Iyiphi indima yamawele?
Uninzi lwama-sonics lufuzisela ukuzalwa kunye nempilo kunye nobuntombi. Abasetyhini abaphuphayo lo mfanekiso kumaphupha abo baya kufumana ukuvisisana kunye nokuqonda ngokuvisisana nabakhethiweyo babo. Izifo eziphazamisayo, kuya kubakho amandla abalulekileyo kunye nokhuthazo kwimpumelelo emitsha. Ngokuqhelekileyo, emva kwamaphupha anjalo, abafazi abangashadile bafumana isiqingatha sesibini.
Xa ukutolika eli phupha, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba yiziphi iimpawu umphuphi. Amantombazana abatshatileyo abonwabisayo angayibona ngexesha leendaba zokuba ukhona. Kubafazi abaninzi abavuthiweyo okanye abangatshatanga, abanamawele ephupheni, bathembisa ukuchuma kwimiba yoshishini, ukuvela kwemithombo yemali eyongezelelweyo, kunye nokuphuculwa kwentlalo-ntle.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba kuzalwa njani. Inkqubo enzima kunye nentlungu enzima ibonisa ukuba ebomini intombazana endleleni eya kulonwabo nokuthanda kukho uvavanyo olunzima, emva koko uya kuvuzwa. Ukukhala ngokukhawuleza ngexesha lokubeletha - ukugwetywa okanye ukuhleka. Ukuba yonke into iyahamba kakuhle kwaye ingenazo iingxaki, yilinde: ubomi bakho buya kuphucula kakhulu, nayiphi na into eya kuyenza iya kuphumelela, uthando kunye nokuqonda ngokufanayo kuya kulawulo kwintsapho. Ukubona igazi ngexesha lokuzalwa yintlanganiso yokuqala kunye nezihlobo ezide okanye ngabahlobo abangabonakali ixesha elide.
Kuya kuba yinto engathandekiyo ukuba ukhumbule iimeko apho wazala khona abantwana. Ekhaya okanye esibhedlele? Ukugcina kwiphupha iindonga zekhaya zifanekisela uncedo kunye nenkxaso yokuziphatha kwezihlobo kunye nabahlobo. Uluntu loluntu luphawu lokufudukela kwangoko, ukuhlukaniswa okude kwintsapho kunye nabahlobo.
Iphupha lamamawele: yayiyintoni isondo sabantwana?
Ukuvuka ephupheni, abafana abancinci bahamba phambili ngokucacileyo ukuba kungekudala uza kufumana iindaba ezimnandi kakhulu. Okunokwenzeka ukuba, utshintsho olulungileyo luya kuxhalabisa ngemali okanye kumsebenzi wecandelo. Ukuba unyuliweyo, lindela isipho kuye oye wasifuna ixesha elide.
Ukuba uthelekisa ukutolika kweeninzi zeencwadi zephupha, ukuzalela umntwana kunye nentombazana kuthetha ukuba intloko igxininise kwisitoko esitsha okanye umdlalo. Kungenzeka ukuba uya kuqhelana nomntu osondeleyo kwaye uchithe ixesha elininzi kunye naye.
Ukuzalwa kwamantombazana kubonisa ukuguqulwa komphuphi, ukuhlaziywa kwemilinganiselo yakhe yobomi. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo, emva kwamaphupha anjalo, abafazi banomdla, banakekela, banomdla ngakumbi ekwakheni ikhaya, kunokuba baqaphele ekusebenzeni.
Njengoko ubona, iphupha lokuzalwa kwamawele kwiimeko ezininzi zifanekisela into entle kwaye ilungile. Oku kuya kwenzeka kuphela kwintombazana engqondweni yayo igcwele iingcamango ezilungileyo kunye nothando kubathandekayo bakhe. Ngoko yenza izigqibo uze uhlangabezane nezinguqu ezintle!