Ukudibanisa noMnyaka omtsha ozayo esibhedlele-inyaniso, ayikho into enhle kakhulu. Kodwa musa ukudimazeka! Ngamanye amaxesha ugqirha ugxininisa ukuba umama ozayo uza kuhlala esibhedlele ukuze alondolozwe naphezu kweeholide. Ngokuqinisekileyo, oku akuko kumnandi kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, njengoko udumileyo uDale Carnegie uthe, ukuba isifo sinika i-lemon, zama ukwenza i-lemonade ngaphandle kwayo.
Cinga ngomntwana
Ungazami ukuphuma ekhaya nangayiphi na indlela - ngokukholisa ugqirha okanye ukufihla imeko yakhe yokwenene yempilo. Ngokwezibalo zonyango, uninzi lwabantu "abatsha" beza nezikhalazo esibhedlele ngentsasa kaJanuwari 1, emva kokusasaza, i-champagne, i-olivier kunye ne-rollercoaster. Ngaba unokubeka umngcipheko wokuthabatha ulonwabo kulonyaka ozayo - kungekhona u-Eva onguNyaka omtsha, kodwa unempilo lebhokhwe.
U-Irina, uMama Maximka: "Ngentsasa yowama-31, ngethuba lexeshana, ndincenga ugqirha" ukuba aphume usuku "xa efunyenwe nazo zonke iinyaniso kunye nenkohliso. Ndifuna ngokwenene ukubhiyozela iholide nomyeni wam. Kwabini ndakhishwa, kwaye ngo-11 ebusuku ndabuya, kwiimpahla zeholide kunye ... kunye nokulwa. Kulungile ukuba eli lide sele lihloniphekile. "Ndifuna umnqweno wonyaka omtsha emva kokubeleka, kwaye kwazaliseka ngeeyure ezimbalwa - unyana wam wabonakala."
Yenza iimoya
Ungakhali kwaye uzizwe uxolo ngenxa yakho - amagumbi esibhedlele kule ndawo akayi kuba yindlu yokudla, kunye nomongikazi kwi-Snow Maiden. Kodwa isimo sengqondo esilungileyo siya kwenza indawo emnandi kwikamelo elibuhlungu. Yigubungele ngeetsel kunye neebhola, gubungela itafile yokutya, ngokuchanekileyo, ukukhanya kwebusuku, vula iTV ngekhonsathi yonyaka omtsha. Zithobela wena, kuba ubuso obomvu kunye nobunhloko entloko buyonakalisa isimo sengqondo. Yenza i-hairstyle kunye nokwenza ukukhanya, gqoka iimpahla ezintle. Kakade, iingubo zeenwele kunye nesambatho sangokuhlwa asiyisebenzisekanga, kodwa iingubo ezinamaqabunga akhululekile ziya kuza.
U-Alina, unina ka-Ilya: "Ngaphambi kweholide yethu, oomama abangenalwazi, kwakukho ezintathu kuphela ezisezantsi. Okokuqala sabiza amadoda ethu kwaye sakhala ngaphakathi kwiphubhu, waza wadibana waza wahlela iholide enhle. Bacela izihlobo zabo ukuba zisinike zonke izinto ezintle, zihlotshwe igumbi elinamagqabi kwaye zadibana noNyaka omtsha ngokuzonwabisa. Into ekhona kule nto! Ngubani omnye, kodwa kungekhona abanye oomama bokamva, kunye nokuhlaziywa okunjalo kuya kuxubusha imizekelo yabahambahambayo kunye neebhedi ku-Eva?
Ukubandakanya uluntu
Enye indlela yokuphucula indlela ovakalelwa ngayo ukuyiphakamisa komnye umntu. Abamelwane ewadi, kunye nabasebenzi basebhedlele abahlala esibhedlele mhlawumbi bafuna ukuya ekhaya, kwintsapho. Baphathe ngokunyanisekileyo, izipho ezincinci okanye ukuphatha. Ukuba oogqirha abasemsebenzini abachasanga, unokukwazi ukuqhuba ukuphumelela kwiikhomishini ezilungelelanisiweyo kunye nemibuzo.
UVika, unina ka-Alenka: "Ukuba ngumama wabantwana ababini, ndaphupha ngentombi yam. Kodwa i-ultrasound igcinwe ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba enye inkwenkwe yayiza kuzalwa. Ngomhla woNyaka omtsha esibhedlele, mna nomama sahlela uhlobo lokuxoxwa ngenhlanhla kumgangatho womntwana, kwaye ndakhupha i-ribbon ebomvu. Kwaye kungekudala ummangaliso wonyaka omtsha wenzeka-ndandingenayo unyana, kodwa intombi! "
Hlela i-teleconference
Qiniseka ukubiza intsapho kunye nabahlobo bakho, kwaye baya kuba besondele. Musa nje ukucaphukisa konke. Akukho sizathu sokuba uzizwe unesizungu, kuba udibana nale holide kunye nomntu osondeleyo nomthandayo-umntwana wakho!
UZoya Mama Roma: "Ukwazi ukuba ndiya kudibana noMnyaka omtsha esibhedlele, ndacela umngane osondeleyo ukuba athenge izipho kwiintsapho kunye nabahlobo (ukucacisa ngokucacileyo oko ndikufunayo), kwaye xa beza kundityelela, ndabanikela nomhlengikazi umthwalo. Ngentsasa elandelayo ndamkela ipakethi yokubuya kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zezipho ezintle kunye neqela leposi. "