Ukuthanda umlingo - abantu abaninzi nje ibinzana elihle. Nangona kunjalo, kukho abanye abathanda imilingo okungaphezulu kwegama elingabonakaliyo. Kuzo zihamba ngokuzimeleyo, izenzo ezithe ngqo, amagama athile kunye nezenzo, ngokubanzi, isikhokelo sokufumana amanyathelo okukhonkco. Ngoko yintoni imilingo yothando?
Ngokuqonda okuqhelekileyo ngomlingo wothando, unokuthetha ngezinto ezinjengeenkathazo zentliziyo ngamazwi athi "Ndiyakuthanda", malunga nobubele, ububele kunye nobubele. Ngendlela onokulibala ngayo ukuba lonke ihlabathi likhoyo. Ngexesha elincinci, umzekelo, ukubetha iinwele, ukumbumbana, ukuxhaphaza izandla, kukunika uluhlu olubanzi lweemvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo. Yaye xa umntu wakho ekhupha isisithi esisodwa esithi: "Ndicinga ngalewe namhlanje," uyaqonda ukuba lo ngumlingo woqobo, umlingo. Ngothando, iindinyana kunye neengoma zenziwe, ukunyangwa okupheleleyo kubhaliweyo, kwaye ukuthanda amava kuchazwa kwiminyaka eminyaka. Iimvakalelo ezinxulumene nolwalamano lunokuba luncedo kwaye lunandipha. Kodwa ba no kunkwantya. Umzekelo, ulwalamano oluphakanyisiwe olukhawulezileyo alupheli kwaye lushiye luchithekile kwaye lungonwabanga. Okanye bayaphula intliziyo, bangela intlungu enokuzifunela ukufa. Nangona kunjalo, ixesha elibi alinakusivimba kumava amatsha kunye nokubandakanyeka kwihlabathi elimangalisayo lothando. Kwaye kufika umlingo wobubele bothando.
Kodwa ukuba uninzi lwaziyeka nje ukuthanda ukungaphumeleli, oku akunakutsholwa ngabantu bonke. Sonke siyazi iingcamango zothando ngopelo, uceba, upelo. Kwaye oku sele kusebenza kumsebenzi ohluke ngokupheleleyo kunokuba yintoni incoko eya kuyo. Akusiyo imfihlelo yokuba kukho abantu abazibiza ngokuba ngabalumkani, abahlaziyi, nabathakathi kunye nabathakathi, abathembisa ukunceda nakweyiphi na imeko, kuquka iidrama zothando. Kanye kunye neentetho ezibhiyozela iimvakalelo kunye nokuthandana, amaphecana ancedo ekufumaneni umthandwa wakho, ukugcina uxolo kwintsapho, ukubuyisela "isiqingatha" sabo, ukuzalisekisa isifiso sothando, nabo bayathandwa. Kwaye konke oku kufumaneka ngokusebenzisa ubunzima okanye ukungabonakalisi kakhulu, ukuthetha okanye ezinye iindlela ezifanelekileyo. Iintlobo zezixhobo ezinjalo zihlukeneyo kwaye zininzi, kwaye imisebenzi enokuthi iyenziwe ingababugqirha abaye bahlanganyela kulo lonke ubomi babo, kunye nabantu abaqhelekileyo abaye baqhelana nokuchasana kwezenzo ezifunekayo okanye iintsimbi. Ungasebenzisa i-tarot, i-astrology, palmistry, iifoto okanye ezinye izifundo kunye neendlela. Kwimbali kunye neencwadi, kukho imimiselo emininzi yokuthanda umlingo, umzekelo, ibali likaTristan kunye ne-Isolde, abaye banambitha iimboli zothando. Nangona kunjalo, abaninzi baxwayisa ngempembelelo enobungozi bomlingo bobabini kwisifundo soqhinga, kwaye kumntu, lo msebenzi uzalisekisa. Imiphumo ingaba yincinci, kodwa ingaba yingozi, ukusuka kwiingxaki zempilo ukuya kwiziphumo ezibulalayo.
Mhlawumbi kuya kuza imini xa inkqubela phambili yezobuchwepheshe iya kwenza enye i-qualitative leap kunye nokuba yiyiphi embalwa namhlanje evakalelwa kwaye iyazi (ukuyibiza ngomlingo, ubugqirha okanye i-extrasensory) iya kufumaneka kuwo wonke umntu. Namhlanje, umlingo uhlukile kwiimigaqo, ukukhubazeka. Ngako oko, akuqhelekanga ukuba umlingo wothando ungaphumeleli umsebenzi, owenza abahlali abangathembekiyo. Iimpazamo ziyakwazi ukuphepheka, kuba imigaqo ebalulekileyo yeengcamango ezongezelelweyo ziyi-terra incognita. Yingakho akufanele usebenzise ukungaqiniseki kwakhona. Ukuba wenza isigqibo esinjalo, phinda uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphumelele, mhlawumbi usemandleni akho ukutshintsha imeko ngaphandle kokusebenzisa iindlela zokukhawuleza ezisongela ubomi bakho besikhathi esizayo. Emva kwakho konke, ukuthanda umlingo akugcini nje ngamacandelwana, iimboli kunye neentsimbi; Kwakhona umdlalo, iintlanganiso, iingxoxo, ukudibanisa, izenzo - zonke izinto ezisetyenziswe ngabasetyhini ngeenkulungwane kangangokuthi banqobe amadoda abo. Kwaye zonke iindlela ezifunekayo zokupasa ngothando, esandleni sesini ngasinye esilungileyo: ilanga likhanya, imilomo eluhlaza, izandla ezithambileyo, ukuxhalabisa kunye nokunye okuninzi.