstvennika, ekhoyo apha ayikaze iphule. Iingcamango azivumi. Yaye iyinto enyanyekayo emphefumlweni, kwaye ibuhlungu e-groin. Ukuze ugweme iziganeko ezinjalo, funda ukuhambisa imida ngexesha. Ngaphambi kwangaphambili, uchaneke ngokuchanekileyo ukuba ukubamba okude-soloko ukholisa. Kodwa nabo bonke abanye ungathanda ukulinda, kuba awukakulungeli okwamanje. Umfana uya kukubulela. Imbono, ngenene, ayiyi kunikelwa, kodwa ukuba ayikho isidenge, eminzini yomphefumlo wakhe iya kuvuya kumntu ongenakuze aphule ngqo empini.
3. Ikhusela igama.
Yayo. Xa ndaya ehlotyeni ukuba ndihlale kwinkampu yobuvulindlela, apho ndadibana neSveta, ininzi yazo yonke into endiyithandwa ngayo. Yiyiphi intombi engafuni ukuhlangana nentombazana ekhululekile? Amaninzi amaninzi, ngandlela-thile, ndikhwele. Ebusuku babalekela kumantombazana ukuba bawabambe nge-toothpaste, kwaye mna ku-Svetka-ukuba ndiwanga phantsi kwengubo. Inzuzo yokumanga okungaphezulu ayikho. Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa emva kokuqala kwencwadana ethembisayo, abantu abanobubele bangandixelela ngoSvetlana, ukuba iinwele zam zifuduka zifike ezinyaweni zam. Ngamafutshane: ihlobo lasekuqaleni, ngelixa ephumla kwenkampu efanayo, waqala ukuthandana ngaphandle kokuthatha lula, ngokukhawuleza kunye nalo lonke iqela lebhola lebhola. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ndiyaphinda ngenyameko into encinane, kodwa ngokubanzi umlinganiselo wentlekele yayinkulu kakhulu. Ngamafutshane, ndagqiba kwelokuba kungcono ukuba yincwadana encinane kunokuba ndivale iindlebe zabanye ekupheleni kwenkampu. Ngaba ucinga ukuba kubalulekile ukuba amantombazana ayenokuthetha ngawo? Hayi, hayi, eli lizwi eliphosakeleyo. Abafana banjengeqhwala kwizinto eziziwayo, bajonga ngombono woluntu, njengawe. Yaye i-snag ayinokuba yinto edibeneyo edlulileyo. Mhlawumbi mhlawumbi, umisiwe kunye nenye into. I-penchant yakho yemodeli yokuziphatha ichazwe kumhlathi odlulileyo, umzekelo. Okanye i-mania ukuxelela malunga neenveli zabo ukuya ngasekunene nakwesobunxele. Okanye nje ukungafuni into enkampani yakhe kuwe. Qaphela: ngaba uzama ngokusemthethweni ukufihla ukuba kukho into phakathi kwakho?
4. Uyintombi.
Olu khetho lunokuqala lubonakala lugqithise kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, kuya kuba yinto eqhelekileyo. Ukunciphisa intombazana engabamsulwa kubantu abaninzi - uxinzelelo oluqinileyo. Kwaye ngaphandle koxanduva olongezelelweyo. Ingcamango yokuba ukuba ngowokuqala ukupholisa ngokwenene, abanye abafana ngesizathu esithile asikho. Kwaye oko bacinga nje kukumfihlelo. Mhlawumbi loo nto umva ukuba xa ukulahleka kobuntombi kuba igazi, kwaye uyamesaba. Okanye ucinga ukuba emva koko awusoze wamshiya, kwaye uselula kakhulu ukuba azibophelele kuwe ubomi. Okanye ngokuphambeneyo - ucinga ukuba ufuna ukuyisebenzisa, kwaye ngoko nangoko makabeke. Into enokwenzeka. Thetha naye.
Ukuba ngokukhawuleza uvile kumntu wenqatshulwa ngenxa yokungabi namacala, musa ukukhawuleza "ukulungisa" imeko ngokukholisa okanye ezinye iindlela ezingaqhelekanga. Ewe, insizwa inokukwazi ukuziphatha ngokunyaniseka ukuba ayiyithandi ukubona igazi. Okanye, njengendlela yokukhetha, ukungafuni ukukulimaza. Kodwa, ngokuqinisekileyo, oku akusiyo yonke into. Okokuqala, ubuhlungu bokuqala ngokwesondo kunye nokulahlekelwa kwamanzi obomvu kwi-decaliters kakhulu. Kwaye okwesibini, amakhwenkwe anesazela. Mhlawumbi loo mntu akayiboni ukuqhubeka kobudlelwane bakho okanye nje akuthandi. Uyazi ukuba isondo sokuqala sibaluleke kangakanani kwintombazana kwaye akafuni kukulimaza ngeenkcazelo ezimbi ezilandelayo, kunye nokuhlambalaza kwakho kunye nokukhanya okumhlophe. Mbulele kuye: ngenhlanhla, uyiphumelelanga - inetha ngeli meko.
5. Kukho enye indlela.
Enyanisweni, unento eninzi yokwenza. Kakhulu kangangokuthi i-hormonal bursts ayikwazi ukuwela kwishedyuli yakhe ngesandla. Njengomphumo - uxinzelelo kwiziko okanye emsebenzini, okanye, okuyiyona nto ibuhlungu, apha nakhona. Yongeza kule nto uthando lokusela utywala kunye nokuphila ngendlela yokuhlala. Yaye yonke into iyaqondakala. Iimeko, eqinisweni, akunyanzelekanga. Ubulili kuye, ngokubanzi - kuhle. Kodwa elinye ixesha. Namhlanje udiniwe, ngoko kuya kuba mnandi ukubona ibhola. Okanye, zithi, unzulu malunga naliphi na ishishini. Ungumdlali, kwaye ngomso uya kufuneka avelise kwimincintiswano yokugqibela. Okanye uyingenelo, kwaye emva kweeyure eziyi-12 unomviwo wokungena. Okanye ungumfundi omncinci, kwaye ngoMvulo olandelayo ungumgangatho wabaqeqeshi abaphezulu, apho anika intetho. Inkwenkwe yakho ikhetha ukuzinyamekela. Apha, ndimele ndivume, ungumntu olihle. Konke kulungile. Umsebenzi wesondo awuhlali nje kuphela, kodwa usebenza ngamandla. Ingakumbi ngomzimba wesilisa. Ngoko, uyazi, mnike umntu nge-nap. Ngomnye umva kamva, emva kokubuya kuwe emva kokuncincila okuncinci, uya kulungelelanisa ubulili obunjalo - abuyi kubonakala ngathi mncinane!
Musa ukucaphukisa xa inveli yakho ingahlakuli kwizinga okulindele. Mhlawumbi yonke into yavela ngexesha elingafanelekanga. Ngoku ubeka ingqalelo kwezinye iingxaki, ngoko akanako ukukhawuleza. Kuze kube yiminyaka engama-70, le meko ayithathwa njengengenathemba. Usenayo ixesha lokwenza konke. Khetha utywala, ngakumbi ubhiya. Kukho izinto ezininzi ezinjenge-hormone zamabhinqa ezikhokelela ekunciphiseni kwamanzi. Ungamkhathazi ngokuhlambalaza kunye namabango (ubuncinane ngexesha lexesha lomsebenzi wakhe) kwaye ukumema ukuba u tyelele isikhungo sempilo ndawonye. Yonke into iya kwenzeka kungekudala, uya kubona.
6. Akukho nto ivakalelwa.
Ewe, okanye uzive, kodwa enye into. Unobungane kunye nawe, kwaye sele usicinga imoto kunye nenqwelo encinci yexesha elizayo. Ngubani na oninike ilungelo lokugqiba isigqibo sakhe ngekamva lakhe? Ewe, ngamanye amaxesha uyakundiza ngokukrakra. Nokuba unxibe umlenze wakhe. Kodwa kunjalo, ngaphandle komxholo, kumatshini. Abahlala belawulwa njalo, ezi ziphumo zothando. Njengoko bathetha, isondo asikho isizathu sokuthandana. Ngoko, lo mgaqo unomgcini-mbini: ukumazi akusona isizathu sesini. Gcina ingqondweni.
Mhlawumbi yena akayiqondi ngokupheleleyo into awayevakalelwa ngayo. Kodwa ngokucacileyo akulona oko ukulindele. Ukhusela wena njengodade oselula. Uhlala njengomntwana. Uyamhlonela, njengomdala umhlobo. Kwaye akafuni nje. Mhlawumbi, usenothando, kodwa ... nangendlela ethile nangothando. Kwaye kwenzeka. Uya kuphefumula ngothuli olusuka kuwe, kodwa akayi kuphazamisa. Mhlawumbi, xa isithsaba siwa, yonke into iya kuhlala. Mhlawumbi, kodwa kungekhona into. Amanye a makhwenkwe ayenganyatheli ngaphaya kweli "ngokusebenzisa unqulo".
7. Kubuhlungu.
Kwaye akusikho ihlazo. Kukho izizathu ezahlukeneyo. Enye enye ayimnandi. Khawucinge ukuba kufuneka ufike kwi-disco, kodwa izicathulo kuphela ezikhoyo zizinto ezintathu ezincinci. Ngaba ujabule kwi-disco? Nguye olwabelana ngesondo, akukho nto iyonwabileyo, ukuba unengxaki engundoqo yezobuchwepheshe. Ubhetele ngaphesheya. Kuya kuba ngcono - kwaye umxelele-ukuba uyayeka ukudlala isilumko kwaye wehla ngxaki yakhe kugqirha. Ngelishwa, ngokugqithiseleyo uphakamisela ukuba umfana aphethwe unyango, uphezulu umngcipheko wokuba uhambe, kodwa kungengokugqirha, kodwa kuwe. Mamela ngomonde aze ahlushwa kwaye uya kugqiba kwelo nyathelo, okanye uzame ukukopela. Mbuze, umzekelo, ukukuhambisa kwi-polyclinic. Mhlawumbi ngelixa elinde wena kwimigca, kwaye unquma ukwenza i-aphoyintimenti?
8. Iinkomfa.
Kwimeko eqhelekileyo. Ngokomzekelo, umntu ozinikezele igama lozuko nge-masturbation. Ubuncinane ngexesha lolwalamano olusisigxina kunye nentombazana. Ewe, umlimi uthe - wenza indoda. Kodwa ngubani na onokucinga ukuba, umzekelo, inyanga iya kudlulela ukususela ekuqaleni kwencwadana yesini? Isiphumo siya kuphazamiseka: ubusuku bokuqala buya kuphela xa uqala. Kukho ezimbini kwi-akhawunti. Kungekudala, ubudlelwane buya kuphela. Umfana wayenenkathazo: bathi, ndenze konke ngokukhawuleza. Emva koko waqala ukukhathazeka kwangaphambili, wabuyela ngokwakhe njengento engavamile: "Akuphela kuphela-kuphela-ekupheleni-kungekuphela," kodwa ngenxa yoko, ngokuqhelekileyo, wagqiba ngokukhawuleza.
Ngaloo ndlela isiluleko: lungele, ukuba okokuqala izinto ziya kuhluke ngokupheleleyo kunezobucayi. Yaye ukuba uthe wagqiba ngokukhawuleza kunokuba uqale, khumbula - nguye onoliseko. Ukunciphisa okuncinci, ukuzisebenzisa kwiingcamango ezikuyo ubuhle obuhle-kunye nayo yonke into iya kulungile. Akukho nto intombazana enengqiqo enokucinga ngayo: ukuba yonke into iphelile ngokukhawuleza, ngoko umfana wayesebenzisa ngokugqithiseleyo. Okanye ayithandi ngokwenene. Okanye akanayo amava. Mbi, mfutshane. Kufuneka ukuba utshintshe ngokukhawuleza. Ewe, ukuba uyingxenye kunye naye ngenxa yesi sizathu, unokonwaba kuphela kwinkwenkwe: kuhle ukuba ulahlekile umntu onentliziyo enzima onjengawe. Khawucinge nje ukuba kunokukukhathaza njani ukuba unxibe phambi komfana wakho ozithandayo, kwaye ngokukhawuleza wabhaqa iziqwenga kunye nezwi elidakisayo lomntu laqala ukuvakala: "Impumlo ide, isifuba sincinci, esiswini - ezintathu iintloko ezinkulu kunye namathanga kunye ne-cellulite ! "Ngaba iyothusayo? Ndingathanda ukulala ngesondo? Umfana emva kokuba i fiasco ivakalelwa ngokufanayo. Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene yonke into ilungile. Ukuba awufumani nje kuphela wena, kodwa kuye, xa kwenzeka ukungaphumeleli okanye ukuhlaselwa kolukhulu kunoma yimuphi umxube (isisu esikhulu, amahlombe amancinci, amava amancinci, uxanduva olunzulu - akwanele ngenxa yento anokudideka ngayo), makabe Uyamthanda kakhulu. Yaye uya kukubonisa oko angakwenza.
9. Mhlawumbi ulele nje.
Le yona khetho enakho kakhulu! Inkwenkwe engafuni ukulala ngesondo, ilele nje. Zama ukumvusa. Ukuba umntu ufuna ulwabelana ngesondo, ucinga ukuba: "Hayi, kakuhle, bonke abafana bafuna enye." Ukuba akafuni into enjalo, ingcamango ekhanda yakhe iyatshisa: "Kuphi na umntu ogulayo, okanye nge-psyche into ephosakeleyo-okanye mhlawumbi yonke into." Abahlwempu abafana. Ubabeka kwiimeko ezibuhlungu: nantoni na oyenzayo, yonke into imbi! Mhlawumbi ubuzwe obuninzi nokuqonda? Emva kwakho konke uya kuba ngowona nto.
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Kwakhona mhlawumbi iqabane lakho lixhaswa? Yaye uqinisekile nje: uthando lokwenyaniso lufanele lwakhiwe kuphela ngobudlelwane be-platonic, kwaye ubulili ngumsebenzi kwizilwanyana, akukho mfuneko yokuzihlambalaza. Ngaba uvile kuye into enje? Lo mcimbi usengacaciswanga kakuhle, kodwa kha wuleza ukuxhoma amalebula kuwo kwaye ubonise ukuba uhlola. Inokwenzeka ukuba, ukula kwakhe kwesondo kubangelwa ubunzima obunzulu okanye iingxaki zengqondo ebuntwaneni. Ukuba uneminyaka engama-16, le ndlela yokuziphatha idibeneyo: ufunda ukuhlakulela ubudlelwane obudala. Kwaye ukuba sele sele eseneminyaka engama-21 kwaye ukuba ungazibandakanyi nembono enjalo, awukulandeli nje indlela. Ukuba inkwenkwe eneminyaka engama-21 ingenayo isifiso okanye isondo, khangela enye.