Imibala yomona.
Abanye bafanisa ubukhwele nangokwemvelo - ngamanye amaxesha akunakwenzeka ukuba balwe nayo, njengokuba umntu akanako ukungafuni ukubonisa umqondo wokuzimela. Kodwa kulufanelekile ukwazi isitha kumntu ngaphambi kokuqala ukumlwa naye.
Loo nto ingcinezelo, njengomona. Oko sikufumanayo, ngokungathi ihlabathi lonke lifanele libe yedwa kuthi, libizwa ngokuba ngumona omnyama. Isiva esisishukumisela ukuba sifinyelele kwiindawo eziphakamileyo, ukuba umnqweno wokuba ungabi mbi kunabanye, umona omhlophe. Enyanisweni, iingqondo zeengqondo zikholelwa ukuba ezo zigaba kwaye zithi umona awunomnyama nomhlophe, unokulawulwa kwaye awulawulwa.
Okubizwa ngokuba ngumona omnyama kubonakala kubantu abaninzi, abanye bahlushwa iminyaka, abanye badlula ngokukhawuleza, njengotshani. Kwiintlobo ezininzi kuxhomekeke kumlingiswa, ngomnqweno wokuzimela ozimele kwaye ukhululekileyo, ekukwazi ukufezekisa iinjongo ezibekwe kunye neqondo lokuzineliseka ngokwakho. Kuyabonakala ukuba abantu abonwabileyo kunye nabantu abanenjongo, ukuthatha amanyathelo ekufezekiseni le njongo, abanamathuba amaninzi okufumana umona omnye omnyama. Ukuba uvumela ukuhamba ngomona uze uyeke ukulawula, ungaphuthelwa ixesha elithile elixabisekileyo onokuyisebenzisa ekuphuculeni ubomi bakho.
Ukuba isiphumo somntu kunye nempumelelo yomntu siyakukholisisa ngokwaneleyo ukuba siyazixelele ukuba sifuna ukufezekisa into efanayo ukuba silungele ukulwa kwaye sizame oku, le ntliziyo ingabizwa ngokuba yindlela yokudala. Nantoni na emile emva kwayo, isishukumisela ukuba sibe neenjongo ezilungileyo.
Indlela yokujongana nomona?
Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukufumanisa ukuba ngubani okanye ngubani owenza imbango kunye nokuba kutheni. Umona akazalwanga ngokukhawuleza. Kuvela kuphela kwiimeko xa sibhekene nobunqongophala obunzima kwinto ethile, umzekelo, othandweni okanye ngemali, awukwazi ukufezekisa oko ufuna, kodwa siyayibona eninzi. Okanye kubonakala ngathi siyabona. Into yokuqala efuna ukuba yenziwe kulo mzekelo kukuvuma ukuba unomona, kwaye ungacasuli ngenye into.
Ukuqwalaselwa kweempazamo zakhe kunemiphumo enamandla kakhulu yokwelapha. Okokuqala, lunolwazi oluchanekileyo, kwaye ulwazi, njengoko uyaziyo, lulawula ihlabathi. Okwesibini, liyinyathelo lokuzixolela ngeemvakalelo ezinjalo kwaye uzivumele ukuba ube yinto oyiyo. Ukongezelela, ukuqonda umona, bambalwa abanqwenela ukulahla le ntliziyo.
Emva koko misela ngokunyanisekileyo izizathu zokuba nomona. Akubonakali ukususela ekuqaleni. Ngoko, awunakho okwaneleyo kwinto enalo mntu. Mhlawumbi impumelelo, ithemba, ukubonakala okanye enye into. Into ephambili kweli nqanaba kukubona ukuba akukho nto engenakwenzeka kwaye yintoni into enomona, inokuba nayo. Kwaye mhlawumbi kungabi yiyo-konke kuxhomekeke ekubeni unzima kangakanani umgudu owenzayo ukufezekisa injongo. Ngelo xesha, umntu akufanele azame ukuphazamisa ubomi bomntu okanye ukuthatha umntu onoyolo lonwabo akayongezeli kuyo, kodwa iingxaki kunye neemvakalelo zecala azixhomekekanga. Ngoko ke, kuyimfuneko ukuqondisa amandla kumzila wezoxolo, oko kukuthi, ukuzithuthukisa.
Ukuba umnqweno wokuba nesimo esifanayo, isapho esonwabileyo , isikhundla esiphezulu, njengomntu onamandla ngokwenene, unokukwazi ukunqoba ngokukhawuleza zonke ubunzima ukuze ufezekise oku. Kodwa kuya kwenzeka nokuba kwinkqubo uza kuqonda ukuba uphonsela iinjongo zobuxoki, ukuba ngokwenene ufuna into eyahlukileyo, eyakho, kungekhona into eyenza ulonwabo lwabanye. Musa ukuphelelwa lithemba, kuba uhlala ubomi bakho ngaphandle kokujonga abanye - yiyo inkululeko kunye nesiqinisekiso sokonwaba.
Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba umona ufumaneke ngamaxesha ngamaxesha onke ngabantu. abo bathi bathobileyo imizwa enjalo, njengomthetho, bengenalo. Izwi elithi intlami yommelwane ihlala ilungileyo iveliswa ize kwaye isebenza kwalabo bantu ababonakala benakho konke abanokukuphupha. Ngoko musa ukuyinkimbinkimbi. Kwaye ulwe nantoni na eyenza ungakhathazeki. Imvakalelo engebiyo inokuthi ilawulwe phantsi kwintando kwaye izuze inzuzo.