Namhlanje, xa ngamnye kuthi ephaketheni lakhe ifowuni encinci, apho nayiphi na ixesha inokuthi "idibanise" nomntu obiza okanye ode kakhulu, ingxaki yemithetho yokunxibelelana ngomnxeba inzima kakhulu. Kwaye ke, ukuba wena unayo ifowuni, kufuneka kuqala ukuba ufunde le migaqo kakuhle. Ewe, masixoxe ngokufanayo "ngeendlela zokuziphatha eziphathekayo" kunye neendlela ezisisiseko zokunxibelelana. Ngoko, sifuna ukukwazisa ngokusemgangathweni kwimigaqo eyisiseko yokunxibelelana kwifowuni.
Nangona imigaqo esemiselweyo yokuziphatha ekhoyo ngoku ikhona kuphela kwinqanaba lokuphuhliswa kwaye abantu bambalwa kakhulu bayazi malunga nabo, basadingeka baqwalaselwe kwaye bagcinwe naluphi na umnxeba umnxeba. Ngako oko, imithetho esemiselweyo esele ikhona kwihlabathi kufuneka ibe yiseko yakho, ekufuneka uxhomekeke kuyo kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla.
Eyokuqala yale mithetho yileko yokwakhiwa okuchanekileyo nenokwenziwa kwengxoxo ngexesha lomnxeba wencoko yomnxeba. Vumelana ukuba injongo ephambili yale fowuni ayinakuthetha iiyure ekupheleni komntu omtsha okanye ingubo entsha. Nangona unako ukufumana ukuzonwabisa okunjalo, nokuba nomgwaqo ongenamkhawulo, cinga ngomngeneli wakho. Mhlawumbi akafuni ukuphazamisa ingxoxo, ukwesaba ukukucaphukisa, kodwa ngokwenene akayithandi le ngxoxo ende. Ngendlela, kwaye ukuba enye enye kunye nomntu ekuthiwa nguwe, apha kakade kungekhona nje ngexesha lakhe, kodwa nangemali yakhe. Ikhathazekile ngokukodwa ukuba isangqa sabantu ababizayo ngokuqinisekileyo ngabafundi okanye abantwana besikolo abanama-akhawunti abo asetyenziswayo bavame ukuzaliswa ngabazali. Ngoko kufuneka ube nezoqoqosho kakhulu ukuthetha ngefowuni. Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukuthulula umphefumlo wakho kangaka, thabatha imali ngaphandle kwakho uze ucele umnxibelelwano. Ewe, indlela efanelekileyo yokuphuma kule meko iya kuba yindlela efanayo yokunxibelelana.
Ngokukhawuleza, ngokukhawuleza ukuba ufikelele kumthengi ofuna, musa ukulibala ukuthetha, kwaye xa ubiza umnxeba wokuqala kunye nenani lakho lingenayo kwincwadi yefowuni yomhlobo wakho womhlobo, qiniseka ukuba uzenzele. Emva koko kufuneka ucele ukuba umhlobo wakho unokuthetha nawe okwangoku. Ukuba uxakekile, mbuze xa kufuneka abuyele umnxeba ukuze akwazi ukuthetha naye ngokuzithoba, kwaye awuzange umthathele kwimeko.
Omnye umgaqo obalulekileyo kukuba ngeengxoxo ezide kwisefowuni ungashukunyanga nje umnxeba wakho wocingo, kodwa nabo banokukujikeleza. Ngoko ke, ukuba unethuba, ngethuba xa uthetha kwifowuni, ukushiya indawo ebanzi, apho ulo mzuzwana ukhona, umzekelo, ukushiya abaphulaphuli okanye iofisi, kuya kuba kuhle kakhulu kwaye kulungile. Kodwa ukuba unothutho loluntu xa ubiza, uhamba ngezithuthi zikawonkewonke, ukuba oko akubalulekanga kakhulu umnxeba, cela umntu ekubizele ukuba akubize kamva okanye uthembisa ukuba kungekudala unako, uya kubuya.
Ngendlela, ifowuni yeefowuni, iikhonsathi okanye ezinye iindawo zolonwabo loluntu - le ngxaki enzima kakhulu. Ukutyelela ezinjalo iziko, sicinga, akuyi kuba nzima kuwe ukuvula ifowuni yakho yomsindo othulileyo, uqaphelisa okanye uqhawule ixesha elide. Khumbula indlela ekubukeka ngayo kakubi xa umntu e-cinema eqala ukwenza ucingo olukhulu kakhulu xa ebukela ibhayisikobho kwi-cinema. Njengoko uqaphele, kuyacaphukisa kakhulu kwaye kunomthelela ekwenzeni ukuba ulahlekelwa yintsimi yecandelo lefilimu.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, phakathi kwabanikazi beefowuni bayakhalaza ukuba, xa befumene "umhlobo wabo", banethemba lokuba kufuneka bahlale bemlandela. Kwaye oku kuyinyaniso. Nantsi enye imigaqo evela kwihlabathi le-etiquette ephathekayo. Njalo, xa kukho umnxeba obalulekileyo, uhamba neselula. Ndiyabulela kuye ukuba uya kuba nenani elikhulu lee-pluses. Kodwa ukulala nomnxeba, ukuhlamba okanye ukuhlamba kunye naye akucetyiswa nje.
Kwaye ngamagama ambalwa malunga neSMS-kah. Okokuqala, zama ukuhlala uphendula kwi "sms-ki" yabangani bakho abafikile kwifowuni yakho. Ungalibali ukusebenzisa ii-emoticon ezikhethekileyo, apho ungabonisa iimvakalelo zakho kunye nokuba uvakalelwa njani ngoku. Ngaphezulu, ngoncedo lwabo, unokubonisa indlela ophendule ngayo kwisigidimi somyalezo owafumene kulo okanye loo mntu.
Kubalulekile xa uthetha kwifowuni, qho khumbula ukhuseleko lwakho. Ucela, yintoni le? Inqaku elithandekayo kule meko kukuba ininzi enkulu yezingozi zendlela ezenzeka ngenxa yokungalindelekanga ezinxulumene neengxoxo kwivili. Ngendlela, abahamba ngeenyawo banokukhathazeka. Umzekelo, xa umntu ephulaphule umculo kwi-headphone okanye nje ekhuluma kwifowuni, akaqhelanga ngokukhawuleza aze abukele okwenzekayo kuye. Ngoko ke, imigaqo esemiselweyo yokunxibelelana ngokuphathekayo iquka ukuqapha. Ngelizwi, zama ukuthetha kwifowuni xa ufuna ukubonisa ukunyamekela kwakho kwinto ethile.
Yileyo ndlela iinjongo eziphambili zokuxhumana ngokuchanekileyo kwifowuni kwaye uyisebenzise. Ngoko ke ukuvumela ukuba uqhagamshelwano oluphathekayo libe yile nto. Khumbula ukuba ngendlela efanelekileyo yokusebenzisa ifowuni ephathekayo, uya kukwazi ukufumana ukukhanya okutsha kwintetho yeselula kwisidyuli samhlanje sobomi bakho. Inhlanhla!