Ngokukhawuleza xa umntwana ezalwa, abazali bakhe bazama ukuzungezela ngeento zonke ezinokwenzeka kwaye ezingenakwenzeka. Ngokuqinisekileyo, abantwana bafanelekile ukuba babe neyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu, kodwa ingubo ebiza kakhulu kubantwana abavela kwiimpawu ezidume kangaka kangaka? Ngoko unokuphazamisa umntwana, kwaye oku kuya kuphazamisa umlingani wakhe kunye nolwalamano oluzayo nabanye abantwana. Ukuthenga izinto ezixabayo, abazali abavame ukucinga ngale nto, kuba bafuna ukuthenga umntwana konke okusemgangathweni.
Kodwa kukufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba ukuba into ebiza, ayithethi ukuba imgangatho. Kuza kube yimini, inani elikhulu lemveliso eyaziwayo liye lavela kwiimarike kwaye kunzima ukuyikhumbula. Ngoko ke, abazali bavame ukuphulaphula iingcebiso kubacebisi bezentengiso abazama ukuthengisa izinto ezixabisa kakhulu, eziqhelekanga ezingabalulekanga. Kwaye abantu abadala bakholelwa ngokuphosakeleyo ukuba into ebiza kakhulu, yinto engcono, nangona oku akunjalo nakwimeko yonke. Kakade ke, kukho iinkampani ezilawula inkqubo yokuvelisa ngokupheleleyo, qwalasela iingcebiso zeengqondo zeengqondo, oogqirha bezingane kwaye, ngokwenene, iimfuno zabantwana. Ngokuqhelekileyo ixabiso lemveliso ligqithiselwa kuphela ngenxa yento ephathekayo, kuvela ukuba umthengi uhlawula kuphela igama. Ngako oko, kungcono ukuba uchithe imali ethe xaxa ngokucwangcisa, umzekelo, ukwenza idiphozithi ebhankini egameni lomntwana. Ngaloo ndlela, ngokwexesha lexesha uninzi umntwana angakwazi ukuqokelela imali kwi-akhawunti yinto ekhangayo, eya kukwazi ukuyichitha izifundo okanye ezinye iimfuno.
Ngaloo ndlela, umsebenzi obhekene nabazali unzima kakhulu: kufuneka uthenge into esemgangathweni kwaye ungagqithisi imali. Nangona oyingcali akulula kakhulu ukujamelana nalo msebenzi. Abazali kufuneka balandele imithetho:
- iingubo, kwiindawo zokudibanisa nesikhumba, kufuneka ukuba yendalo;
- iimpahla kufuneka zomelele, ubuncinci emadolweni nasezintendeni;
- kwindawo ekukhupha kuyo, iifisi kufuneka ziphefumule;
- Ipeyinti yelinen kufanele ibe yomelele kwaye ingenzi nto ivumba elimnandi;
- Ukuzibambisa kwiingubo kufuneka zomelele, kodwa ungenzi nto ukuze ungacasuli isikhumba.
Akunjalo, ukuba kuya kuba neemveliso ezifanelekileyo, kwaye iimpahla ziyakucinywa kwimoto. Ukuba ukhangelelanisa kuzo zonke ezi ngqungquthela kunye nemithetho, unokubona ukuba nezambatho ezingabizi zinokuzifanisa.
Ukunxibelelanisana nomnye, abantwana banenkani, kodwa ukusukela ebuntwaneni, inqaku elithi "uphawu" oluncinane lwabafundi bafunda. Ngoko ke, iimpahla zentengiso zifunekayo kunokuba abazali, kwaye kungengenxa yentsana, kwaye ngoko ke, impembelelo kwisimo kunye nentlalo-ntle ayikho ngqo.
Kwinkwenkwe eneminyaka engaphezulu komnyaka omnye, kungcono ukuba ungagqoki izinto ezintsha. Phantse zonke izambatho zezingane eziveliswe kumazwe asithathu ehlabathini zenziwe ngepeyinti, eyingozi kwimpilo. Ngaphambi kokuba iingubo zithunyelwe ukusuka kwimveliso, iphathwa ngeekhemikhali (emathinini). Oku kwenziwa ukwenzela ukuba ingabi sikhula. Iipalati kunye nezilondolozo, njengobuncinci, zingabangela ukuphendulwa komzimba. Kungenxa yoko, ngaphambi kokuba ugqoke iimpahla zentsana, kufuneka ihlambwe ubuncinane kathathu. Nangona oku akuqinisekisi ukuba yonke into iya kukhutshwa. Ubungozi bokuthi izinto eziyingozi ziza kuba ziingubo ezintsha zincinci.
Ngokomzekelo, eAstri ngokuqhelekileyo abazali bathenga iimpahla kwisandla sesibini okanye kwiimarike ezithengisayo. Kwaye oku kwenziwa nakubantu abacebileyo. Impahla yabo ayidlala nendima, nangona kunjalo, yonke indawo kukho abantu abazama ukubonisa ukuba banemali kwaye bathenge iimpahla ezibiza kakhulu.
Imeko eyahluke ngokupheleleyo neentsana zezingane. Uninzi iinkampani ezenza izicathulo zabantwana zenza konke ukwenzela ukuba iinyawo zazo zibe zikhululekile. Emva koko, kubalulekile ukuba imilenze yabantwana ingabi manzi, musa ukuthukuthela, ungafriji - konke oku kufuna iindleko ezinkulu. Iinkampani ezininzi, ngaphezu koko, zisebenzisa i-modern-day, kwaye ngoko ke izinto ezibiza kakhulu. Ngokomzekelo, izicathulo ezineempompo ezinokuphefumula zithandwa kakhulu, ngokubonga kwi-membrane ye-microporous inokubamba kunye nokususa umthamo ongaphezulu, oku kuthetha ukuba umlenze womntwana uya kuhlala umile. Ngoko ke, ukuba sithetha ngezicathulo, abazali abanako ukugcina. Iinqwelo zithengwa ngezinga eliphezulu, zikhululekile kwaye zibiza.