Namhlanje, ama-tattoos amnandi emzimbeni womfazi ayengummiselo nje, kodwa kunye nendlela yokuqala yokuzibonakalisa. Akuzange kube njalo. Ukususela ekudalweni kwakhona kwalobu bugcisa, isimo sengqondo esithintekayo kwisini esingathandanga kunye ne tattoos sitshintshile kakhulu.
Kwixesha elide kubafazi abanobugcisa, uluntu lwalubi, abafazi abanjalo babetyala kakhulu. Ukubona umfazi onomdwebo omuhle wobuciko, uluntu lumbeka njengoluhlu olungafaniyo noluntu, kunye nabagcini bemilinganiselo, loo mfazi watyhola. Kule minyaka eyi-10 edluleyo, ukunyaniseka okuhambisana neettoti kuye kwabuthathaka kakhulu, kwaye ubugcisa bokubhala tattoo bufikelele kumgangatho omtsha. Mhlawumbi oku kuchaza ukuba kutheni ezitrato kwakukho abantu abaninzi abafazi abanezato, nangona ngoku kutshanje kwakungenakwenzeka. Ukuxhaphaka kwamathambo phakathi kwabesetyhini kwakuncediswa yiinkwenkwezi zokubonisa ishishini.
Inani lamaninzi awaziwayo, iimvumi kunye neentsimbi zibonisa iidotto zabo kuluntu, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kunye neenkcukacha zithetha ngentsingiselo yamathambo. Oku kukungenangqiqo kwabesifazane abadumile abaye bachithela ingcamango echaseneyo yabasetyhini abaneempawu eziqhelekileyo, kunye nesizathu sokuba kutheni isigxina esihle sabantu sifuna ukuzihlobisa ngamathambo. Ngokuqhelekileyo kwimizimba yabasetyhini, ama-tattoos amahle abonwa njengento yokuhlobisa.
Indlela amadoda aphatha ngayo ama-tattoos kubasetyhini
Abathandi 'bodumo obungunaphakade' bafanele bazi indlela amadoda abavakalelwa ngayo ngemihlobiso enjalo kubasetyhini. Ngokutsho kophando phakathi kwabantu, ngelishwa, baninzi balabo abanoluvo olulandelayo malunga nomfazi onobumba:
- wayesezindaweni ezingaqhelekanga;
- ungummeli wobugcisa bamandulo;
- ungumthandi wobulili obufanayo.
Ngelishwa, loo mbutho ekuboneni itekotsi yowesifazane ixesha elide iya kuba seengqondweni zamadoda kunye nabasetyhini. Amadoda acinga ukuba nangona umfazi osemncinci unako "ukunyamezela" itekisi, kodwa kumfazi omdala ukhangeleka. Ukongezelela, phakathi kwabantu kukho ingcamango - "tattoo ebusweni." I tattoo ayikho "ubuso" bubonakala bubi. Oku kubhekisela kwisiteyhini somfazi-indlela aziphatha ngayo, okokuba unesimo sezenhlalakahle, okokuthi, tattoo kufuneka ihambelane "ngokufanayo" kunye nencoko ye ntombazana.
Ngokubhekiselele kumathambo kumabhinqa phakathi kwamadoda kukho iingcinga ezintathu.
- Kodwa, ngokufanelekileyo, "kungcono ukunqaba." Amadoda anesimo esihle sengqondo ngamathambo kumabhinqa ambalwa kakhulu. Apha, umbono ochanekileyo uphelelwe ziintlobano zesini. Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba abantu abanoluvo bavame ukucinga ngamathambo abesifazana akusiyo yonke into engabonakaliyo, umzekelo, ukuba ixhalabisa "abafazi ngokubanzi", inokuba yinto enhle, kwaye ukuba ngumbuzo "wabo othandekayo", ngoko ke umbono ungatshintsha. Lo mgaqo uchazwa yinto yokuba umfanekiso kumzimba wesetyhini uthatha ingqwalasela eninzi, kubandakanyeka kwesini esahlukileyo. I tattoo efanelekileyo kunye nehle kumntwana oqhelekileyo (okanye ongaqhelekanga) ukhuthaza umcabango womntu, ngaloo ndlela kubangele ukuncoma. Inengxaki kumfazi otshatileyo ukuba axubushe kunye nomlingane wakhe ithuba lokubhala tattoo emzimbeni wakhe.
- Indawo kunye nobukhulu becala. Xa abantu bebuzwa ukuba bathanda imizimba emzimbeni womfazi, abaninzi baphendule: kuxhomekeke kwindawo apho ikhona kwaye kukuphi ubungakanani. Amadoda amaninzi afana namathambo angabonakaliyo, amancinci, ngoko kungcono ukunqaba amaninzi amakhulu. Ngokuphathelele indawo ye tattoo, amadoda acinga ukuba indawo eziphambili kakhulu ziyi-collarbone, i-ankle, inqeni, i-scapula, i-cow, intamo. Kodwa kwiphepha lebhinqa itekisi enkulu ibonakala ingabonakali. Kubalulekile ukuphawula kunye nokuba amadoda (nangona ayengabo bonke) ayithandi ukuba kukho amabini angama-tattoos emzimbeni womfazi.
- Into ephambili kukuba umntu kufuneka abe ngileyo. Le ngcamango yenziwa ngamadoda awanandaba namathambo kumzimba wesifazane. Kubantu abanjalo, umzobo awuyiyo isambatho sesondo, okanye i-stigma, okanye indlela yokuthetha; nokuba kunjalo, ukuba itottoo yenziwe kakubi kwaye / okanye kwindawo engaphumeleli, inokuyenza i-phlegmatic. Kuba amadoda anjalo ngaphambili, intombazana ngokwayo-umlingiswa wakhe, ukuziphatha kwakhe, kunye ne-tattoo kuphela.