Ngelishwa, umntu akahambisani nemiyalelo malunga nendlela yokusebenzisa ngayo, ngoncedo lokuba ubani unokuqonda oko akuvakalelwayo ngomnye nomnye. Kodwa kusekho ezinye iindlela zokuqonda ukuba ngubani owaba okanye unomdla kuye. Umhla wokuzalwa - enye yezinto ezizimisela ukuziphatha komntu othandweni - zingabonakalisa kumntu lowo mntu untle, uninzi lwamaqiniso anokwazi. Kwaye, mhlawumbi, ncedise ukuqonda iimvakalelo zakho.
Ingonyama ibonakaliso elimangalisayo le-zodiac.
Zingaphi iimvakalelo eziphakamileyo kunye neemvakalelo ezinokuzibandakanya kwiileta ezintathu ezilula, ezifanekisela ubukumkani phezu kwayo yonke into kunye nayo yonke into. Ingonyama yindoda ingommeli oqaqambileyo wesigxina esomeleleyo somphakathi, esabonakala, esithintela intliziyo yeso silingo esinzima kakhulu. Kwaye inkunzi yengonyama ethandweni yintambo yangempela yezenzo ezingenakulinganiswa, ukupha ngesimo esiphezulu kunye nomboniso osebenzayo ngokwaloo mntu ukhethiweyo.
Yintoni eyenza ukuziphatha kwengonyama ngothando - amadoda?
Enyanisweni, unxanxanco lokuthandana, ukuvakalelwa, ukumangaliswa kunye nokuthanda u-narcissism. Kuye, iziqhelo eziqhelekileyo zamabhinqa zilahlekelwa ngqiqo, kuba umona - eyona nto ibangela ukuziphatha komntu othandweni, ozalwa phantsi kwesi sibonakaliso. Izenzo zakhe zinjengezinto ezikhethiweyo ezivela kwiimangalo, izipho kunye neentlungu ezibuhlungu. Ingonyama ethandweni inokufika lula kumthandi wakhe nanini na imini yomini okanye ubusuku kunye nenkampani yabahlobo nje ukuba umkhumbuze ukuba kukho umntu onobuhle, onqabileyo, onobungqingili noqhayisa emhlabeni. Kwaye mhlawumbi iphela yiveki, ngaphandle kwesixwayiso malunga nohambo oluya kubazali kwesinye isixeko kwaye singaphenduli kuyo nayiphi na ifowuni, emva koko ekubhekiselele kwinto yokuba ifowuni ikhutshwe, yafakwa kwimodi "engathuliyo" okanye ngokubanzi yayikhohliwe ngempumelelo phantsi komlenze. Yaye unako ukuzisa umntu wakhe okhethiweyo kwinkampani aze ayibale ngokugqithiseleyo ubukho bakhe, ngokumjonga ngokuzama ukuzongamela abahlobo bakhe. Enyanisweni, ukuba enye yale mizamo iphumelela, umhlobo ongenakuphumelela uya kushiya inkampani yebhubesi indoda ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye nangona ngokukhawuleza i-heartthrob ekhethiweyo yintombi-in-love iya kuba yinto efanayo, kwaye uthando lwakhe luya kuphelela ngokupheleleyo - kunye nomhlobo onjalo ingonyama indoda ayinakuqala ukuseka ubuhlobo obufudumele.
Indoda ethandwayo, ezalwe ngaphantsi kwembonakaliso yengonyama, yintaba-mlilo yeemvakalelo. Ngaliphi na ixesha, unokutshatyalaliswa ngokunyeliswa ngentshiseko kunye neembalo zamabango ukubonakala komlingane wakhe. Okanye kungaphumelela ngeengxelo malunga nendlela enhle ngayo namhlanje kwaye iyancipha kangakanani kwiimbonakalo zayo ezimangalisayo. Indoda-ingonyama iyakwazi ukuncoma ngakumbi kunanoma ubani. Ngokubanzi, ukukwazi ukukholisa isondo esahlukileyo kuyamangalisa. Ngothando nangengonyama-ndoda, eli lizwi lamandla lenkcubeko liyakwandisa amaxesha amaninzi. Ukudlala ngothando umntu onjalo ukukopela akayi kubala. Kodwa kuphela kwimeko yokuba kulo msebenzi wokubonakalisa uvelwano phakathi kwendoda nomfazi ayithathi inxaxheba yakhe. Ukuziphatha okuphumayo kwintanda yakhe ethandwayo ngendoda engonyama akuyi kunyamezela phantsi kweemeko. Ngokuqinisekileyo, akayi kwenza nantlungu na: uya kulubala ngokuhlala kwakhe ngeenyanga, ezele ubuhlungu obungasifanelanga, ngoluvo lwakhe, inzondo. Kodwa lowo uya kudlala naye, mhlawumbi, evela kuye uya kufumana isifundo esibi kakhulu. Ngethuba eliphezulu, nemiphumo yomzimba.
Ungayiqonda njani ukuba umntu ozelwe phantsi komqondiso wengonyama uthanda?
Ukuziphatha komthandi-thandana ngothando yinto eya kukunika. Lo ngumntu ongaqhelekanga, ngoko akufanelekile ukujonga ukungabikho kwengqwalasela kwinqanaba lakhe okanye ixesha eliphambili phakathi kweefowuni zakhe, njengesibonakaliso sokungabikho kwemvakalelo. Ngokuphambene noko, ngokugqithiseleyo loo moya uyanyamalala, ngakumbi ukuba uyayithanda. Ngokukodwa ukuba emva kokuhlukaniswa kwexesha elide uvela nge-chic bouquet of flowers okanye esinye isipho esivulekile. Ukwahlula ingonyama othandweni yindlela yokugxininisa okungafaniyo, ukubonisa umntu akhethiweyo ukuba ulungele ukulinda. Kodwa-kuphela kwimeko apho uvakalelwa khona. Ingonyama yakhe ingakwazi ukwahlula ngokugqibeleleyo. Kwaye ukuba akaqapheli ukuphindaphinda, ngoko ebomini bakhe intanda ayisayi kumbona kwakhona.
Enyanisweni, naphezu kokungaqiniseki kwezenzo zesithandwa-yindoda, kulula ukukhupha kwizenzo ezithathiweyo le nkosikazi. Okokuqala, amadoda anenjongo yokunika inkosikazi yakhe yonke into ayifunayo nangakumbi, ngamanye amaxesha amlahla ithuba lokubonisa ubuntu bakhe kwenye indawo, ngaphezu kobudlelwane kunye nentanda yakhe. Okwesibini, lo mntu unobuthakathaka babini: unyanzelekile ngokukhawuleza kwaye ukulungele yonke into ngenxa yokunyaniseka kwakhe kwinqanaba lekhethiweyo. Ukusuka kwizinto eziyingozi, kuzo zonke iingozi, ezinamandla, eziphumelelayo neengonyama ezivuyayo, ukuba unqwenela, umfazi unako ukuguqula umntu onjalo kwi-kitty flux, ngokunyameka nangokuthembekileyo egobile ekhayeni lakhe. Sifuna kuphela ukumqinisekisa ukuba kuye, ngaphandle kwakhe, akukho mntu ukhona kwihlabathi. Yaye ke, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukondla njalo le ntembelo ngokubonakaliswa kwengqalelo. Kodwa ngexesha elifanayo kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele: ukuzingca ngokungaqhelekanga kunye nokuxhamla ukukhutshwa komntu, ingonyama yindoda ibuhlungu kakhulu, kwaye inzima kakhulu ingcatshiswa. Akunakubizwa ngokuba yi-vindictive. Injongo yokukhonkxa ummangalelwa akaze alandelwe, qi niseka: ubaluleke kakhulu kwindalo yonkqileyo ayayi kufumana isohlwayo sakhe. Nangona kunjalo, ingonyama inokulimaza, nokuba ingafuni. Ngokukodwa ummeli othandwa ngulo mqondiso omangalisayo we-zodiac system.
Yintoni enye into ehambelana nendlela yokuziphatha yothando lweengonyama ngothando?
Umnqweno wokukhanya kwi-pedestal. Bahlale benqwenela ukuqaphela uluntu, kodwa xa iintliziyo zabo zikhanyisa ngomlilo wothando, aba bantu banomdla kuzo zonke iintlalo. Indoda enyukela eNtabeni i-Everest, nje ukukhalisela ngendlela ethanda ngayo wakhe owakhethiweyo. Okanye uya kwenza impendulo kwiofisi ye-registry, enqwenela ukubonga abasebenzi ngesimo sengqondo sokunyamekela kuye nangomdla wakhe. Le ndoda ngaphandle kokungabaza iya kuhamba uhambo olude, kuphela ukuzisa isithandwa isipho esingaqhelekanga kunye yokuqala iya kubizwa ukuba sijwayelane nabazali bayo. Kwaye oko akuthethi ukuba uzimisele ukutshata nomntu othandekayo. Nangona emtshatweni womtshato umntu onengonyama othandanayo akavumelani ixesha elide: ngokuqinisekileyo ufuna uqinisekiso lobungqina bokuba lo wesifazane ungowaso: namhlanje, ngomso nakusoloko.