Unokusindisa njani intsapho kwiqhawulo lomtshato?

Bathi kwimihla enzima iintsapho zivavanyelwa amandla. Kodwa ukuba inani leqhawulo lomtshato likhulu nakwixesha elinokuthula, ngoko kwintlekele kwanda ngakumbi! Nangona izibini ezizinzileyo ziqhawule umtshato, zimbalwa nje abantu abanamaqhawe okusinda kwiimeko ezinzima. Amadoda ngokuqhelekileyo athola okungakumbi - asemagxeni abo abajongene nentsapho. Akuyiyo yonke into eya kujongana neengxaki zakhe, ize ikhuphe intsapho kwimeko enzima. Abasetyhini banenkxalabo yokuba ukuqhawula kunye neengxaki akuyi kuba yinto efanayo. Enyanisweni, unako ukugcina umyeni wakho kwintsapho.

Faka isikhundla sakhe

Ngoku abaninzi abantu banqunyulwe emisebenzini yabo, kwaye abo bangakhange banqunyulwe banqunyulwa yimishayo, ibhonasi kunye nezinye iibhonasi ezivela ebomini obudlulileyo. Kwiintsapho zaseRashiya, amadoda athambekele ekufumaneni ngaphezulu, athatha imali ebolekayo enkulu kwaye enoxanduva lwenhlalakahle yentsapho, kakhulu kuxhomekeke kwingeniso yabo. Ukuba umyeni wakho uthintekile ngentlekele, zama ukumqonda - uvakalelwa njani xa eqonda ukuba akakwazi ukugcina umgangatho oqhelekileyo wokuphila kubathandekayo bakhe? Nangona ucinga ukuba akhathaleleki oku, mhlawumbi, oku akunjalo, abantu nje bayazi indlela yokugcina iimvakalelo ngokwabo.

Musa ukugculela umyeni wakhe

Uyaziqonda ngokupheleleyo kwaye ngaphandle kwakho ukuba kufuneka uhlawule iimali-mboleko, ukuba udinga ukugqoka abantwana, ukuzithenga iimathoyizi kunye neencwadi, ukuba ufuna iingubo ezintsha kunye nezantsi. Kodwa ukuba okwangoku into enokuyisebenzisa, indoda ayikwazi ukukunika, musa ukumgxeka. Ukuba awunayo imali eyaneleyo yokuzonwabisa okanye ukunethezeka, cinga ngexesha apho wena ngokwakho unokuba yinkxaso yentsapho? Esikhundleni sokubona umyeni wakhe ngokungapheliyo, kuyafaneleka ukuba uye emsebenzini okanye ufeze ukwanda, ngoko uya kuba lula kakhulu.

Musa ukuvusa

Siyacwangciswa kangangokuthi kwiimeko ezinzima bajwayele ukugxeka ngaphezu kokuzigweba. Ukwahlukana neengxaki kunokubambisana ukuba awuzami ukuzigcina uhamba ngesandla. Zama ukungabi ncokola kakhulu, kungekhona ukukhupha iingxabano. Uyakwazi ukuqonda ukuba yintoni imbangela yangempela yokuxabana okanye ukungabikho kwembonakalo ecacileyo okanye imali. Yenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo kwaye ungavumeli iimeko zibe namandla kunakho.

Hlanganisa kwisisombululo

Ngexesha leengxaki, unokuzijonga ngonaphakade unetyala. Urhulumente, abaphathi, abathengi, amaqabane, abamelwane, umyeni okanye wena-ityala lezinto ezenzekayo unokuxhoma kunoma ubani. Ukuba umtshato ungabandakanywa kwizicwangciso zakho, zama kunoko ukunikela isisombululo esakhayo kwingxaki. Ukuqiqa ngokucokisekileyo, indlela yokuzola kule meko iza kukunceda uzive ukuba yonke into inokutshatyalaliswa kwaye ekugqibeleni iya kutshintshwa.

Gcina imali

Okumangalisayo kukuba, nangethuba leengxaki, abafazi abakulungele ukugcina kwiimfuno zabo. Abaninzi banqwenela ukuya kwiivenkile zokurhweba, bembatha izinto zabaqulunqi abadumileyo, baphumule kwiindawo zokurhweba ezivelele. Ubunzima bexeshana bangela ukuba oku kufikeleleke. Ukuba awufuni ukuzisa ityala ekuqhawuleni umtshato, zama ukubala ngokufanelekileyo uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali. Uya kuncedwa ngokucwangcisa ukucwangcisa, ukutshintsha kwimveliso engancinci nezinto, ukuyeka ixesha elithile unokuyenza ngaphandle. Ngokomzekelo, ungathengisa imoto eninzi kwaye uthenge imoto engabizi, kwaye umehluko kwixabiso lokubambisa imali mboleko, ukuba awukho ngokupheleleyo, ngoko uninzi lwayo. Unokungafuni ukuthenga iimpahla zokugqoka kwaye ukhangele izinto ezingabizi. Ukutya kunokuthengwa kwiimarike ezithengiswayo. Makuvumeleke ukuba konke oku kuhambelane, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba le miqathango yesikhashana eya kukunceda ukunyamezela ngexesha apho izibini ezininzi ziqhawule umtshato.

Ngenxa yentsapho siyakwazi okuninzi. Ukuba eso sibini sidibaniswe nento engaphezulu kwimeko eqhelekileyo yokuthuthuzela, ngoko ngamnye wabo uya kuba nomdla kwinto yokuqhawula kunye neengxaki ezithinteleyo yintsapho. Oku kufuna umonde omkhulu, ubulumko, ukuzimisela ukuncedana kunye nokwenza ukuvunyelwana. Ekugqibeleni, amaxesha anzima aya kuphelisa, kwaye uya kukwazi ukugcina into ebaluleke kakhulu unayo - intsapho.