Abafazi abaninzi banomdla kumbuzo wokukhulelwa kwiminyaka engama-40 kwaye kuyingozi kangakanani na?
Iingcali ezifanelekileyo ziqwalasela ixesha eliphambili kunye elikhuselekileyo lokukhulelwa umntwana, lixesha eliyiminyaka engama-20 ukuya kwe-24. Kodwa ngeli xesha akukho maninzi amabhinqa alungele ukuthatha uxanduva lokuba ngumama. Abanye besetyhini, abaneminyaka yobudala engama-50-60-yeeyasekuqaleni kwekhulu elidlulileyo ngeli xesha, beziva ngathi bentombazana, kwaye ayengowesifazane ozele ngokupheleleyo. Olu tshintsho kwingqondo yowesifazane lithetha ukuba abafazi baya kukhula ngokomoya emva kweminyaka eyi-10 emva kokuba bafikelele kwinani lokukhulelwa. Kuze kube ngoku, kunokuthiwa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ibhinqa elakhulelwa kuqala kwi-35 ubudala lingekho engozini.
Iingcali zenzululwazi zithi umfazi oye wagcina impilo enempilo eneminyaka engama-40 ubudala, ukuba akazange abe neengxaki zomzimba kwaye akayena mfazi ongeyinyumba, ngoko unako ukuphakama okukhulu ukuba umntwana ozayo uya kuba nempilo, njengowesifazane obeletha eneminyaka engama-20.
Ukukhulelwa kwisithuba seminyaka engama-40 ayikwazi ukukhuseleka ngokupheleleyo kwaye kugqibelele, kodwa umngcipheko awunjalo kakhulu njengabasetyhini bacinga ngako, kwaye kwiimeko ezininzi unobungozi bunokuncitshiswa. Kule minyaka, kukho umngcipheko weengxaki ezinxulumene ne-fibroids kunye ne-endometriosis.
Nangona kunjalo, zonke ezi mngcipheko zingancitshiswa xa uceba ukukhulelwa kwangaphambili, ulungise ifom yezinto eziqhelekileyo, ulungele impilo okanye i-gymnastics, njl njl.
Ngexesha leveki zokuqala ezili-12 zokukhulelwa, ikusasa lomntwana lenza zonke izitho ezisisiseko. Iingcali ezifanelekileyo zikholelwa ukuba ngeli thuba elizayo umntwana oza kutshabalala kwaye ukuba ngeli xesha le ntokazi ekhulelweyo iya kudla ngokufanelekileyo, ungathathi iziyobisi, ungabhemki, usebenzise i-gymnastics, uthathe ubunzima bevithamini eziyimfuneko kubamama abalindeleyo, ngoko ke amathuba kwixesha lokukhulelwa okuqhelekileyo kunye nokuzalwa komntwana onempilo kuya kwandisa amaxesha amaninzi. Kodwa kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba kukho inqununu yokuchasana kwi-gymnastics yezobugcisa.
Ukuba ibhinqa ngokufanelekileyo livavanya umlinganiselo wengozi, kuya kunceda kakhulu umfazi oneminyaka engama-40 ukunciphisa uxinzelelo, oku kunokubangela iingxaki ngexesha lokubeletha. Ukuba umfazi okhulelweyo ucinga ukuba uyagula okanye uya kugula, ngoko unako ukugula, ngenxa yokuba iimvakalelo ezinamandla zingabangela ukuba utshintsho lwezinto eziphilayo lugqithise umzimba wethu. Ukuba umfazi oneminyaka engama-40 yokuqala uzimisele ukuzala umntwana, ngoko ukuba iimpawu zokuqala zokukhulelwa kweengxaki zokukhulelwa zivela, kufuneka adibanise nangoko ugqirha.
Kukho inani leenzuzo zokukhulelwa kwimpilo kamva. Abasetyhini abagqibe ekubeni ngumama banokulungele ukukhulelwa, ukubeletha nokukhulisa umntwana.
Kukho ubungqina bobunzululwazi bokuthi abafazi abakhulileyo abaxhomekeke ekuhambeni kwengqondo ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwaye banqabile ukuba bangqubana neengxabano zangaphakathi. Kwiminyaka emashumi mane, abafazi bayaqeqeshwa ngakumbi kwaye ubomi babo buya kulungiswa.