Kwaye ixesha lifika xa abantwana bethu bekhula kwaye bafunda ukuba inceba, inomdla, ingenakulibaleka yothando. Baqala ukuxabisa loo mizuzu emihle, ababengayicingi ngaphambili.
Njengomthetho, umphumo woluvo oluvakalayo kukudala iseli elitsha lentsapho yoluntu. Ngoko ke, umtshato ngowona mcimbi obalaseleyo ebomini babo bonke abantu abathathe isinyathelo esinjalo.
Konke kuqala ukususela kwithuba osebenza kuyo kwi-ofisi ye-registry, leyo ngokuqinisekileyo isiganeko ezimbini. Umbutho womtshato ubuncinane ubunzima kunye nezoshishino, kodwa kunika ulonwabo olukhulu kunye nokwaneliseka kubo bonke abaya kwenza.
Ukukhetha abaculi bezobugcisa yinto ebalulekileyo kakhulu, ke kutheni kungcono ukwenza oko ngokwakho, ukuze wena kunye neendwendwe zakho nidlale kwaye ujabule. Isitshixo ekuphumeleleni kwanoma imuphi umtshato ngumntu ohlaselayo, othakazelisayo. Ukufumana, ukucebisana, ukuzonwabisa kunye neendwendwe zakho ngumsebenzi wakhe. Ngaphandle kokuqhutyelwa kwevidiyo, akukho mfuneko, kuba le mcimbi ongayibalekiyo kufuneka igcinwe iminyaka emininzi. Ukuhlobisa kweholo, apho kuya kubakho ukubhiyozelwa, ukuthatha. Ukuhlobisa ngezandla zakho kunomdla kakhulu kwaye kumnandi. Kuyinto ekhangeleka kakhulu ukujonga umsebenzi wakho kwaye ufumane ukuhlaziywa okuhle kwiindwendwe kwidilesi yakho. Esi siganeko esicacileyo, eqinisweni, ngaphandle komfaki-zithombe, nokuba ingaba njani ukulawula. Umtshakazi eengubo ezimhlophe kunye nomyeni kwisitulo esihle, oku akufanele kwenziwe ngaphandle kwekhamera yekhamera. Ukukhetha isambatho kunoma yimuphi umtshakazi ngowona mzuzu othakazelisayo kwaye unomdla, kwaye ukhetho lomtshato lomfazi ozayo luyinyathelo ebalulekileyo kumyeni.
Kwaye kwafika loo mini evuyisayo kwaye emva kweeyure ezimbalwa waba ngumyeni nomfazi. Kwimiphakathi yethu yanamhlanje, iintsapho zintsapho zivele zivela, ngelixa zivela kubantu ababini, kodwa nje ngeenxa yecala kukubonakala kwendoda encinane. Lo mzuzwana uya kukhunjulwa ngobomi. Konke kusihlwa unabantu abalingani abakhulu, umdlalo womculo omnandi, iimplomelo ezidlalwayo, iimincintiswano ezithakazelisayo kunye nokuzonwabisa, zibambe iingoma zomtshato, abantu abaselula abavunyelwe ukuba baxakeke, babamemelele kwisangqa baze bamemezele "Inzondo !!!". Ukulila kweengqungquthela zeengqungquthela, ingxoxo yomsindo yeendwendwe, ukuhleka kwezingane kunye nokudansa ukudansa zonke izinto ezibandakanyekayo kwanoma yimuphi umtshato. Incinci ayigcinanga yonke into, kodwa bonke "Ubunzima! Kubuhlungu !!! Kubuhlungu !!! ". Wonke uhlanga uneempawu zomtshato kunye nezithethe, apho, ngokusemandleni abo, bazama ukugcina nokuzalisekisa. Umzekelo: ukukhululwa komtshakazi, ukuphosa isiqhamo somtshakazi kunye nokunye okuninzi. Intsikelelo kunye nokwahlukana kwabazali, ukuvuyisana ngabahlobo nezihlobo. Zonke zilungiselelwe kakuhle: iintetho ezintle kunye novuyo, iintyatyambo, izipho.
Wonke umntu uyonwabile kwaye uyonwabile ngenxa yabancinci, ebona i-glitter emehlweni abo, akukho mntu unokungabaza ukuba baya kuhlala ubomi obude kunye nolonwabileyo lweentsapho.
Nangona ubomi abahlali besenza njalo, kuya kwenzeka ukuba le mtshato ingayi kuba ngowokuqala nokugqibela. Kodwa siya kuhlala sithemba ukuba umtshato ngamnye wethu unye kunye nobomi bonke.
Umtshato ebomini wethu ngamnye uhlala ememori yethu ngonaphakade. Eli lixesha elikhunjulwayo xa sikhula, siba bulumko, siziva sinobuhle bomi, sifunde malunga nomnye kwinkqubo yokuhlala ndawonye, sinika ubomi ilungu elitsha lentsapho yethu, sikhulise abantwana, sincede intsapho kunye nabahlobo bethu, kwaye sifunde ihlabathi elisijikelezayo.
Umtshato, njengoko isiganeko esicacileyo ebomini siya kuhlala sikhumbule kokubili nawuphi na umtshakazi nomyeni. Emva koko, bahlangene nomvakalelo omhle nonqabileyo wothando.