Kubonakala ngathi yonke into ilula, kodwa ungayiphuthelwa yithuba lakho, ukubamba loo mzuzu emfutshane apho inhlanhla iya kuphendukela kuwe kunye necala layo?
Kwiminyaka emininzi yokuba khona kwayo, uluntu luye lwafumana iindlela ezininzi zokukhangela inhlanhla, inhlanhla kunye nempumelelo, kubandakanywa neyendalo. Emva koko, ukuba inhlanhla isithixokazi, ngoko ke indlela ekufuneka ibe nayo iyimfuneko - imilingo.
Kukholelwa ukuba izityalo ezininzi ziyakwazi ukugcina nokutsala amandla amandla. I-violet ne-thick-skinned (ibhebhe yebhere, umthi we-monkey) negalelo ekuhlaleni kakuhle kunye nobutyebi, kunye ne-cacti kunye nemidiya echasene nayo-ukuheha kuphela amandla angenawo amandla, ukuphazanyiswa ngokuthe tye.
AmaTshayina mandulo ayakholelwa ukuba isisombululo kwingxaki eyinkimbinkimbi iya kufumaneka ngokwawo, ukuba ubiza umnxeba, ucela uncedo lwemimoya enomusa. Kwaye ookhokho bethu abaSlav baxhoma ihashe phezu komnyango wendlu ukuze inhlanhla ingashiyi. Kuphela ukuba uthe uya kuphendulela kulo, yonke into eyaziwayo, khumbula ukuba i-horseshoe kufuneka ibethelelwe emnyango wecala ukuba "iimpondo" zenyuka, mhlawumbi yonke inhlanhla kuyo iya kuthulula. Ukuphumelela kwindlu kungazisa kunye nemodeli yomkhumbi wemoto, ophethe impumlo engena endlwini, engekho kuwo okanye umfanekiso kunye nejongwe.
Ama-Celts ayicinga i-clover enamaqabunga amane njengomqondiso wenhlanhla, kunye nabafundi baseRussia nabafundi besikolo baneentyantyambo ze-lilac kunye namathala amahlanu atyhatywayo, kodwa ukuze bafumane, kufuneka ukuba umntu ube ngumntu onenhlanhla.
Ngoko musa ukuthembela kumatshini, kungcono ukuchonga kwizengqondo.
Khumbula: ayikho ilahleko, akukho nto ingacingiyo. Inhlanhla ifika kuwo wonke umntu, kodwa ihlala yomelele kuphela, kuphela kulabo bakholelwa kuyo kunye kuphela nalabo abanokuyibona phakathi kweengxaki zobomi.
Ukungaphuthelwa kwithuba - kubalulekile ukusebenza. Inhlanhla ayifuni ephuma esibhakabhakeni entlokweni yakhe elele embhedeni, uyayithanda ikulungele. Emva kwakho konke, ukuze uzuze i-lottery, kufuneka uqale uthenge ithikithi yeloti. Ngoko ke, ukuba olunye usuku, umzekelo, unikwa umsebenzi ohlawulelwayo kakhulu, oya kuwufuna ukuba uthathe izifundo ezihlaziyileyo, uhambe ngesibindi, uze ungaqinisekisi ukuba awuyi kusebenza. Ukusuka kolwazi olufumeneyo awuyi kuba nzima.
Okumangalisa kukuba, sichitha umthamo omkhulu wamandla namandla, sikhuthaza iimvakalelo zethu ezimbi kwaye siziva sizibuhlungu ngenxa yethu. Ufana nokuzama oku: xa unokuba udabukile kwaye uhoxiswe kuwe, ithuba elincinane kufuneka ube nolonwabo.
Yiphathe kakuhle ihlabathi, kuyo yonke into oyifumana ngayo iingqungquthela zakho. Musa ukukhwele umntu, umntu onomona akanakuyonwabela ubomi. Yikhokelwa ngumzekeliso waseTshayina "andiyikubona, andiyiva okanye ndithetha okubi," kwaye ke, andiyikulimaza nabani na, kuba yonke into ibuyele, kodwa kungcono ukuba okuhle kubuye, kwaye kuyilenze.
Inhlanhla iyabathanda abaxhasi. Ukuba uncumo, ukuba unesimo esihle sengqondo, ukuba unesiqinisekiso - uya kuphawulwa, ukuba kungekhona ngabanye, ngoko amagunya aphezulu achanileyo.
Awukwazi ukuyifuna yonke into kanye. Kubalulekile ukucacisa ngokucacileyo iingcamango, iiminqweno, iinjongo kunye namaphupha. Iphupha "Ndifuna into emnandi, njengale njiwa" ayikwazi ukuzaliseka, kuba "into" ayikho kwimvelo. "Into" isichazi esingenammiselo, kodwa kufuneka uphuphe ngezinto ezizodwa, kwaye ke ziya kuba nawe.
Xa unomfanekiso wento oyifunayo entloko yakho, chaza umnqweno wakho ephepheni uze ufunde ngokuvakalayo. Iingcali zengqondo zithi inhlanhla inokuthi "ivelele" kuthi, akufuneki sisabe ukuthetha naye.
Ukulinganisa iiminqweno zakho ngamakhono akho. Ungangqongqo kwiingcango ezivaliweyo, ingakumbi ukuba kukho iindawo ezivulekileyo ezivulekileyo. Ukuba awunayo indlebe - awuyi kuba ngumculi, kodwa mhlawumbi unetyala kwenye into? Ngaba ubhala imibongo emihle elula ukubeka umculo? Jonga ngokwakho, qaphela zonke iingxaki zakho, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu-isidima.
Funda ukubona "iimpawu zexesha elibi", hlala kuwe. Bangaphi abantu abaziwayo kwiimeko zamatyala xa abantu bengaboni isizathu sokuba banikwe ithikithi yendiza, eyayiqhekeka ibe yimijondolo? Babengenanto nje inhlanhla, bebephulaphula. Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba uphakamise ngokomzwelo, uziva ukwazi ukujika iintaba - ngoko uhamba ngendlela efanelekileyo; kodwa ukuba, nangona uzama, akukho nto eyenzekayo, yonke into iphuka ngomzuzu wokugqibela, kwaye uzive ulungile kuwe - le ndlela ikhokelela ekufeni.
Landela la macebiso kwaye yonke into iya kuba yinto efanelekileyo, kuba ngoku uyazi iindlela zokupheka kwaye ucebise indlela yokukhangela inhlanhla ngokwakho. Khumbula ukuba xa uthembela kakhulu kwinhlanhla, unokukubeka ibhilikhi ekhangayo yeenkonzo zakhe, mhlawumbi awukwazi ukuhlawula.