Uninzi lwethu sizama ukuhlukana nokuphila kwethu ngokwesini. Kodwa yintoni enokwenziwa xa zonke izikhundla ezaziwayo sele zihlolwe, akukho xesha lokufunda ezintsha ezintsha, kodwa akunakuthandabuzi izinto ezintsha? Indlela efanelekileyo yokuvuselela ubuhlobo kukuvumela umntu wakho acinge ngendlela entsha. Amadoda nje athande umdlalo odlala indima ebhedini ezimbini. Kufanelekile ukukhangela.
Akukho mfuneko yokuphazamiseka, khanyela okanye uthi le nto yinto encinci - ayikhathazi mntu, kodwa unganqandwa kuphela. Yiya kwisitolo sezesondo uze ukhangele kwi-costume enkulu yezonxibo abayinikezelayo-ukusuka kwintombazana engenacala kwinqanaba le-female. Kutheni, ucinga ntoni? Ngenxa yokuba imfuno idala ukubonelela. Ngoko unikezele wakho umthandayo oko akufunayo. Emva koko, siza kuthetha malunga neyiphi indima yezesondo abantu abakhethayo kwaye kutheni.
1. Umfundi okanye umfundi
Ungamangaleli umthandwa wakho nge-pedophilia. Khumbula, ezi zidlala imidlalo nje, kwaye kungeyona imeko yobomi boqobo. Inyaniso kukuba xa abafana beba selula, ama-hormone aqala ukuthukuthela emzimbeni. Ngelo xesha, amantombazana awanakulungele ngokupheleleyo "ubudlelwane" bokwakha ubudlelwane kunye neontanga zabo. Indalo edlalwa kunye nabo ngokukhawuleza. Izitho zabo zesini zikhula ngokukhawuleza kunedatha yengqondo. Baziva isidingo sesondo ngaphandle komnqweno wokunyamekela, ngaphandle kwamava okuthandana kunye neemvakalelo. Emva koko, xa indoda isele ifikelele ekuvuthweni, uyaqaphela ukuba ufuna ukuzalisa isithuba ngokwemigaqo yokuthandana nentombazana.
Esinye isizathu sokufuna ukubona iqabane lakho kule nxaxheba li nokuba lusizo lwazo zihlandlo xa yonke into yayisanda kuqala. Xa ubuhle, ubuhle kunye neengxaki, kwaye ngendlela efana nentombazana.
2. Umqhubi okanye utitshala
Ngaba uye wakha wazibuza ukuba kutheni phantse yonke imifanekiso yesithathu ye-movie ebushushu, abesetyhini baboniswa ngomfanekiso wothandana onobucayi kunye nokopaza? Yonke into isasaza kwizengqondo. Utitshala osemncinci udla ngokuba yintando yokuqala yesikolo yenkwenkwana. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ifihliwe kwaye i-platonic. Ukongezelela, ngamanye amaxesha indoda ifuna ukubandakanyeka ngesondo esinomdla kunye notitshala, okuwuhlobo lokuziphindezela kumabakala amabi awayebekwe kuye. Kodwa oku kwenzeka kancinci. Hlela isondo "sesikolo" ebhedini amabini kwaye uya kufumana ukuzonwabisa kwangaphambili.
Ibhinqa lorhwebo okanye i-vamp-woman
Kungaba yinto engaqhelekanga ukuba loo nto ibhinqa elingabonakaliyo, ngamanye amaxesha nokuba ngumfazi wesifazane, linqweneleka kakhulu kwindoda yindoda. Kutheni oku kwenzekayo? Kulula. Indoda ngokwemvelo - ngumzingeli. Kwaye uqonda umfazi njengexhoba. Okubunzima kakhulu ukukhutshwa, kuyinto enqwenelekayo ngakumbi. Emva koko, uya kuvuma, yintoni inomdla ekudutsheni amadada angazami ukuba aphephe? Ngoko ke umfazi onamandla, olawulayo, ongenakufikeleleka, okufuneka ukuba anqobe, aphephe kwaye uza kuba ngumdlali ongcono kakhulu.
Abanye oogqirha beengqondo bakholelwa ukuba le fantasy ifunyanwe phakathi kwindoda elahlekileyo. Abo bangaphumelelanga nantoni na ebomini bokwenene, zama ukuphumelela kwiingcamango zabo nokuphupha ngokulala ngesondo. Kodwa oku akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, kukufanelekile ukuzama ukuguqula ubuhle obubi ebhedeni. Ukwabelana ngesondo kuya kumangalisa.
4. Nobhala okanye umqeshwa
Amadoda athanda ukuyala abafazi-bobabini ebomini nasemsebenzini. Kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo oku kubandakanya ukubusa kwezesondo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba indoda igcine iinjongo zayo ize iqhoqele umfazi ukuba enze oko afuna kakhulu kwisondo.
Xa indoda ikhetha ibhinqa-umntu ongaphantsi okanye unobhala, akaqwalasele kuphela iimpawu zakhe zobungcali. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha akayi kubaphulaphula. Ngoko amahlaya angenangqiqo malunga nabalobi kunye nabaphathi bavame ukuba nezizathu ezingakumbi. Kodwa kukho enye impendulo - kungekhona ngaso sonke isikhathi umphathi unalo ithuba lokulala nomqeshwa wakhe. Emva koko, akubona wonke umntu ulungele ukwenza "oku" ngomvuzo okanye ibhonasi. Kukho abafazi abaziqhenyayo abangakwaziyo oku. Kodwa iingcamango kwintloko yentloko zikhona, kwaye akayi kucinga ukulahlekelwa lo mcimbi kunye nomfazi wakhe. Iimidlalo ezidlala indima eziqhelekileyo kwaye zinomdla kumadoda.
5. Unesi okanye ugqirha
Omnye wemanani omdaniso ofunekayo kwiiklabhu zokuhluba ngumhlengikazi onomtsalane kwiphronta emfutshane. Le ndoda ingathengwa kuyo nayiphi na ivenkile yesondo. Ngaba uye wakha wazibuza ukuba kuvela njani into emnandi? Kutheni iqabane lakho lifuna ukukubona kule nxaxheba?
Abasebenzi bezibhedlele bahlala bexhamla nentlungu. Yingakho umntu efuna ukubona umfanekiso ochasene noogqirha. Kwizinto ezinjalo, umongikazi uthi: "Thatha iingubo zakho!" Akunakunjengova obuhlungu, kodwa ukunika umntu into eyonwabileyo. Zininzi iindlela zokudlala udokotela kunye nesigulane. Ngokomzekelo, umfanekiso oqaqambileyo ngumfanekiso wesokazi wamazinyo. Vumela umntu wakho ahlale esihlalweni, kwaye uhlola umlomo wakhe, uthinte isifuba sakhe esifubeni. Kwaye ngokukhawuleza ushushu kwaye uqala ngokukhawuleza ukungaxubulisi i-blouse, uqhubeke noviwo. Ewe, phuhlisa enye imeko. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, indoda yakho iya kuba yindoda ngawe.
6. Umphathi
Ayaziwa ukuba ngaba izifundo ziqhutywe ngesihloko esithi: "Yiyiphi ipesenti yamadoda ehamba ngeenqwelo zephupha zamaphupha abagadi beentaba". Akwazanga ukuba yintoni inani elifanelekileyo labantu abaye batyelelwa ngolo hlobo lweengcamango. Kodwa siyazi nje ukuba kukho amadoda amaninzi. Uninzi, ukugweba ngokuqhubekayo kubasebenzi bezabelo kwiintengiso zesini. Kwaye akumangalisi. Nangona kunjalo, iifom zezesondo, iimilenze ezincinci kunye nokumamatheka kwamantombazana athandekayo ahamba ngokugqithiseleyo phezu kwekhampani yendiza, ekulungele ukuwanelisa nayiphi na iinqwenela-iphupha lamadoda amaninzi. Kwaye ukuzimisela ukuzalisekisa zonke iimfuno (ngokuqinisekileyo, ngaphakathi kwemida yamandla) akunakwenzeka kodwa kubangele ukucabana ngesondo.
7. I- Waitress
Kwengqondo, umnqweno womntu ukuba abe nomfazi ngesimo se-waitress ufanelana ngokupheleleyo nomfanekiso wegosa. Jonga ngokwakho - ukumomotheka okumnandi, iingubo ezimfutshane, iikhati ezinqamlekileyo, zihlala zihamba kunye ne-neckline enzulu. Kwaye konke oku kwongezelela umnqweno wokuba luncedo kwaye ukwanelisa zonke izifiso. Ewe, luhlobo luni lomntu oluya kumelana nomnqweno wokuba ubuncinane kanye kunye nomfazi onjalo?
Ukuba ibhinqa inika umntu ukuba enze konke akufunayo (kule meko - into eya kuyenza), ngoko ngokuzenzekelayo ibe yinto ebalulekileyo kuye. Kubonakala apha kubalulekile. Kodwa kungabalulekanga. Kwimeko ye-waitress yekhanuko, uyongezelela ukuba le ndoda ihlala ingeyona nto ingcolileyo, ixoxe naye. Unokuba yinto enqwenelekayo kumntu wakho njengomgcini we-waitress ngaphandle kokusebenzisa ukusela. Nangona, isilazi esithandanayo sewayini elungileyo kwaye asiyithintelo.
8. Intombi
Mhlawumbi, abaninzi benu nibonile i-movie "uNksz Maid" kunye noJennifer Lopez enendima yendima. Ewe, ininzi amadoda iphupha ngamantombazana anjalo kwiihotele ezithengisayo, kwaye ingabi ngabafazi asebekhulile kwihotele yezenhlalakahle, ngokufana nehostele.
Umnqweno wokulala ngesicatshulwa unokuchazwa, njengokuba kunobhala wenobhala. Ngenxa yokuba le ntokazi ikhoboka, likhokelwa ngesiqubulo esithi "umthengi uhlala efanelekileyo". Uzalisekisa iimfuno zomntu ngaphandle kombuzo, usebenza ukukholisa. Inyaniso ngamanye amaxesha, xa indoda ibona indlela ikhupha ngayo phantsi kombhede, imfihlelo iyanyamalala ngokukhawuleza. Ngamanye amagama, amadoda ayayithanda xa intombazana yenza okuthile ngokwemiyalelo yakhe. Kodwa ukwenjenjalo kufuneka abe mnandi kunye no-sexy. Ukuba ufuna ukusebenzisa indima yintombazana kwimidlalo yakho yokudlala indima ebhedini amabini, musa ukuphelisa ukutshisa uthuli okanye ukuhlamba izitya. Unokuzisela ukuphuza umntu "egumbini" okanye utshintshe ukulala kwakhe.
9. Ikhoboka okanye isancinza
Le nto ifana nemifanekiso yombhali, intombi, umgcini okanye umphathi. Kuphela, ngelixa kwezinye iimeko, abafazi banelisekile ukuzalisekisa umnqweno womxhasi, apha akakwazi ukukhetha.
Kule ndima, ibhinqa liboshwe okanye liboshwe. Kwiintengiso zesini zesondo ezikhethekileyo zithengiswa, ngoncedo apho unokulubopha "ikhoboka" lakho embhedeni. Uqala ukumelana, kwaye ngokuthobela uyazalisekisa zonke iimfuno 'zakhe.'
Akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi umntu onomdangalo onjalo-umntu onobuhlungu kunye nomtyholi. Uyindoda nje, unesondo esomeleleyo, kwaye umfazi ekuqondeni kwakhe unobuthakathaka, ungaphantsi kwintando yakhe. Ukuba kungenjalo ngokuzithandela, ngoko ke unyanzelekile. Yimidlalo nje yokudlala indima - akufanele uqhube kwizengqondo. Hlaziya kwaye ujabule.
10. I ngelosi
Ewe, kukho umfanekiso onjalo kwimidlalo yesondo ezimbini. Idibene nenkolelo ye "siqhamo esinqatshelwe". Ingelosi yinto engabonakaliyo, ecocekileyo engenzi lutho ngesondo. Ngako oko, umnqweno wokwenza into enqatshelwe ihlala ihlala kwindawo ephantsi kwindoda. Ngezesondo zolu hlobo aluyi kuba nobundlobongela nobudenge. Indoda iya kucosa ingelosi ngokuthobeka kunye nengqiqo, iya kuvuya nobudlelwane obusondeleyo naye, oko kukuthi, kule ngxaki, kunye nawe.
Ngokucacileyo, akunakunzima ukuzisa iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zobomi bakho bobulili. Kufuneka uvumele ukuhamba kwimizobo yakho kwaye ulahle iintloni. Yiba ngowokuqala ukunika umntu ukuba abe neento ezintsha kwizesondo. Uya kuxabisa isibindi sakho kunye nokuzonwabisa kwakho embhedeni akuyi kuba nemida.