Ngamanye amaxesha, ngelishwa, kufike ulwalamano umzuzwana wokuzalisa okanye ukuzaliswa kwezi ntlobano. Lo mzuzwana wendalo kwaye, sinokuthi, silindele. Ibini ngalinye likhetha indlela yalo yokulilawula. Hayi, inani elikhulu labathandi bathanda ukumisa okanye ukuthatha ixesha elide, kodwa oku, siyabona, ayisisombululi ngxaki nangayiphi na indlela, kodwa iphosa ngaphandle kwithuba lesithuba.
Yintoni efunekayo eyenziwe ukuvuselela umgudu kwaye ubuyisele umnqweno olwalamano? Ngaba yonke into ilahlekile kwaye ayibuyanga? Akunjalo! Kukho ezinye iindwendwe ezinokumangalisa (kunye nokuba bhetele - ukutshatyalaza rhoqo) iqabane lakho kulwalamano.
Khumbula ukuba ukumbamba ingqalelo (ngegama elifanelekileyo kuphela) ngezinye izihlandlo ngokwaneleyo ukuba wabuya unomdla kuwe. Mangaliswe rhoqo, ungacaciseki, kwaye makangacingi ukuba yonke le yimeko ehleliwe kakuhle ...
Yaye nendlela yokuyiceba? Apha, njengoko kuzo zonke izinto ezinxulumene nobudlelwane, yonke into iyodwa. Kodwa ke, kukho iingcebiso ezininzi apho uya kuguqula ikhanda lakho ngokuthethekileyo kwaye wenze kwakhona.
Kufuneka ubukele isibini esingenakudityaniswa? Baya kumanga naphi na yonke indawo: kwisitrato, kwiibhentshi, kwiinguqu, kwizithuthi zikawonkewonke, kwi-escalator ... Ngaba ucinga ukuba bayazilana iintsuku eziliqela, okanye ukuba bebangakho ixesha elide? Mhlawumbi, kodwa kungekhona into! Mhlawumbi, bavele bazise ubudlelwane babo. "Kwimizuzu yonke xa uyamangalisa umlingane wakho, umzekelo, ngokuhamba ngokukhawuleza, intlanganiso okanye usuku kwindawo engalindelekanga, kukho umqondiso osuka kwi-tank yokucinga evuselela amaziko afanelekileyo kwengqondo yakho nomlingane wakho," Ulungiso oluBomvu, i-Ph.D., umlawuli webhubhoratri ye-neurological kwi-Baylor College of Medicine.
Ngoko ke, masihambe ngqo kumcimbi ... Kwimeko yakho yokuvavanya kunye nokuqonda yimizekelo yendlela onokumangaliswa ngayo (kakuhle, okanye ukuba nguwe :) okuhle:
1. "Intsapho yam ibhalela kwiirekhodi zokubhala ngomthetho, kwaye kamva iphinde ibhale kwakhona kwi-notebook. Ngenye imini ndayeka, kwaye endaweni yokulandela umgca, ndabhala ngelizwi lam: "Ndifuna kakhulu!". Kwaye xa ephulaphule ikhasethi kwaye ixesha leli phepha liza kusondela, ndazilungiselela (isihlwayo kunye nayo yonke into efunekayo) kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo yanyuka kuye. Ndimele ndithi le nto ingenye yezimbulelo ezicacileyo mna kunye naye. Emva koko, mna, njengomfazi othembekileyo, ndamnceda ukuba abhale kwakhona incwadana kwincwadi kwaye aphinde abuyele irekhodi elahlekile, "uJane, 25, wabelane ngokubonakala kwakhe
2. "Kwakuba sele ndilele embhedeni intombazana yam ingcikize into ethile kwisiFrentshi. Enyanisekileyo, ndingazi ukuba yintoni enye into enokuthi (nangona ecela ukuba ndikhuphe udoti), kodwa yavakala kakhulu, "u-Chris, oneminyaka engu-28, uyakhumbula.
3. "Waqokelela amanzi kuthi. Kwaye xa samthabatha, wahlutha ngobumnandi iGlova yam, ehlamba i-shampoo. Andizange ndicinge ukuba oku kungenza i-goose iqhume emzimbeni. Ukubonwa okungaqhelekanga, kunye nesondo emva kwalokhu (nangaphezulu kwamanzi) akuninzi ngokwesiqhelo! "- utsho uMorgan oneminyaka engama-29 ubudala.
4. "Kodwa ixesha lokutya, ngokukhawuleza, kodwa ngamabomu ngena kwibhola eyintandokazi ye-ayisikrimu. Wahleka, kodwa akazange alahlekelwe yintloko yakhe andiphendula. Kungekudala imfazwe yangempela yavela phakathi kwethu, isikhali esasikuyo ukutya. Ngenxa yoko, sawa phantsi. Ukunyaniseka, andihlekanga ngaloo ndlela ixesha elide. Nangona kwathatha ixesha elide ukuhlambulula emva "kweemfazwe" ezinje, kodwa ekubeni senze oku kunye nokuphazamiseka kwezinto ezithandekayo, ixesha lihamba ngathi ngokukhawuleza. Yaye uyazi, kamva wavuma ukuba wayengazange adle isidlo sakusihlwa! "Uthi uKim oneminyaka engu-21 ubudala.
5. "Emva kokuba ndithintele kwiingubo ezonwabisayo kwividiyo kwaye ndayifaka ngecala kumdlali werekhodi. Emva koko, ukusuka kwelinye igumbi, ndacima i-TV ngelixa ndibukela umboniso ozithandayo (ndiya kuthi ngokukhawuleza bekungekho ibhola!). Wayecaphukisa, kodwa xa ecinezela iqhosha, wandibona kwesikrini, wabuya wambona kwaye ndibona ngamehlo akhe ukuba ndimi kuye ngenye indlela, akafuni ukubukela iTV! ", - Phil, 26, .
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