Kwiincwadi ezindala, unokufumana izikhokelo ngemifanekiso yesiFulentshi uthando (oku kukuthiwa ngesondo ngomlomo namhlanje). Ezi nkathazo zazikhohliwe ngexesha. Oku kubangelwa ukuba ipoko nganye ibulethe ubudlelwane bayo kunye nomzimba womntu kunye nesenzo sobudlelwane bezesondo.
Kwiintlobo ezininzi zanamhlanje, akusiyo imfihlo ukuba izindebe kunye nolwimi zixhobo eziqhelekileyo ezenza izinto ezininzi zokuzonwabisa. Izilwanyana zesini zesini zesilisa, oogqirha, i-sexologists zibiza i-chetecio, kunye neendawo ezisetyhini zendawo-i-cunnilingus.
Ngokwahlukileyo kwimbono yabantu ukuba i-oral caresses iyindlela ephezulu kakhulu yesondo, abameli abaninzi besifazane bayenqaba ukwenza olu hlobo luthando, bethetha ukuba ubulili bomlomo buziphatha kakubi kwaye lufuna ukungundoqo kobugebengu bendalo, kwaye ngenxa yoko, akunakwenzeka ukukhulula umfazi. Nangona kunjalo, abafazi abanjalo ababuza isizathu sokuba babe neentloni ngomyeni wabo. Amantombazana ayesaba ukuba iphunga kunye neendleko zeendawo zabo ezinqabileyo zibonakala zingathandeki kumlingane. Nangona kunjalo, sekude kwaziwa ukuba inkohlakalo yendalo yebhinqa, okwenyani, ukuba le ntokazi inempilo kwaye iyayikhathalela, iyamjabulisa abantu.
Ukongezelela, izabelo zesondo zithi ukungathandeki kunye nokwesaba malunga nokungahlambuluki kwezesondo kubangelucalulo olungenalo naluphi na uhlobo lwezonyango. Kwintsimi yomlomo yomntu inombolo ebonakalayo ye-microbes ihlala kwaye apha kukho ezininzi kuneendawo ezikufutshane. Ubulili bomlomo, ngokubhekiselele kwimizimba yezocansi, i-caress eyona nto ibalulekileyo yokuqinisa ubudlelwane bezesondo. Emva koko, ukumanga nje kweendawo ezithandanayo kunokuzisa umlingane kwizinga eliphezulu le-orgasm. Uhlobo olunjalo lwe-caresses lungaba yinxalenye yesenzo sokulala ngesondo.
Ngethuba lobudlelwane obusondeleyo, unako ukufumana iifom ephuma kumlingane wakho ngendlela engacacile, malunga neminqweno yakhe, kwaye ukwabelana ngeengcamango zakho zesini kunye neziqhotyoshelweyo. Ezinye zezesondo ezifanelekileyo azikwazi ukuphumla ngexesha lesondo lomlomo. Nangona kunjalo, umntu kufuneka azame "ukuphulaphula" iimvakalelo zomntu othandekayo. Kuyimfuneko ukuba ube nenyameko ngakumbi: vavanya kwaye ubukele impendulo yomlingane. Ukunandipha umyeni wakhe, njengendlela yokusabela, kuphakamisa umnqweno wokukunelisa. Kwenzeka ukuba ibhinqa lihlazeka ngoluvo lokuba iqabane lakhe liyakuchukumisa imilomo yeendawo ezithandana naye. Kodwa khumbula ukuba indoda iyahlala iyanelisekile ukuthoba intanda yakhe. Ukongezelela, ukuzingca kwakhe kukuvuyela ukuvuleka nokuthembela kwakhe, kunye nokupheliswa kwazo zonke izithintelo zengqondo kwezobudlelwane babo.
Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo kunye nomntu othandekayo yimpumelelo yomfazi. Indoda iyifumana isisombululo sesondo. Ubudlelwane phakathi kwezi zibini zakhiwa ngothando, ububele kunye nokuqonda.
Ngaba isondo somlomo sinokuziphatha? Ngoku kutshanje, lolu hlobo lwe-caress lugqityiwe ukuvalwa, okwakusoloko kukhokelela ekutshatyalalisweni kwemibandela yomtshato. Isizathu sokutshatyalaliswa kobudlelwane sasingaphantsi kwezinto kunye nokungaqiniseki kwiimbono zeqabane. Elinye iqabane labekwa umlomo ngomlomo, kwaye okwesibini ayinako ukuyanelisa umlingane wakhe ngenxa yokuzimela kwakhe.
Inani elikhulu lamadoda liyamkeleka kulwalamano lwesini lomlomo, kodwa i-30% yabo yothando lwesiFrentshi ayilungelelanisi. Kwamanye amadoda, ubulili bomlomo budibaniswa kuphela nemicimbi yokungabikho komtshato, apho kungekho nto inqatshelwe. Kwaye ke umfazi wakhe ulungele ukulala ngesondo. Olunye udidi lwamadoda, uthando lwaseFransi luyamangalisa, kuba baqala ukucinga ukuba iqabane labo likhululekile kwaye linonakele, ngoko ke akunakunelisa umfazi onjalo.
Kungcono ukuthatha ixesha ukuthobela ngokupheleleyo umnqweno wakho wesini kunye nesondo lomlomo?
Kunconywa ukuba uqale ngokuhlwa kobuFrentshi ngothando lokubhukuda. Le nkqubo iyanqumla kwaye ikhulule, iguqule umtsalane oyifunayo kwaye isuse konke ukungathandabuzeki ngokungahlambulukanga kweendawo ezikude. Ngaphambili, indoda kufuneka ihlotswe ngokucophelela ukuqinisekisa ukuba i-caresses yamabhinqa ayifaki ukuvakalelwa.
Pose "69" okanye ifowuni echitshiweyo yokulala ngesondo ayifanelekanga. Ukuba uthabatha injalo, akunakulungele ukukhathaza iqabane lakho kunye nexesha elifanayo ujonge i-caresses yakho. Ama-sexologists ancoma amaqabane ukuba athole i-orgasm kwisini somlomo ukuze axhathane. Ngoko, umzekelo, ibhinqa lilele emhlane wakhe, kwaye indoda iyakwanga izithanga zayo ize iqhube kwiindawo ezithandanayo. Indoda akufanele iguqulwe ngokukhawuleza amandla okubanga, ukuze ujabule ngakumbi, utshintsho kufuneka lube luhamba kancane.
Emva kokutshintsha iimbopheleleko, indoda kufuneka ilale ngasemva kwayo okanye imele. Kuyinto enqwenelekayo ukuba iqabane lizame ubuninzi beendlela ukuze zizikhethele zona zona zifanelekileyo kwaye zikhulu kakhulu.
Enyanisweni, isondo somlomo akufanele sibe yedwa yecala lamalungu esondo. I-foreplay yobundlobongela inceda abatshatileyo abahlala ndawonye kunye nobudala obuqinileyo, bavuselelane kunye nokwandisa izinga lobungakanani. I-sexologists icebisa ukusebenzisa i-caresses yomlomo kulabo bafazi abanobudlova.
Ukuxhomekeka kwiinkcubeko zesizwe kunye nesimo sengqondo somhlaba kwisini somlomo siyahluka. Ngoko, abantu baseUkraine abaphiki ukuba lolu hlobo lwe-caresses kunye ne-70% yezibini eziqinileyo ziqinisekiswa ukuba ngale ndlela baxhalabele amaqabane abo ubuncinci kanye ngeveki.
Abantu baseRussia banomdla kakhulu, kuba ama-40% aseYurophu amabhinqa avuma ukulala ngesondo. I-20% yezesondo ezifanelekileyo zibandakanya uthando lwesiFrentshi ezingaphezu kwezi-4 ngeenyanga.
Kodwa ummeli weshumi waseGrisi uthanda uthando lwesiFrentshi imihla ngemihla. Amaphesenti ama-50 amabini aseFransi asebenzisana ngesondo ngomlomo phantse imihla ngemihla, kwaye ama-60% amabhinqa aseFransi enza amaqabane abo e-felalli ngaphezu kwesinye ngeveki.